what's up man mad artist in here from the attractive man . com
I mean what you said is argentina right now and the stereotype here is that the
women are the least friendly of all the Latin American countries whether it's
sure not i don't know I've heard the stereotype few times throughout my
travels South America I've only been here two days but I kind of noticed a
difference especially coming from Brazil where the women are are just really
sweet
so let's talk about how to stay in the zone how to keep going even when you're
getting photo rejected when you're getting reactions that you don't really
want how do you keep going to motivate yourself so that you can get success
because here's the deal and we probably all been there right I've been there
you've probably been there when you're getting a few negative reactions or
reactions that you don't really like and then your state starts going down you
don't feel really great you don't really want to keep going to let the next
couple women just kind of walked by because you're like well I'm probably
just gonna get that same reaction
yeah so how do you flip the script how do you change your mentality so that you
can get great results even if your first couple approaches weren't that great
well first i want you to realize that it's not your fault that you feel that
way okay your brain is hardwired to look at the negative it's called the
negativity bias in psychology and it's basically this it's your mammal brain
which associate's danger or survival with social situations so it's basically
telling you
wait you shouldn't be doing this because you can get banned from the tribe if you
hit on the alpha males girlfriend so it's looking at the negative scenario
right away which logically we know that's not true you know we don't live
in tribes anymore this is a big city but approach to grow it doesn't go great
even if everybody around sees it is like judging me who cares i can walk one
block and it's all new people but your mammal brain doesn't know that so it
looks at the negative is trying to keep you safe
it's trying to protect your survival ok so first just gotta accept that it's
normal that it's natural and it's no big deal
second I want you to ask yourself two questions after every approach
I don't care how great the approach when her bad you think the approach
how short the approach one even if you're just like a real quick and she
walked away start feeling a little down
ask yourself two questions it's gonna make you feel better and it's going to
help you learn and progress much faster number one
the question is what was great about that approach what was great about what
did you do that was awesome
what did she do you might have just don't know what way what did you do that
was awesome
sometimes the only answer that you can come up with as well I approached her
nothing really happened but i believe that roadster but that is also that is
great allow yourself to feel joy about that allow yourself to come congratulate
yourself that you that you approach because the heck else approaches like
never see guys approaching during the daytime nighttime once in awhile but
even then even if you're only approaching at night still allow
yourself to feel great just because you approach because this is a conditioning
process you have to condition yourself to take action every single time that
you approach know your your conditioning yourself and you're feeding courage your
building that courage possible every time you choose not to do it and you say
well I'm not going to do it you make up some excuse or maybe she's with that guy
can tell and you decide not to do it
you're strengthening that beer muscle which is not what you want to do so it's
great even if you just walked up to her and nothing happened that's still
awesome experience so allow yourself to experience allow yourself to feel joy
for just a few seconds so ask yourself what was great about that be like fuck
yeah I did it
that's awesome hell yeah at yourself on the back next question that you asked
that question is what was what could you do to make it we can prevent done to
make it better
ok so the approach that i did yesterday and if you wrote the first 1i did
walking out of the plan to tell room at my hotel was a girl walk
down the street stopped her and told her she was cute and she said like no
entiendo just walked away I should understand i don't even think i got to
the compromise start speaking English and she didn't understand i felt a
little like discouraged for like a few seconds but I ask myself is to questions
the answer to the first question was well I did it and it was the first girl
i saw i didn't make excuses i went for right away
hell yeah that's awesome and the second question how can I made it even better i
thought well you know what happened i wasn't really smiling you know I
could've smiled a little bit more that would have made it better
most likely so i went through that process of asking myself and answering
my answer those two questions really quickly it only takes 10 maybe 30
seconds and you'll start feeling better and you're learning because you're
giving yourself feedback by the way if you want me to give you feedback
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acad / inner circle anyways after every single approach i want you to start
asking yourself those two questions what was what was great about that approach
that's like the inner game question to make you feel good to make you see like
what did you do that was awesome so that you don't start going negative and start
feeling bad starts turning into a downward spiral you don't want that
because then you can miss a lot of future opportunities in the question
second question that's to give you feedback so you keep progressing is how
could you have made that even better
so start asking yourself those questions and leave a comment down below
I want to hear about your results and how those questions and this tip is
helping you
it really can be a huge game changer if you implement it and by the way also
have a free training for you video that teaches you exactly what to say after
hello to spark attraction and keep the conversation going so I'm gonna put a
link to that down below check that out it's totally free and
you rock man keep approaching keep watching these videos keep up the good
work piece
what's up guys i wanted to make a quick edit to this video because i just spent
the last two hours or so doing approaches you're gonna set is and the
girls are awesome
in fact there's one right now
yes I take back everything that i said about them not being is friendly and the
stereotype I heard it definitely doesn't seem to be true
excuse me excuse me real quick hi this is really random but I was just walking
this one and I saw you and
I just got your absolutely adore
I had to say hi
yeah