hi Adrienne Everheart here and I thought a great place to come to you and tell you a
little bit about warmth would be my kitchen and my stove and my messy kitchen all my notes on my
refrigerator anyway I want to talk about warmth warps is really not really spoken about a lot I
don't know if your parents or your mom or anyone ever said oh you need to show people warmth it's
not really something that we talk about so I wanted to take a quick minute and talk about
warmth and how incredibly powerful it is in your relationship with a man so when you're out in the
business world you're not necessarily always warm you're in your thinking mind you're doing you're
making things happen you're at work you're go go go you don't really have time to be warm
but you could in fact I encourage you to try it purposefully be warm to someone at work slow down
and take that extra moment to be warm so how do you do this well there's a lot of different ways
you can show warmth but you want to make sure it just comes from an authentic place inside of you
sometimes your boss might show up for work with a box of doughnuts or treats everyone to lunch
these are ways to show warmth I'm really a big fan of nonverbals when you smile and let someone
know touch your heart and say thank you and let them know that you've just had a moment where you
connected with them and you've shared warmth with them every creature on this earth loves
warmth from a little bird that you keep water in your bird bath for to petting your Kitty's
head on your way out the door to walking your dog to smiling and waving at your neighbor or telling
your boyfriend your husband or your partner I feel so special right now that made me feel
really special when you open the door for me today oh I feel like your little princess or when they
do something well they do anything that they're going out of their way to help you with around
house even something as simple as remembering to get ketchup for your french fries thank you
so much I love ketchup for my french fries it's a little thing but all these little things add up to
an intense bond that ties the two of you together so when you're at work and you're in your thinking
you're doing mine then you come home you have to shift gears or when he texts or he calls you you
have to shift gears and 90% of the women I work with are strong powerful dynamite career women
who are struggling and with their love life so I believe the secret here is with warmth you're
at work you're go go go you're in doing mode and then it's really really hard to turn off we want
to explain things we have expectations we want them to understand we want to really make sure
all of our thoughts are covered and feelings are covered and that's not warm that's cold
that's you in the boardroom laying out all the details of the plan so leave a little mystery
be open to warmth to even the smallest thing you do when he texts and says hi good morning that's
a wonderful thing to have happen and let him know oh it feels so good to hear from you my toes curl
when I hear my text chime and I know it's you little things like this let a person know how
important and dear they are to you without going overboard you're not offering them this warmth to
get them to do anything or to be there for you you're offering them this warrant because it's
coming from an authentic place inside of you so in my next free calling class for the love
Academy we're gonna be talking about warmth my special guest is gonna be an DW Shepherd he is
an amazing amazing coach you're gonna really get a lot out of this call so I hope you can join us
next Tuesday at 9 p.m. I believe that's July 5th and please email me at ever heart coaching
comm if you have any questions we're gonna be taking calls and answering your questions
live on Tuesday night I look forward to talking to you soon and stay warm bye