- Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me?
- Not seriously, no.
- [Host] Have you casually considered it?
- Um, yeah, let's just take the shot.
(laughing) - Let's just take this.
(symphony music playing)
- [Host] Who are you guys?
- I'm Amy.
- I'm Shannon.
- I'm Hope.
- Swanks.
- I'm Hailey.
- And I'm Carlos.
- [Host] And what's special about you guys?
- We are newly engaged.
- [Host] Congratulations!
How long have you guys been together?
- Well we met in 2010,
so we've known each other for like ten years.
How long we've been together...
unclear. (laughing)
- I say seven. - Like seven, yeah.
- I say seven years.
- [Both] Eight years.
- [Host] Let's drink to that.
Take a shot.
- [Both] (laughing)
(symphony music playing)
- All right.
What was your very first impression of me?
- I was walking into Encore in Tacoma.
It's like a nightclub,
and he was like walking down the stairs.
I looked at him and I like elbowed my friend,
I was like, "oh my gosh, I think he's so cute."
And then we were making out
on the dance floor. - Yeah. (groaning)
- But I was like,
"okay, well I'm tired, - So...
I'm gonna go sit down. See ya later."
And he was like, "wait,
like can I get your number?" - We kissed on the dance floor
I don't really do that, so...
I should probably get your number.
- I mean if it wasn't for him,
we like, wouldn't be sitting here today.
(laughing)
- What was your very first impression of me?
- I thought you were very hot.
I remember the very first time I met you.
And I was still dating someone else,
and I was like, "she's definitely out of my league."
"She's definitely straight."
- Little did you know.
- [Both] (laughing)
- How were we raised differently?
And has that ever been an issue in our relationship?
- I grew up in Mexico,
like, very, very, very poor.
And you were like, pretty well off.
Like now, it's an issue cause I had no money growing up.
Like, I liked spending all my money.
- It's gotten to the point where he just gives me
all his money.
- And she gives me allowance.
- And I give him an allowance.
And I know that sounds very controlling,
but it's for the best.
Because we would not have a house if it was up to him.
- Is there anything important
that we completely disagree about?
Not important. - No.
- I feel like we
disagree about - Not important.
- [Both] Small things.
- Like I would say like, he wants to like,
go to oiled nights, (laughing)
where as maybe, like, I don't.
- Is there anything about getting married that scares you,
that you haven't shared with me?
- I feel like the only thing I'm scared about
is just like, all of my grad school debt
that you're now gonna take on.
I just feel bad because if I die,
like, it falls to you.
- (laughing) - So I feel bad about that.
- I guess when you put it like that.
- [Both] (laughing)
- In what ways am I not the type of person
you imagined you would marry?
- Every way.
- Mhm.
- My parents raised me thinking that I could only
aspire for Prince Charming.
That picture was white, blonde, blue eyes.
- Yeah.
- You weren't anything I was expecting,
and I love it.
- Yeah, I'm so spicy huh?
- (chuckling)
- What is something you have always wanted to try
in the bedroom that we haven't done?
- I'm actually gonna take a shot cause I would not
describe something like that.
- [Host] Because you've tried everything.
- (laughing)
Yeah that, that part.
(symphony music playing)
To all the thing I'm trying to do.
- I feel like the only thing is like,
I'd want somebody who's more dominant,
but I don't really feel like that's gonna come from you,
so if I ever want that,
I think I'd need to go to somebody else.
- [Host] Are you guys monogamous?
- We have slept with at least one other person,
but you are the most important person to me for sure.
So like, I wanna prize our relationship
over everything else.
- Yeah, same.
- Has our sexual chemistry changed in five years?
How?
- Every time we have sex,
it's like, better than when we started dating.
Oh, what was that?
(laughing) - No. No, no, no.
That's not what I mean.
I think things have slowed down.
- Yeah.
- It attributed to your age.
- And to live with another person.
- Yeah, that's a big one.
- It's really hard.
She's there looking all pretty (laughing)
- [Host] The other person?
- No, her. - [Both] (laughing)
- She's sitting there next to me,
she's beautiful,
and I'm like, - There's another person.
- Wanting the booty,
but then the other person is like,
in the room, so it's really hard finding
ways to like, just do it.
- What does your family honestly think about me?
- They love you. A lot.
They might love her more than they love me.
- Well, my dad's particularly cold to anyone new
entering into the family.
- I don't think he was very happy about you being queer
for a long time.
I think he had a pretty strong vision of what he thought
your life was gonna be.
But then I think he learned that I care about you,
and that you're my number one priority,
and I think that really changed his mind on a lot of things.
- I think it took a long time for my parents
to want us to get married.
They saw us in our early years fighting a lot.
There was a long time when you were like,
"I don't fucking care about them."
"I don't care what they think."
And that hurt me.
- Cause you were in the middle.
- I was in the middle trying to defend both you guys.
- [Host] What did you guys used to fight about?
- You were not showing me affection.
- We used to be long distance.
So you projected a lot of
- Yeah.
- negativity on to me,
and I didn't know how to fix that.
I didn't know how to cope with that.
- But you stuck around.
- Yeah, and you stuck around.
- Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me?
- Not seriously, no.
- [Host] Have you casually considered it?
- Um, yeah, let's just take the shot.
(laughing) - Let's just take this.
- Have you ever seriously considered breaking up with me?
- I mean, yeah, when you were not showing me affection.
The beginning of our relationship, yeah.
- And I mean I seriously considered it for you too.
I was done with the drama.
I was done with the fighting.
I was done with everything.
- Yeah.
- I was still young,
and this guy was a hot mess.
And you said, "give me another chance."
"I know I need to improve."
And boy am I good.
I gave you a second chance.
- When did you know you wanted to marry me?
- I knew for sure when we first started dating that
I was like, if I don't date this person,
I'm gonna regret it for the rest of my life,
and I had that really strong feeling, so,
- [Host] Do you feel similar?
- I think for a long time I like, didn't know
if I would marry at all.
I mean I feel like you're just so much better
than anyone I could imagine myself with,
because you're like, really smart and ambitious,
and really attractive.
- [Both] (giggling)
- And so, it's like all of the things in my self-loathing
I didn't think I deserved.
And I feel like you've shown me that I do deserve you.
- When I realized she was my best friend,
that's when I knew she had to be my wife actually.
- That's so cute.
- [Host] Great, thank you.
That was beautiful. (clapping)
- If you like to drink or tell the truth,
you should play truth or drink.
- It'll break your relationship apart,
or make it stronger.
(clapping)