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Friedrich Nietzsche's philosophy has had tremendous influence on what we now call
personal development and self-improvement his work is still
amazingly relevant and I studied me too many years ago before moving on to other
philosophies and other methods and technologies when it comes to
self-improvement and personal development but there is still much to
be learned about his work and by the end of this video I will show you how to
apply his philosophy to empower yourself immediately and make sure you stay tuned
to the end of this video because I'm going to show you how you can take this
even deeper with some free training that I'm giving away so what is Amor Fati
and is it even realistic for you to apply in your life if you think yes
please type yes in the comments right down below so here's my take on amor
fati from an NLP perspective with the phrase amor fati means a love of your
thing or lover of fate but more the way to Nietzsche meant it was lover of your
fate so what it is not it's not a fake it until you make it so it's not
pretending to be in love with your life so that you eventually get there you
find your way there in personal development and self-help there's that
whole idea fake it to you make it and I actually disagree with fake it till you
make it I don't think that's healthy you see people a lot of times who are
pretending to be positive about something that they really feel awful
about and they don't really feel positive about it so it's the same thing
with amor fati you're not going to pretend to love your
fate until you begin to love your faith anymore than you can pretend to love
someone until you finally start to love that person it's just not going to
happen that way it's just completely unrealistic to love every aspect of your
life but what you can do is you can embrace every aspect of your life even
the negative stuff you're not going to just have this blanket love for it all
you're going to have to deal with it and address the positive differently then
you're going to address the negative so don't put that kind of pressure on
yourself it's not going to help you putting that extra pressure on yourself
it's only going to make this a lot harder it's not going to make you fall
in love with your life you've had in the past people pressure you to do things
applying that on yourself is the same thing it's not going to help in this
situation so just let that go don't put the burden of trying to love
your life all the time no matter what just let that go so how can you apply
and more fatty in a realistic way in your life that can really help you well
it starts with deciding that you're going to live a happy life and deciding
that you're going to love your lives no matter what happens even when bad things
happen even when negative things happen so it doesn't mean then you have to like
every bad thing that happens when something bad happens you don't have to
suddenly contort yourself oh I gotta like this or I gotta love it
because I'm agreed to do this and more fancy thing no it's saying okay yeah I
know that bad things are gonna happen what I'm gonna do with those things is
I'm not gonna push them away I'm not gonna blow those up so that my focus
goes on only those things so I can't see the other good things I'm gonna know
that I love my life and that I'm happy and in a way the negative things sort of
ensure that the negative things make that even stronger the negative in spite
of the negative things that happen to you you're going to love life anyway in
spite of the negative things happening to you you're going to be happy anyway
and then the other part of it is you're gonna take those things that are not so
good that are negative and you ask yourself well how can I learn from these
things how can I take the negative parts and turn it into something different how
can I use that to fall in love with my life even more how can I use that
to make myself even happier rather than just sitting within and saying oh this
sucks and I'm just stuck with this and that this and life sucks and I'm unhappy
you know we can we can take we can change your attitude about this and when
you change your attitude about it things you see in the world around you will
start to change as well you will start to see more opportunities you will start
to see a less hostile world around you and you'll start to see a world that
seems to favor you because that's what your training your mind to do your
training your mind to sort for those things because you've made this decision
that you're going to fall in love with your life it's not like you arrived at a
certain place and I'm just in love with life no it's it's a progression you're
going to continuously fall in love with your life deeper and deeper have you
ever fallen in love with someone how did that even happen well at a certain point
you started to feel some feelings for that person you also had to allow those
feelings to happen you had to allow them to grow to
you at certain point said okay I'm gonna I'm not gonna hold this thing back
anymore I'm just gonna let it go and see what happens and when you did that what
your mind started to do is it started to sort for information that confirmed
those feelings that confirm that belief that you're in love with this person and
you kind of either overlook the negative parts or you see that those there's
negative aspects and that could be physical parts of the person you don't
find attractive that could be parts of their personality that you don't find
attractive but in spite of that the feelings are stronger that you do love
this person and so you seek out that information you sort for that
information in that person and we have to do this with anybody there's always
gonna be aspects about someone that we don't like there's always gonna be
physical affect parts of someone that we don't find attractive there's always
gonna be parts of their personality that we don't exactly like so we can't say oh
no I have to pay attention to those parts and I have to address them I have
to focus on them or I have to to put my attention on them well if you do that
you'd never fall in love or you would fall out of love very quickly because
there's always going to be those parts that you just don't work for you so we
have to overlook that we have to overlook an imperfect world
to be happy in this world we have to overlook the fact that we're not perfect
so that we can love ourselves and our life in general is never going to be
perfect it's always going to be this negative aspect so we we sort for the
good and when I say overlooked what I don't I
don't mean to imply that we don't address the negative or that we don't
address problems we have to do those things but some things we can't change
it started raining today I was hoping for a sunny day I can't change that so I
have to accept it I'm not ignoring it but there's nothing I can really do
about it so I accept it and I'm still making this
video anyway so the first thing you can do is just presuppose that you do love
your life now how is that different than fake it
till you make it I made a video on NLP presuppositions where I basically tell
you exactly how to do that it's not about fake it until you make it
presupposition is different and presupposition is very powerful so start
off by presupposing that you already love your life and by the way I will
link that video on NLP presuppositions to this video as well now that you're
presupposing that you do love your life and that you are in love with your life
and you're in love with your fate now start sorting for that information start
collecting these experiences that you've had that support this presupposition
that you love your life and you know you don't want to just look at experiences
that you love and the things that you do the activities that you do that you love
you also want to think about the people that you love because they're a part of
your life and it's not necessarily caused by them you're projecting that
love onto them so that's coming from you so you can collect these experiences to
confirm that you do indeed love your life by just just by accessing the many
hundreds if not thousands of experiences that you've had of that you've loved it
doesn't have to be of being in love it has to be just experiences that you love
you've you've had many of these experiences don't tell me that oh I
don't never had any experience that I've that I've loved not true you wouldn't
even know what love is if you didn't have those experiences so access them
start bringing them in see how many you can hold and one and at one time in one
space now look at the things that you don't like even the things that maybe
you hate in your life and look at them and ask yourselves is there something
you can learn from this ask yourself what values do these
experiences that you don't like have in your life because they actually do they
do have some value otherwise you wouldn't even remember them so if you
have a strong feeling towards something chances are there is a very positive
value lurking underneath that negative feeling so start accessing those
feelings that you don't necessarily are the experiences you don't necessarily
like are the things in your life that you don't like and ask yourself what is
the value in these experiences when you do this you train your mind to find the
value in everything that happens in your life and when you start doing that your
mind will automatically start to do this it will always be looking for the value
and so it kind of looks past the not-so-good part because there's always
gonna be things that you don't like that just accept that right now so what'll
start to happen is your mind will start to be trained on finding value so even
when something doesn't feel good you will look for the value in it and that
is precious when you can look at all life as having tremendous value you can
look at all experiences as having tremendous value the thing that's
hardest for us to accept is when we experience something that makes us
experience a negative emotion and it seems completely meaningless like when
somebody we love passes away and there seems to be no reason or logic or reason
behind it it can be extremely painful so look for the value in in all of the
things in your life that that you don't necessarily like but of course look for
the value and all the things that you do like to don't overlook that as well
Nietzsche was perhaps one of the first philosophers to really
go in-depth about value and values re-evaluating your values noted
understanding the value that you see in things that nothing really has an
inherent value that we're always projecting value on our experiences
we're always projecting value on objects and on people and really taking the time
to evaluate that and always sorting and looking for that value because it's
always there because we're projecting on we're projecting meanings all around us
all the time even things that we would consider meaningless we're still
projecting meaninglessness as a value onto that thing so the more you start to
understand this and the more you start to understand that it's coming as a
projection from you you start to realize that you have much more control over
this than what you think it's not like life is just happening to you and
throwing negative experiences at you are throwing negative people at you you
start to realize well you're this is the meaning you're making of those
experiences it's the meaning you're making of those people and if you're
making that meaning and you're projecting that meaning and it's coming
from you then you can change it and this is the most empowering thing I could
probably possibly teach and because it's one of the most empowering things that I
think meetcha taught this is me basically passing on what I think is the
most powerful most empowering lesson that he taught us so now you know how to
sort for informations that creates value in your life but what you don't know is
how to little isset your deepest unconscious values which is driving your
every decision so that's why I created a four-part video series in the very first
part of the video actually the second video I go into how to elicit your
values and when you know what that is when you know what those values are
those deeper unconscious values you then know what drives your decisions you
didn't know the projections you're making and the meanings you're making
about all everything that happens in your life so you want to make sure that
you get your hands on this training so you can learn how to do this so how do
you get these videos I put a link down here in the description you just click
on that link and you get access to those videos you get one a day for four days
I'll also put it in the comments right here below and also link it to the card
in this video as well so how do you find value in your life even in the things
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