Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Every once in a while, a woman is going to test you.
she's gonna throw you a test.
Some people call this a "shit test".
Some people say it's a test on your confidence or your masculinity.
Here's the thing, let's not get down on women for this because when they test you, they're
not doing it consciously.
This is something that they're doing unconsciously or I should say when they see your reaction
to whatever it is that they say and I'll get into what that is in a second, some examples.
They're just seeing how you react and they're picking up on what the reaction is.
Again it's not that they're doing it on this conscious level where they're saying "Okay,
now it's time to test his manliness or his confidence."
No, you're going to see that these tests do come up and a lot of guys fail them and they
end up being extremely unattractive to the woman.
Let's go over what those are right now.
Sometimes a woman will say that there's something that she doesn't like.
Let's say you say "I really like going and seeing horror movies."
And she goes "You like seeing horror movies?
Oh my God, I hate horror movies."
Your reaction to fail the test would be "Well yeah I mean, I don't go all the time."
Or saying something to appease her or try to agree with her and then you fail the test.
Why?
Because it's very obvious that you're just now accommodating to be just like her to get
her to like you and that doesn't work.
Actually the opposite works.
You standing firm on what you like, what you're interested in, even if she's not, is going
to be the most attractive.
Be you.
If you like horror movies or country music or whatever and she disagrees or doesn't like
it, stay firm to it.
Say something like "Really?
You don't like horror movies?
You are totally missing out."
That's going to be the way to pass the test because it looks so unconfident to just try
to be like her.
Here's another test that happens, again unconscious.
A girl starts talking about her guy friends.
She talks about her guy friends, she's gonna hang out with a guy.
The second you get jealous and start saying "Who are these guys and how do you know them?"
and throwing out a billion different questions and acting very obviously like you're jealous
and very uncomfortable with the situation.
This is going to show you're not confident, you're not secure in yourself, your self esteem
is low.
All because you are so scared that because she has guy friends that she's going to cheat
on you or she's going to leave or something like that.
Here's the thing.
If a girl wants to leave, if a girl wants to cheat on you, if a girl doesn't like you,
then she'll go ahead and do that.
There's nothing you can do to stop it.
You being jealous, needy and controlling is only going to make it worse and show that
you are not secure in who you are.
Let her have her guy friends.
Of course it's okay to be curious.
Like "Oh, who are they?"
Because you might ask that when she talks about a female friend, that's okay.
But if you're interrogating her, it's not going to be good.
She might even say "Oh, my ex just texted me or whenever I go out all these guys hit
on me."
Here's what you're going to be doing when that happens.
You're going to be completely non-reactive.
You're gonna say something like, that's funny, interesting or "Really?
Wow, I can't believe he's still texting you" or "You get hot on at the bars?
That must be so annoying."
With a big smile on your face.
The whole idea is to be non-reactive anytime a girl throws something like that your way
she might be saying "Is he going to be jealous again?"
most of the time unconscious and you're not going to act like that.
Why?
Because you are secure in yourself and you are confident in yourself and that is going
to be the most attractive and better for you.
She might say something to you like "I hope you can handle a... fill in the blank."
She might say "Hope you can handle sporty girl.
Hope you can handle a girl who likes to stay up all night.
I hope you can handle a girl who likes the party.
I hope you can handle..."
Whatever it might be in terms of who she is.
And here's the deal, if you seriously actually can't handle that and you find out something
about her that you don't like, you don't have to stick around.
But if she says that and of course you don't care, show you don't care.
Don't be like "Oh, no, well, no, I can handle that.
No, I can totally handle that."
Just do the exact opposite.
"Oh really?
I'm never gonna be able to a handle girl like you.
This is never gonna work out" Again with a big smile on your face.
We're talking about being non-reactive.
That is the key here.
Sometimes when these tests come along, she's looking for a reaction.
She's seeing how you're going to react.
Don't react.
This is going to stir her up inside.
It might make her a little crazy but in a good way.
She's going to be more attracted to you because you're showing her that you are strong, not
physically, but emotionally.
That you can handle things, that things are not a big deal to you.
And that nothing really stresses you out because nothing is going to be a threat to you.
Because you always have things handled.
This is a great way to live.
This is a great way to just go about life.
It really is especially when you're meeting women.
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It's called Magnetic.
Check it out.
This is a book that I wrote that is about 160 pages, teaching you all different ways
to be able to be non-reactive and tap into your masculine.
Like I said, that's going to help you with your life, with dating, with your work, with
everything that's going on.
I teach you all the different ways to tap into that masculinity.
Check it out.
This book, there's a link down below.
It's on Amazon, you can get the audio version or you can get the Kindle version as well.
Check that out so you can learn some more.
Hope this helps.
Make sure that you're being non-reactive, more confident in yourself and more secure.