- So if this were to be our last conversation,
what is something you never want me to forget?
And I don't know why I'm crying.
- If this was our last conversation?
- Our last conversation.
If this were to be our last conversation,
what is something you would never want me to forget?
- I would want you to know that I loved you
with my whole heart.
That with you,
for the first time in my life,
I did everything right.
I forgave when I didn't want to,
I loved you when you were unlovable.
I liked you when you were weren't likable.
(laughing)
I stayed when I wanted to leave,
and I just did everything I knew to be right.
- I appreciate it.
(laughs)
- Describe the moment you realized I was in love with you.
- I realized that we're used.
(laughs)
- I knew you was gonna say that.
- You don't even know what I'm gonna say.
- Okay.
- I bet it's not what you think.
I realized it when we used to share so much time talking
and we used poetry a lot
to express what we're feeling.
I realized it then, but when you got on,
then when I first, when you came to see me that day,
I really realized, "Okay, she's serious."
'Cause that was a big step to, to do that.
- It was.
- You could've catfished me. - I could've.
I could've catfished you, kidnapped you.
I could've did a lot of things.
- You could've kill me.
(laughs)
- But yeah, something like that.
- Yeah.
- When have you seen me the most vulnerable,
and what did it teach you about me?
- When I saw you the most vulnerable
was when you moved down here,
and you weren't talking to your kids,
because they were upset.
And you were finding out about all of the stuff
that you hadn't really processed in your childhood.
And it was just all like. - Flooding out.
- And I think every like couple of days and weeks,
you would have a moment
when you would just melt down,
because you had never been in such a vulnerable state
in your life.
You had always been in contact with your family,
with your kids.
- Been in control of. - Been in control of it.
- Full control of me, myself and my situation.
- Yeah.
- You know, it was a lot.
- And I kept telling you to trust the process.
- Yeah.
- And that things would work out,
and they did.
- They did, they have.
- Because now they're tentatively slated
to come for Thanksgiving this year.
- Yeah, it was a vulnerable time.
Not just about the kids,
but definitely that was a component.
But it was just everything, you know?
But it was good what don't kill you
will make you stronger.
So I'm, I'm packing some muscle.
- If you had to start over our relationship,
(laughs)
what would you do differently?
- I would've...
When you came to Atlanta to visit that time,
I would have sent you back home
and allowed you to really get clear
about what it is that you wanted,
rather than trying to, you know,
make you ready before you were really ready.
- Yeah.
I think if I had to do over,
I would've taken the time
to listen to the things you've said prior to,
and stepping into it then you know,
and really thinking about what that meant for me.
And if I was ready before I even, you know,
came in with one foot,
and always still figuring out
and thinking about it.
That's one of my biggest,
if not my biggest regret.
I know those things hurt, you know?
And although you've moved through them,
I know they still, you know,
have a little healing to do.
So that is what I'm actively in this space,
wanting and continue to do, you know?
I know that's the work.
- Yeah.
- When do you feel closest to me?
- In those vulnerable moments
where we share and we have breakthroughs,
and where I'm allowed to just flood, you know?
- That's when I think you're the sexiest too.
- Is that so? - That's so.
- Something to consider.
(laughs)
What do I understand about you
that nobody else does?
- You understand that I am complicated.
That I'm really intense,
but I'm extremely sensitive,
that I'm extremely ambitious,
but I'm extremely vulnerable.
You understand that I love people really hard
and I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
You understand that I want the best for everyone.
- And I'll add to that.
I understand that a lot of the experiences
we've had has been the pain you know,
of just wanting those things.
And it may present one way,
but I know it's just from a love.
- Yeah.
- But I will still say that even
with all that I do understand,
and I think I understand more than most,
that it's still more that I'm learning every day.
- Yeah.
Why do you love me?
(laughs)
- I've never come across someone
who loves so freely you know?
Who wants love so much
and who's willing to give so much of yourself and your love,
to those you care about.
Even to strangers,
and I loved you for that.
I love you 'cause you were such a...
Freeness about you you know, in a given,
and just...
Just this awareness, you know?
Awareness about people,
and it's just been very amazing
to watch you over the years grow and see you love.
So, I continue to love you
and relearn to love you,
and love you more than the last time.
That's it.
- Thank you for this.
- You're welcome.
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