Why do people get so angry sometimes when they don't even mean you should get angry very angry
Why do people get so angry
And why does their hearts get so filled up with anger when they don't even mean to get that angry?
Dear Thay our friend is asking
Why do people get so angry and their hearts so filled up with anger when it's not what they really mean to do?
That is a good question
There is a grain, a seed of anger in ourselves
And there is also a seed of love compassion, in ourselves
And a person who allows
the seed of anger to be water everyday
Gets angry much more easily than
The person who doesn't allow the seed of anger in him or her to water
If
You watch television
And if you see a lot of anger in television
And then you have the seed of anger in you to grow grow grow every day
And if the seed of anger in you is strong and then you get angry so easily
And anger does not actually come from the outside it is from inside
So, we should be careful when we watch television and play electronic game
Or having a conversation with other people
Don't allow this thing to water the seed of anger in us
Because if the seed of water in us grow big and then we can get angry very easily
And when we get angry we may suffer and we will make the other person suffer
And there is a seed of compassion a seed of love in you and if you read books
Listen to the Dharma Talks
Listen to conversation that have a lot of love and compassion and then the seed of love in you will grow
And if you have a lot of love in you, you are a happy person
And you never get angry
So you have to take care of the two seeds in us anger and love
And meditation can help you a lot
And when you when you have more compassion in yourself you are happy and
Even when there is a provocation you can smile
You can smile.
In the beginning we can smile to our anger and
when we succeed in smiling to our anger
We will be able to smile to the anger and violence of the other person
The other person is very angry
the other person is very violent and he's saying, she is saying something very strong very mean and
she's about to hit you and yet because you ...
You are protected by
the energy of
compassion, you don't get angry and you smile. Dear friend. I know you suffer. You don't have to suffer
like and that.
And that is a success there is a victory for you and for the other person and
that victory a practitioner of meditation can have every day.
Okay
Thank you for asking