the cause and how to heal erectile dysfunction I'm Dr Trish Lee thanks for joining me for another
video This has by far been the most frequently asked question or topic that I've been discussing
recently, so in today's video, let's unravel the surprising cause of erectile dysfunction
and what you can do to heal it. Of course, we're going to focus on three topics today. Number one,
what is erectile dysfunction, which I'm sure you already know, but why does it impact you
in the way that it does, why is it that you're aroused sometimes and not when you want to
well people think of erectile dysfunction as you know I'm not able to have erections when I want
to be with my partner what people don't know is if you're getting a lot of erections when you are not
supposed to be sexual like for example when you're at work um you are in fact also dealing with
erectile dysfunction in the opposite direction so I know a lot of people have been calling the
office asking questions about that which don't call the office that's not a thing to do what you
can do is get into a consult with me and we can break down your specific situation but this is how
it goes is that if you discovered pornography when you were young your brain was taught to go towards
sex to self-soothe and to feel good it became the one tool in your toolbox to stabilize and regulate
your mood especially when you're stressed out or when you're bored so the way that that falls out
in your body is that often you'll have erections and you will think it's because you're sexual or
it's your libido but actually it's your brain and your body calling for stress reduction or
for offsetting boredom but that's not sex that's mood regulation are you with me because we're
unraveling here so when you get an erection at an inappropriate time it is likely your brain
and body screaming at you to regulate your mood so then if you're trying to be with your partner
and you can't get an erection that is a different reason and it goes back to your pornography habit
now before I continue I want to say that not all erectile dysfunction is because of a pornography
habit that's not what I'm saying here what I'm saying is if you watch pornography or
if you have with any frequency consistency and especially intensity then you have taught your
brain like a little puppy to need Super normal levels of stimulation to feel good
good that Reward Center in your midbrain is used to firing on all cylinders at level 15 out of
one out of ten you're used to getting level 15 stimulation to feel good mentally and physically
in masturbation so now you're trying to be with your partner and it's a level nine experience
your brain can't get to level 15 in the context of a healthy sexual relationship they're just not the
same it's comparing apples to oranges so now let's say your brain loves apples level 15 and now you
have an orange you can only get to level nine and it's because you've inappropriately taught your
brain to go to level 15 sexual stimulation to feel good offset anxiety and boredom
that is how erectile dysfunction falls out because of number two the dysregulated brain pattern
the dysregulated use of electrical energy in your brain so when you discovered porn a long time ago
the seeds of addiction were planted and if you watered those seeds over time what happened is
your brain changed it never developed fully in the way it would have if you hadn't discovered
porn and masturbation we know that it's proven by science so now you're using a brain pattern that
is called dysregulated and optimally regulated brain doesn't need to go to porn to self-soothe
it's learned how to self-regulate itself one of the emotional intelligence pillars self-regulation
if you're going to porn then you do not have strong self-regulation skills that's part of the
recovery Journey self-awareness self-regulation social awareness social relationship management
those are the pillars of emotional intelligence that's what's necessary to number three heal your
brain from erectile dysfunction now okay I'm talking about your brain and this dysregulated
brain pattern how does that end up in erectile dysfunction in your body right so the way that
that happens is there's a cascading effect when your brain is using the dysregulated pattern I
call it the pendulum effect your brain's using much too much extra fast speed which creates
anxiety feelings of restlessness the feeling that you need to be calmed down extra fast speed I need
to be calmed down also at the other side of the pendulum your brain's using a lot of extra slow
speed this is the speed of boredom or overwhelm it's the speed that says I need to be stimulated
so now if your brain is existing out here in the extremes of the pendulum effect I need to
be stimulated I need to be calmed down then you will consistently need that high high level of
stimulation to feel good and this brain pattern changes the Cascade effect of neurotransmitters
hormones electrical energy throughout the body blood flow cellular function all of those things
have to do with erectile dysfunction and yours this dysregulated pattern is associated with
sexual performance because of pornography so that is how the link gets made that's why you have to
leave porn behind to break that link in the first place that's the unwiring and then the rewiring
of your brain is healing this dysregulated brain pattern and taking it from the extremes back to
the middle for Optimal Performance which if you remember what I just said you may never
have experienced that's why literally your full potential awaits when you leave porn behind when
you figure out how to stop masturbating and you heal your brain from erectile dysfunction really
what it means is you will heal your brain to its full potential that you may have never experienced
that is the way to quote unquote cure erectile dysfunction it's to go right to the root go to
your brain to heal your mind and body now I need to share something else is that the Mayo
Clinic says that the number one cause of erectile dysfunction is in fact a psychological problem
now I'm here to remind you if you've seen my work on my other YouTube channel brain rewire
I'm here to remind you that what is seemingly a psychological problem to most of the world
to me is a neurological problem because we know that all identified psychological problems have
an identified neurological brain performance pattern so basically there's a brain performance
pattern for anxiety I already told you it the two fast there's a brain performance pattern for ADHD
it's the too slow there's a brain performance pattern for concussion it's speed knocked low
which results in a head injury emotional trauma is the same brain pattern or similar at least
but there is an identifiable neurological problem for every psychological problem so when the Mayo
Clinic says that erectile dysfunction the number one reason is psychological problems you guessed
it let's unravel that the number one reason for erectile dysfunction is neurophysiological the
way your brain is performing so if the cause is neurophysiology you know know what I say where
the problem is so is the solution the solution is to heal your brain and your body will come
back online so how do you do that number three again how you heal your brain is you get into
my 90-day program this is not a sales pitch it's the solution I've put it into the 90-day
program I teach you how to train your brain with technology which that takes care of the pendulum
effect bringing it back to Optimal for the first time ever at the same time we use mindfulness
techniques cognitive behavioral therapy techniques we use a whole bunch of science driven techniques
to then take the work from brain training and extend it to your behavior now I just had this
conversation with one of my precious children when you're regulated you're able to feel your
feelings think a healthy thought and go act on it when you're dysregulated we have to flip-flop that
we have to change your behaviors to get a new thought process so you can in fact
feel your Healthy feelings that's what's flip-flopped in pornography addiction that
creates erectile dysfunction that is what we're going to switch back
so get into the 90-day program learn all the strategies that you need to heal your brain
and use the brain training technology to do it for you we have lessons dedicated to erectile
dysfunction in the 90-day program to help you understand it and to help you know what to do
specifically it's not a one and done I wish it was a pill but it's not your brain's been dysregulated
for a long time which means there's a certain amount of time and energy and money that is likely
going to have to be put at it to heal your brain back to better than ever and if it feels good to
you I'd love to be part of that Journey because I know I can help Okay I hope this helps you
understand the cause and the way to heal erectile dysfunction get into the 90-day program the link
is at Dr Trish lee.com why porn brain recovery and as always control your brain or it'll control you