- Like middle school, elementary school, I had frenemies.
I can't do it anymore.
- I feel like I haven't had a frenemy yet?
I just started high school in Canada.
- Oh, you will have frenemies soon.
- [Taylor] Yes, that's what I'm saying.
- I'm only in grade seven.
So, hasn't really happened yet.
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- We're gonna take a quiz on Buzzfeed.com called
"How Garbage Are Your Opinions About Friendship?"
I already think mine are pretty garbage, probably.
- First question, can you have more than one best friend?
- I think you can, but not more than two or three.
- Oh.
- I think you can.
Because I feel like I've had my three closest best friends
who I know I can trust.
- I feel like I have levels.
I have my best friend from high school that I literally see,
maybe once every two years, but that's my ride or die.
- [Lindsay] True.
That's my best friend.
- [Taylor] That makes sense.
- Then I have my current best friend.
And then I have my best friend from Sephora.
- You know, like there's levels.
- [Lindsay] I feel that, I feel that. There is levels.
Okay, but I think we all agree.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- Duh. - Duh, you can.
- Oh, 83% agree with us. - Yeah.
- Good 17 said nope, one. (laughing)
- [Reese] Wonder why.
- Your friend and their SO break up,
should you stay friends with the ex?
- I've had to deal with that with you, a little bit.
- [Jessamyne] Thank you. (laughs)
- But because I knew you first, that's the difference.
If I know the best friend first or the ex first
that kind of decides for me.
- [Taylor] Oh. - Oh, yeah.
- For me, it depends on the status of my best friend.
So, if you dated someone and you guys broke up,
but you guys were still cool.
I would only hangout in those scenarios,
but I'm not trying to hangout alone.
- [Reese] Yeah.
- Yeah, I agree. It depends on how bad the break up was.
- [Jessamyne] Exactly
- But you can't answer this way on this quiz.
- I don't know.
- What is it? Cut them out.
- I would cut them out.
- Well I got to be on my friend's side, I think.
Yeah, I would cut them out.
- Me too
- Oh, this is a 50/50. - Oh wow.
- Oh, it's pretty close. - Whoa
- Yeah
- Can you date your friend's ex? No.
- No. - No. No.
- No. - No.
- On every level of age, no.
- Are your friends dating right now, is this a thing?
- I mean, there's a few people.
- [Lindsay] Okay.
- Yeah. - [Jessamyne] Yeah.
- It's kind of like, you're cool if you have a boyfriend,
but I'm like, really?
- We're all going to be the same, oh my gosh.
- 55% said OMG, no.
- [Lindsay] Yeah.
- Thankfully.
But there was 42% that said, if I get their permission.
Which that's a little messed up.
(laughing)
- Yeah.
- What about dating your friend's family member?
(groaning)
- [Taylor] I don't know.
- Is it a distant cousin or is it their dad?
(laughing)
- Oh goodness.
- [Jessamyne] It depends.
- [Lindsay] This quiz says,
yes, a hot sibling is a hot sibling.
- [Jessamyne] Oh, ask permission.
- Yeah.
- Yes, okay. I agree. That's in the middle.
- But if you break up that's going to be real awkward.
71% said ask for permission, but there was a good 16
that said yes, a hot sibling is a hot sibling.
- Should you make friends at work?
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- I agree - Yeah
- Why wouldn't you? - That's the best part.
- [Taylor] I feel like you have to.
- You meet new people. - [Taylor] Exactly
- I've thought about this so many times.
I don't think I would have as much fun at work, nearly,
if I didn't have friends.
- No. - Right, right.
- Well, 86% said that but there was a good 5%
that hates everyone they work with.
- Oh. - Oh.
- Have you ever done something to sabotage a friend?
- I've never, so far in my life.
- No.
- Oh, I thought you were about to say yes.
I would be like, oh that one time.
(laughing)
- Nothing yet. - [Jessamyne] No.
- Maybe, but hopefully not.
- [Lindsay] Oh you're hoping. You want to?
- Hopefully I don't need to.
- Yeah, I don't think I have.
- [Reese] You don't think?
- No, I know I haven't.
(laughing)
- Sabotage? That's mean girls stuff.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- [Taylor] That sounds so scary, it's a scary word.
- [Jessamyne] Unless they ask me to.
(laughing)
- What would you do?
No, WTF I'm not a monster or in a moment of weakness
when I was really jealous. No.
- [Girls] No. - No.
- Okay. Oh, we have a good world that we live in.
67% said no, I'm not a monster.
- [Jessamyne] Yeah.
- Cool.
If your friend does something (bleep)
how should you react?
(groaning)
Confront them right away, ignore the problem, or (bleep)
talk them to your other friends? (laughing)
- Not the last one. - Definitely not.
- You know what, I've done it though.
- [Jessamyne] It depends.
- I feel like everyone's done it,
but I know that's not what we should do.
- Yes - [Lindsay] Right, right.
How should you react?
- It depends on the scale of what was done
because if it's something small that I know Lindsay
is just a Gemini and so that's just her little Gemini mind
then I'm going to ignore it.
- Yeah.
- But if it's something big then I'll probably confront it.
- [Reese] Yeah. - I'm Gemini too.
- [Jessamyne] I was going to say. What are you?
- What am I? Cancer.
- Oh, you're so cute.
(laughing)
I love it.
- I would probably say - [Taylor] Confront them?
- Confront them. - [Taylor] Yeah, I would say.
- But that's what you should do,
but what I would do is probably ignore it.
Unless it's a big problem, then I wouldn't ignore it.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
Oh, 71% said confront them right away.
- [Lindsay] Good.
But, tied between ignore the problem
and (bleep) talk them to your other friends.
- [Taylor] Yeah, yeah. (laughing)
- [Jessamyne] Alright.
- Should you live with your close friends?
- Yeah, what do you guys think?
- I say yes. - Yeah.
- I feel like it would be so much fun.
- [Reese] It would be fun. - [Taylor] In my opinion.
- But I would probably get annoyed sometimes.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- And that's exactly-- I've done it once,
only once and it ended terribly.
- [Girls] Oh.
- So maybe not.
- I've lived with nearly all of my best friends
and we're still close.
- I've always said though,
if I had to live with friends it would be you.
Alright, yeah it'll be a slumber party every night.
No, friendships always end when you live together.
Some friends you can, some friends you cannot.
I agree with that.
- Yeah. - It's the last one, yeah.
- The last one.
- I'm saying, yes, it'll be a slumber party.
Which was 12%. (laughing)
- Yeah, 73% said agreed,
some friends you can, some you can't.
- Alright, if you don't like your friend's significant other
should you tell them?
- [Lindsay] Oh, we've had this problem.
- Yes.
- And you're mad I didn't tell you the first time.
- Yes, I wish you would have told me.
I've also dealt with this problem.
My best friend was dating someone terrible.
He was disgusting.
(laughing)
And it came to a point, where I would say stuff so much
but I truly realized that it did not matter what I said
because she was just going to do her own thing.
- [Taylor] Yeah, yeah.
- Sometimes you just kind of have to disconnect and
be like you'll learn on your own.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- [Lindsay] And I was worried you would just think
that I'm crazy.
- [Jessamyne] No.
- But now I know that I should have told you.
- [Jessamyne] Tell me.
- What do you guys think?
- I say it depends on the situation.
- [Reese] That's what I would say.
- Because like you said, if you keep telling them
and their not listening then you just have to be like okay.
You find out for yourself.
- True. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- [Lindsay] I'm just going to say it, always
because that one time I really regret not telling you.
- [Jessamyne] Yeah.
- Because that ended,
- [Jessamyne] Oh.
- That was a bad break up.
- Woof.
- Cool. Okay, well 17% said always,
I need to have their back.
And 75, depends on the situation.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- Does every friends in your group need
to be included in every activity?
- [Lindsay] Ohhh.
- This is a huge one right now, like in high school.
- Yeah.
- I say no, if you do it respectfully.
- Yeah, I don't think everybody needs
to be included at once.
- That was the root of my middle school fights.
- Yes.
- You invited me here but you invited her here.
It was a thing.
- That's what's happening right now, kind of.
- Yeah.
- Oh, yeah.
- No, I mean that's like yeah.
- I'm an advocate for I invite everybody.
But I think when I was younger, I was always the one
who felt like I was left out of the group
- [Girls] Yes.
- and I never wish that upon anybody.
- Yeah. - [Taylor] That's so true.
- So I'd rather just be safe and be like
at least I invited you.
I'm emotional though.
- Yeah, you are. - I'm an emotional person.
- But see I'm just going to say no.
- Yeah. - Me too.
- So yeah, most people said no, this isn't third grade
we don't have to invite people.
30% said yes, so that's a good portion.
- [Jessamyne] Oh, yeah. Nope, I'm sticking with it.
- [Lindsay] You're a good person.
- [Reese] Yeah.
- Have your friends seen you naked?
(laughing)
Have you seen me naked?
- [Jessamyne] No. No.
- I feel like I have but your just--
- I'm naked.
- You're on Instagram naked all the time.
- Every time.
- My closest friends. - Yeah.
- I've changed clothes.
- Yeah, I've seen you put band aids on your nipples.
- Yeah I do that sometimes.
(laughing)
It's very weird.
I don't like wearing bras. Sorry.
- Oh yeah, only my closest friends.
- I'm going to say only my closest friends.
- What? (laughing)
- Well, I'm not answering that,
how else am I supposed to change?
(laughing)
- We're going to keep this PG,
and I'm only going to say only my closest friends.
I always judge the situation.
If I'm trying to be out there then maybe,
but otherwise I'm like, no don't look at me.
- Do you talk about gross things
like zits and poop with your friends?
- Yeah. - [Jessamyne] Yeah.
- If it comes up, yeah.
- [Reese] Yeah if it comes.
I'm not going to bring it up. - I don't avoid it,
but I'm not going to make it the center of attention
if I'm talking about something.
- Yeah, exactly.
- [Jessamyne] Wait, Lindsay has Instagram storied me
from the bathroom before. (laughing)
- Oh yeah. (laughing)
I love doing that.
(laughing)
- I'm going to say, yes they know everything.
- [Jessamyne] Yeah.
(laughing)
- [Jessamyne] Oh, 79% yes, they know everything.
- [Lindsay] Oh my god, but a lot of people--
21% said no, ew.
Would you tell your friend if someone said something
really (bleep) about them behind their back?
It depends, but that's not an option.
- Because sometimes they just don't need to hear it.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- You know, to kind of spare their feelings.
- I guess it depends on what it is.
- But I feel like as a best friend, I need to tell them.
- I would tell.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- First of all, I would probably yell at the person
who was saying stuff about my friend.
(laughing)
- [Lindsay] Aw, that's nice.
- And just be like, uh what?
- [Girls] Yeah.
- And then I'd go back and be like,
listen to what they said.
- [Girls] Yeah.
- I'm just going to say, if it does, yeah.
- Yeah, of course.
78% said of course.
- Yeah.
- Would you ever tell your friend
that you've fallen in love with them?
- You've had this happen.
- I've done this.
- Really?
- Yeah.
- Not with me. (laughing)
- No.
(laughing)
- Yes, I've had this happen.
And it depends on the situation, but that's not--
that's not an option.
- I've never had this happen
so I don't even know how I'd act.
- Yeah, neither have I. I don't know.
- Have you? - Never.
- If I did fall in love with a best friend,
I would probably not say anything and let them say something
if they felt that way.
- Yeah.
- Because I wouldn't want to be the one to ruin it.
- If you're in love with that person,
I feel like I would have to say something.
- Well, because at that point it's like
what circumstances are you hanging out with that friend.
Are you hanging out with them
because you're in love with them?
- Oh. - Right.
- Because they deserve to know that, right?
- Yeah that's true. - Good point.
- [Lindsay] What are you guys going to put?
- I don't know. - [Jessamyne] I'm saying yes.
- I'm going to say yes.
- I'm going to say no.
- [Jessamyne] Yeah.
70% - Oh.
- Oh my god, most people said no.
- Yeah, 70% said no.
- How obsessed are you with your BFF?
- Oh my god, I'm so obsessed with you.
- I love them. - Yes.
- I say, I love them with all my heart.
- It's your best friend forever.
- [Jessamyne] I like this, TBH they're kind of my frenemy.
(laughing)
- I love them with all my heart.
- [Girls] Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 100%, okay.
- 52%
- Yeah. - Yes.
- Yay. Wait, I mean 45 said I'm cool but not obsessed.
Yeah, how do you feel like you did?
- I feel like the majority of my answers were agreeing
with the rest of the percent or the biggest percent.
- I just can't wait for them to talk to you guys
in five to ten years--
- Yeah.
- It'll probably be different.
- And see if that's changed.
- Yeah. There's a lot of years between all of us,
- [Girls] Yeah.
- and we all kind of agreed on everything.
- Right, that's true. - Yeah.
- I think we're all the same.
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