Hey man, I'm coming to you because I really feel your pain, your frustration, and even
probably your anger in this specific situation.
I've been there before.
Man have I been there before.
This is something I can absolutely speak to.
You're in a situation where you've gotten rejected by a girl or maybe you've been in
the friend-zone with a girl and you put yourself out there, but she's not biting so you can
tell you've gotten rejected or maybe you've overtly gotten rejected.
She said to you sorry, I don't see like that or I'm not that interested in you.
This can be someone who's a classmate, who's a co worker, who's in your social circle.
Maybe she's someone you see around your building.
It's someone that you see a bunch of times.
Usually this is going to be a friend-zone situation.
But it's someone who you see a lot and they still show this interest in you or what you
think is interest.
This is the understanding that you're going to get through this video.
You're getting what seems to be interest.
They are still calling you or maybe still texting you or they're really friendly when
they see you or they give you a big hug when they see you, a big smile when they see you.
And you're confused or maybe even there's this girl that you're sort of interested in.
You were dating and you guys had sex a few times, but then it fizzled out but then she
shows interest and she's still text messages you.
And so this is all really confusing, where this is a whole jumble in your head.
You're like, I don't get it.
She's showing these signs that she's interested.
However, she doesn't want to see me again in an intimate way or she's not showing any
sort of interest in me to be more romantic.
You're not getting that vibe from her.
What's happening here?
Why is this happening?
There's a few obvious things that I'll go over, but I think there's also a few things
in here you might not be thinking about.
Let's dig into this.
Here's the thing.
This is most likely the case is that she actually likes you as a friend.
She likes you as a person.
You're in the friend-zone and so she's doing these things that seems like she's interested
in you.
But she's really just doing what a friend would do, but you're confused in your head
and you're interpreting it in the wrong way.
You're interpreting in a way that she likes you.
But she just generally likes you as a friend.
So what do friends do?
They'll text you, they'll call you, they'll smile, they'll hug.
Even sometimes they'll sit close to you on the couch, maybe even to an extent, even if
your friends maybe she'll snuggle up to you.
She sees you as a good buddy, as a good friend.
And you're just sitting here like but she must like me.
This is interesting.
I had this in college and in high school.
This is a very long time ago, but women still act the same and even older.
I just learned not to get in those situations anymore past college but I was in a situation
where I kept on going for this girl and she would continue to reject me, continue to reject
me.
It was really pathetic on my end.
I'd keep going for and the reason why I would is because she kept showing some sort of interest.
She would still laugh around me and have a good time around me.
Even snuggle up to me and tell me about her deepest darkest thoughts and everything that's
going on with her.
I was always convinced that she liked me, but she would never do anything past friendship,
which would be breaking the touch barrier in terms of kiss or more than that.
And I was just so confused.
But then finally years later, I just realized well, she just really liked me as a friend.
She just really enjoyed my company and even though she knew I liked her, she still stuck
around because she was interested in me as a friend.
That's what you have to understand here.
There's a little bit more to this.
Some women, some women, they like the attention.
So this is probably the next biggest thing for guys in this scenario where I don't get
it, she's responding to my text messages.
I don't understand.
She still wants to hang out a little bit.
I don't get it.
She'll even text me first.
I don't understand.
She still will keep me up to date on what's going on in her life and ask me about hers
or yours and whatever.
Some women just want the attention.
They like the attention, they know secretly that you like them.
And it sucks.
But I don't want you to play victim here.
I don't want you to sit here and be like yeah, see women suck and that's bullshit.
This is what women do.
They just want attention.
No, forget that.
Maybe that's true for some women.
But this is on you my friend.
And I played that victim card for way too long back in the day.
Don't play that.
If that's happening, don't blame her, blame yourself because you're the one who's staying
in that scenario.
You're the one who's sitting there, letting it happen and getting teased and just being
in some sort friend-zone scenario knowing that she does want the attention and you're
just on the other end of it sulking.
What do you have to do?
You have to move on.
Yes, sometimes that's what they're doing.
They're just trying to get attention from you.
And if that happens and you pick up on that, especially after listening to this video,
you need to move on and find a woman that's actually interested in you.
When I say interested in you.
What I'm saying is she's interested in getting physical with you.
This is the difference between friendship and non friendship.
It's basically the kiss.
Like if we want to come down to one thing, it's the kiss.
And of course, more than that, but the kiss is the biggest barrier between friends and
not friends.
Because you're not gonna be making out with your friends.
You're gonna be making out with someone where you guys feel some sort of sexual interest
in each other.
Here's some other things too.
She might be acting polite.
She might just be polite.
Some people are polite.
You have your neighbor who maybe you've asked her out and she said no but, I don't get it.
She still says hi to me.
She still smiles.
She'll ask me how my day is, maybe she'll even kind of flirt with me a little bit.
But she'll still reject me.
This is because people are polite and they don't want to be mean to you.
Like all of a sudden just because she rejected you doesn't mean that she's going to start
treating you like garbage and being mean to you.
Honestly, if I were her, I would try to do that a little bit.
If I knew that someone liked me and they kept on going after me, I wouldn't be mean to them,
but I'd be a little bit more cold because I'd try to give them the hint that I'm not
interested in them just a little bit.
And of course, let's not play a victim just because that's happening.
It's not their fault.
They're just being polite.
That doesn't mean that you have to sit here and think that she's interested in you.
Politeness is another reason why she might be still acting like she's interested, but
not really.
Remember I said a little bit ago that that one little thing, that kissing thing, that
one small thing is the biggest barrier.
You have to understand that that is the biggest thing, but you're not going to get to that
point unless you move the interaction forward and get compliance.
A lot of guys will sit here in the friend-zone situation and wait for something to happen
and it doesn't.
I know if you're watching this video, you've probably gone through the path or been down
the path that you have and you've gotten rejected and you didn't get compliance and now you're
like, what the hell.
I think she's still interested.
But I just want to remind guys that maybe you haven't actually gone for it and you think
you're rejected or you're kind of confused.
I just want to be very clear here, that what you need to do in any situation to see if
a woman is actually interested in you, not this fake interest, but actually interested
in you is asking for compliance.
That means that you're really moving the interaction forward to a date context.
Meaning you are going to be asking her on a date and then on that date, you're going
to go for a kiss and then when you guys are back at your place, whenever that may be,
you're going to of course first ask for consent and then move forward to sex.
You need to be moving forward and continuously asking for compliance and be dominant and
lead the whole interaction so it's going somewhere.
A lot of guys will just wait and hope that it happens and hope she does something or
wait for that perfect moment.
I hate using air quotes, but I have to in this situation because the perfect moment
never exists.
The perfect moment is you doing it now, going for it now, getting compliance now.
That's what needs to be done in order for this to be successful.
Otherwise you're just in a friend-zone scenario and you're going to be trapped here thinking
that she's interested but you're not sure and it's going to be very confusing for you.
So un-confuse yourself and just get compliance and move it forward.
I talk about this whole concept and I dig way deeper into it.
It's this concept of dominance, which a lot of guys don't have.
They're not being dominant in their interactions.
They're not able to lead which is a very attractive masculine trait.
I talk about this in my Hooked program.
I want you to check out the Hooked program especially now because you have time on your
hands and really dive deep and understand female nature, understand attraction, understand
what it means to get a woman interested in a guy like you.
And yes, it's possible.
Even if you think you're ugly, even if you think you're broke, even if you think that
you're too short, or you don't have high status, whatever it may be.
I'm helping guys like this all the time in the Hooked program.
Check it out, Get Her Hooked dot com.
Link is in the description down below where we're going to dive into how to lead the interaction
and push it all the way to the point where you guys are on a date, kissing, sex and beyond.
Check it out.
That's down below.
I hope this helps you.
Comment if it does and make sure that you understand the difference between interest
in you as a friend or for attention and actual real, genuine interest.