Laguna Beach reality star Kristin
Cavallari is no stranger to living her
life like an open book so is no surprise
that she's often spoken out about her
relationship with husband and former
Chicago Bears quarterback Jay Cutler
since their wedding in 2013 while all
relationships have their flaws there's
just nowhere to hide your dirty laundry
when you're in the spotlight and as one
would expect the couple's marriage
hasn't been all California sunsets here
are some strange facts you might not
know about Kristin Cavallari and Jay
Cutler rocky start first impressions
count and unfortunately cavaliere's
initial opinion of Cutler was less than
ideal had googled pictures on whatever
and I was like hey you know whatever
Cutler was reportedly interested in her
from the start and even had his
publicist reach out to Cavallari while
she was still working on the hills but
she turned him down according to an
interview with a drink with she wasn't
digging the idea of having a boyfriend
in Chicago luckily for the both of them
Cavallari changed her mind about the
football player when she met him in real
life I was like whoa so much called it
off while the two may be married with
three children now Cavallari had second
thoughts back in July 2011 and broke up
with Cutler I broke up with him because
some things needed to change and the
only way he was going to see how serious
I was was if I broke up with him they
reportedly returned their wedding gifts
to all their family members friends and
well-wishers while Cavallari also
implies that the pair sought therapy
following the temporary breakup it's got
to be a tough memory that comes up from
time to time
thanks to therapy it's not every day
that you see a celeb couple who's so
willing to admit it needs help from a
third party and these two may not have
lost it without it in a 2015 interview
with American baby
Cavallari opened up about how therapy
has changed her life and her
relationship saying I'm not ashamed to
say that Jay and I consistently go to
therapy because it's been extremely
beneficial for our relations
yep in her book balancing in heels
capillary reveals just how instrumental
her therapist was in improving her
relationship with her husband saying I
credit our therapist for saving our
relationship she opened up our eyes to
the other person's perspective and gave
us great tools for communication it's
great that capillary and Cutler have a
healthy way of working on their marriage
but it's hard not to wonder what these
two talk about during their sessions an
important text many people dream about
getting engaged by having the love of
their life get down on one knee and
profess their undying love and devotion
more often than not particularly for
celebrities there's at least a ring but
that's not quite how Cutler's proposal
played out
Cavallari told a news host Giuliana
Rancic that Cutler asked her to marry
him through a text message she explained
it was so silly I was in the airport
leaving Chicago we were texting and
somehow it came up like Oh shall we get
married we're like yeah okay and then he
sent my ring in the mail how sweet
stand by your man if someone insults
your significant other you come to their
defense right well Cavallari has an odd
way of standing by her guy in January
2017 she shared a photo to Instagram of
her and Cutler vacationing in Mexico and
unfortunately followers were quick to
mock Cutler's appearance according to
CNN some of Cavallari followers wrote
comments like Jay bean eaten them
pancakes
how did Cavallari shut down the haters
she posted another photo of her husband
with part of the caption saying since
Jay looked like a 300-pound lesbian in
my last post I felt I should do him
justice by posting him looking hot while
Cavallari may not have meant any
disrespect to Cutler couldn't she have
simply defended her man instead of
posting another picture of him to prove
he still looks good
spilling private details work and travel
schedules don't always allow for those
much-needed intimate moments between
Cavallari and Cutler apparently that's
when they turn to sending each other
steamy texts and Cavallari doesn't
exactly shy away talking about the
details half the time I'm doing other
stuff you know I'm doing my nails I'm
folding laundry and then I'll do a
little text you know whatever you gotta
do keep the man happy it's not always
easy to maintain a spark in a
relationship so kudos to Cavallari and
Cutler for doing what they can to keep
their love lives kicking