Tripp here from Tripp Advice.com and we’re going to be talking about how to attract
a girl that you have a crush on.
I know exactly what’s going on here.
There’s a girl in your classroom, there’s a girl at work, there’s a girl in your school,
there’s a girl in your apartment building.
There’s somebody that you know and you are interested in her and you like her and you
want to know how to get her.
And how to get her to like you.
We’re going to be going over step by step how to do that.
Pay attention very closely.
First, we want to talk about what women are attracted to because if you don’t know that,
then none of this is going to work.
First, there’s a lot of false information out there.
A lot of guys think because they’ve been brought up in a society that has valued some
things wrongly.
Like money, like penis size, like your looks, all these things you might think are the way
to attract a woman.
But no, that is not how you do it.
In order to attract a woman, it’s not about what’s happening on the outside.
Now listen, yes if you have terrible breath, if you’re wearing clothes that smell and
look disgusting, that’s not going to help your cause too much.
However, the most important part is not what’s going on here, it’s not what’s here in
your bank account, it’s what’s going on inside.
It’s what’s going on in terms of how you are portraying yourself and how you’re acting
in front of a girl.
You see, women are attracted to behavioral qualities, the internal stuff.
They’re not looking at you, they’re looking at how you’re acting.
It's these behavioral cues that women want to know you have.
They want to know if you’re dominant, they want to know if you’re high status, they
want to know if you’re masculine.
Simple things that women are attracted to because they are feminine.
They’re attracted to the masculine.
We’re basically talking about confidence, we’re talking about dominance, we’re talking
about taking control and leading the interaction.
For example, if a guy goes up to a girl and he starts the conversation and he’s leading
the conversation and he’s looking at her in the eye and he’s giving great eye contact
and he’s got great posture and he’s presenting himself as a high status male because of his
body language and the way he’s talking to her and the way that he’s communicating
with her in such a way that’s making her feel just a little bit more feminine because
he is super in control and he feels good.
This is going to get a woman turned on and excited about the chance to finally be with
a real man.
What does the opposite look like?
Imagine going up to girls starting a conversation, your hands are in your pockets, your head
is a little bit down, you’re talking really softly, you’re not really looking at her.
She’s going to be like “Wow.
This guy’s not a man.
He is a little boy.
He’s very scared.”
Women are attracted to guys who are fearless.
You might have heard before that women love assholes.
It’s not that they like assholes, they like the fact that these guys are fearless.
That they’re courages.
What I want you to do the next time you’re talking to a girl, I want you to go up to
her and I want you to really feel inside you “Wow.
I like this girl.”
Not in a way that’s going to get you all nervous and freaked out.
I want you to embody that so you can be excited to talk to her.
You’re excited to be able to lead the interaction to the places where you want to
go and be able to talk about the things you want to talk about and not be in your head
so much but right there in the moment with her.
It’s not what you talk about but just holding a conversation on the things
that are important to you or interesting to you and doing it like a high status male would.
With great body language and pure raw confidence.
I have now brought you 80% of the way there.
The rest of this is super simple.
You already know how to attract a woman.
You need to learn how to get this girl alone.
That’s what your next step is going to be.
How do you do that?
Like I said, this is probably a girl in your class, this is probably a girl at work.
Someone you already know, someone that you already have been talking to or that you’ve
seen.
If she’s your crush the next step is to be able to get her out.
I want you to take her out, I want you to be the creator of events.
How do you do that?
Very simple.
I want you to set up some sort of event in terms of getting people together.
It might be too much or too intense to just go up to the girl and start talking to her
and then ask her out if she’s in your class or if she’s at your work or something like
that.
Instead, invite her out with you and a bunch of friends.
You need to create some sort of happy hour.
You need to create some sort of cool, fun, little thing for you guys to do.
It could be at your apartment, it could be at a bar, it could be at a restaurant, whatever
it is.
Gather people together and give her the invitation.
Get her to come along with you.
That’s your middle ground step.
And then once she’s there, all you’ve got to do is play cool.
Talk to everyone, socialize with people, introduce her to people, introduce people to her, introduce
other people to people.
You need to be a leader here.
Once you get her to the place where you want, when she’s with you and you’re in your
environment, you’re with your friends.
What you can do is finally isolate her.
That is going to be the time where you can start to attract her and start to display
some of these high value traits.
These behavioral traits that we’re talking about; dominance, confidence, all that stuff.
It’s very simple.
All you’ve got to do is get her out, get her to an event, and then isolate her.
Start talking to her.
Make that little bubble.
Give her really good eye contact and make a little moment with you and her and then
from there, you can get her number, ask her out and take her out on a date.
A lot of guys make this more complicated than it has to be.
I’m going to recap again.
All you’ve got to do is get her to an event, isolate her and get her talking to you where
you can show her that you are the man.
Now you’ve got to take her on a first date.
The first date is the best place to seduce a girl.
First we did attraction, we got her interested in you.
Now it’s time to make her feel sexy.
In order to learn how to seduce a girl on a first date, I made a blog post.
In the blog post is an audio clip from a coaching session that I did with one of my students
and I taught him exactly the steps on how to seduce a girl on a first date.
Go check out that blog post.
I’m going to put it on the screen.
I’m going to put it down below in the description so you can learn exactly how to do it.
I’ll see you on the next video.
Things you should not do.
Don’t go to a place where you’re watching something.
No comedy shows, no movies, no concerts.
Nothing like that.
If you can’t think of anything creative, take them to a cool lounge spot.
Really as nice as you want because it’s just a drink.
It’s not like you’re impressing them by getting a drink.
You can go as nice as you want.
Bring them somewhere, take them somewhere where you can have access to be able to touch
them closely.