- Help, another woman is trying to steal my man.
These are the words that stumbled out of my client's
mouth this week, which inspired me to create this video.
All you have to do is follow these eight tips
to diminish any feelings of concern.
So stay tuned.
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and without further ado, tip number one.
Should you mark your territory?
The animal kingdom illustrates this really well.
Females never chase or mark their territory
as when males do this and we humans are no different.
We females are not the hunters,
therefore do not pursue control
or behave in a possessive manner.
Why, because this masculine behavior is not only
turning him off,
but pushing him into the other woman's arms
which is exactly what we do not want.
Number two, should you fight for him?
The media says that females should fight
for his love as a one of the famous singer sings right?
But do not do this.
Why, because it's being led by you, the woman.
Firstly it reveals your insecurity
because you're questioning your own value
and worth as a woman.
And by doing this
you are shooting yourself right in the foot
because he will observe your low value behavior
and want to replace you with someone better.
Secondly, the fact that he is not fighting
for the relationship and essentially you
shows that he is not interested in the growth
of the relationship and is turned off by what he observes.
Number three, should you tell your boyfriend
how low value the other woman is
to steer him away from her?
All press is good press, meaning
even if you are talking about her negatively
you are still placing importance on her
and drawing him near her whilst exposing your own flaws.
And since you are placing all your energy onto her,
he is similarly doing this and his curiosity will be peaked
because he will see that you are jealous,
meaning this other woman is a threat to you.
Perhaps she has something you don't.
So he will want to find out more about her
as men are curious too.
So you see, by trying to undermine her
you undermine yourself in the process.
Number four, should you tell him to block her?
It is his free will to do what he wishes.
Men hate being controlled.
So by doing this he will do the complete opposite
and keep her unblocked.
We see this in children who deliberately do the opposite
in order to keep the power and this is no different.
It also shows that you do not trust him
which will prompt the question in his mind
well, if she doesn't trust me, why is she with me?
A common theme being shown throughout
is how your insecurities are being exposed to him,
which leads me to my next point.
Number five, should you tell him
how insecure you're feeling?
This is referenced really well in the Bible,
guard your heart, meaning do not wear your heart on a sleeve
instead work on your insecurities
because if you don't, he could manipulate you.
For example, if you're insecure about your body,
skin or confidence, he can potentially use these
against you in an argument in an attempt to disarm you
as these are your vulnerable areas, furthermore,
by undervaluing yourself in this way,
he will look at other woman who do not have these traits
as they will appear better than you.
Number six, if you are a high value
you have nothing to worry about.
And if he is high value too, he will be able to see
through the other woman's desperate behavior
and will either start to feel sorry for her,
Will make a few jokes about her,
or will just honestly tell you how off-putting
and desperate she's behaving.
So this is a story shared by one
of my clients who has a very high value boyfriend.
They were at a party.
He went out for a smoke
and while he was smoking, another woman who was
totally drunk approached him very bluntly.
He ran back to my client, told her
with the most disgusted face what happened
and didn't leave my client's side
for a second for the rest of the night.
Because to real men
low value and desperation is off putting.
Number seven if you are low value
he might actually get interested in her.
But the only way to change this
is to start changing and developing yourself.
If you are presenting possessive behavior,
such as for once mentioned, controlling behavior,
who are you talking to?
Where are you going?
Let me check your phone, block her,
You are immediately turning the man off
because it reveals a lack of emotional control
and weakness on your part.
Instead develop yourself step by step to ensure
that your confidence grows
so that you can place firm boundaries
without feeling bad or guilty.
Know that you are doing the right thing.
This will stop any wandering eyes
As you are focusing on yourself,
meaning your self respect and his eyes will grow.
Ladies, please watch my video right here
how to set healthy boundaries in a relationship
If you're having problems with it.
And number eight, if you are a high value
and he's a bit of a hybrid, a bit high value
and a bit low value, in this case, he might just
use the other woman to make you jealous
from time to time because he's not really interested in her
and this is just him teasing you
as he can see the reactions he gets from you
which reveal how much you care.
Just ignore this trigger like behavior
and if he's smart, he will stop doing this
long-term as he will learn that
he cannot control you in this manner.
Ladies, it is very common for men to play these
little teasing games and in order to know how
to handle them, please watch my video right here.
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