Uncle C, back in the office and in this video I'm going to be explaining specifically why
fake alpha males are ruining dating, ruining the true topic of masculinity when it comes
to humanity dating and really male versus female dynamics as a whole. Now, stick with
me across this entire presentation because Rest assured, if you do and you stay with
me until the entire end, not only are you going to have a totally different inside look
at what it actually means to be a man, but you're going to totally redefine what it means
to be an alpha, how to carry yourself today in 2020, and really what the true values of
yourself needs to be in every way, shape and form. Now, before I begin, I'd like to quickly
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link down below because it really will serve you to the best that I possibly can. Now,
what are fake alpha males? What are alpha males? in general? Why is this whole thing
completely warped, completely broken, completely not lasting? Well, I'm going to show you here
today. Now, if you look at the traditional definition of alpha, alpha is going to be
leadership, good dominant characteristics, asserting yourself in times when you need
to, and really looking any sort of fear in the face because you know, you're stronger
than it that is alpha true strength, alpha true dominance. The problem is this. So today,
alpha is really defined by fake standards. Okay? And when you look at the traditional
alpha males claiming their alpha or trying their best to actually teach men, what is
alpha, the issue is that the whole cookies broken and the whole cookies crumbling and
when the whole goes He's crumbling. I need a new chocolate chip cookie. I don't know
about you, but I definitely do when you're talking about alpha, alpha, by whose standard?
What are we worshiping? What is the whole goal of becoming alpha? Why do we need all
of these women to have this three letter word with? Okay? What's the whole goal of this?
I'm going to redefine all of this. When I say alphabet, whose standard The first issue
that we're running into, is, this is alpha by most YouTube standards, okay. And alpha,
by most YouTube standards is the guy who can get the most amount of s three x as fast as
he can. He can sleep with the most amount of women, and he doesn't necessarily commit
to a single woman due to the fact that he thinks that that's showing weakness. This
is your typical alpha. Now, the funny thing is that most people think that this is the
minority of men. What's actually funny is that this is becoming the majority of men.
Men today don't typically want good healthy relationships with a woman. Men don't necessarily
want something stable and productive to grow. Men typically wants to just get this three
letter word as fast as possible. And this is the new majority. Now when we say alpha
alpha, by who standard, the next issue is the culture. When you look at culture as a
whole, what men are gravitating towards what sort of websites are the gravitating towards?
What media outlets are you gravitating towards? who's in control of these outlet sources that
is programming your mind. To have a definition of alpha, you have to understand that when
you're constantly looking at Instagram models, you're constantly absorbed by what you see
on the television, you're constantly sucked into every sort of advertisement using some
sort of sexual temptation to get you to feel a certain way. Or not only that you take something
that's beautiful between a man and a woman, something where you connect, excellent, you
have great chemistry, you have great energy, the interaction goes perfect. And now look
at all of the things that men and women do to confuse this whole situation. We bring
in alcohol, we bring in drugs, we're bringing loud music in Party scenes and raves. And
we tell ourselves that this quick fulfillment this quick pleasure is going to make something
lasting. And if we can just keep doing this in a strength format we're going to have success
could not be further from the truth. When you look at what the culture is programming
people to be in this new way this new outlet Make no mistake, you will see the spiraling
out of control destruction that most are running into. The reason why depression is at an all
time high. People feel lost people have anxiety people are scared to talk to people is because
this over sexualized culture is ruining it for everybody. Okay, and the next issue is
the bad websites. Now, I don't say the real word of this because it triggers certain things.
But these bad websites you have to understand is programming your mind to worship, the quick
thrills and the quick pleasures. And when a guy looks at these videos, and he says hey,
how fast can I get this three letter word? How can I make her do this as fast as I can
in the sheets? Why is this important to me? How many times can I make her do this or over
and over and over and see how good I can feel how big I can puff my chest. This is what's
destroying your brain. This is what's destroying dating. This is what's destroying men and
women from actually understanding how to build something beautiful. I would like us to shift
our attention to the middle of this whiteboard. If you ask yourself, why is s three x y? Is
this at the top of the food chain for your value ladder? Why is it? Why is this at the
top of what you prioritize what you think about why you want to even level up in this
world what you think you need to become? It's because you've been programmed to worship
this. It's because you have been programmed to think that if you can get this this will
lead to happiness. This cannot be further from the truth. Because when this when this
three letter word truly does become your main sense of self worth, you will realize extremely
quickly that this is a very lonely road until you get it and what's very sad is that I'm
speaking from true experience of speaking from coaching over 600 men in my community.
Once you get that you're going to understand that It is nowhere near as fulfilling as you
once thought it would be. And even though everybody told you it would be so fulfilling
even though everybody told you it's the quickest way to a woman's heart, it's the quickest
way to you feel like a badass, you're going to realize that this is the quickest route
to devastation. This is the quickest route to long term on fulfillment. This is the quickest
route to waking up every single day realizing Where in the hell did my life go? Because
I was constantly blindsided by what everybody was telling me I had to do to become a man.
Now out of this whole presentation. This is my favorite question
I want to ask you, because if men are supposed to be leaders,
if men need to lead to reclaim their masculinity, if men need to learn how to be assertive,
in a way that leads to the best positive outcome for them, Why does she have to be led down
the road of sex? If you can answer this question, because as a man, you got to understand this
is why in all of my videos, I've always said it's all on you. It is all on you. When the
relationship goes south, it's typically on you when things go bad in your life. You're
the one in charge driving your own bus. Do you know how many men I've offended by saying
that? Do you know how many men have liked to play the victim? And go against that topic?
And say that no, that's that's wrong. It's not fair for you to say that. Casey, you have
to understand as a man, you are the leader, you are the man of your own life, you are
the man of your own destiny. And when somebody enters your frame, or when you bring a female
into your frame, if this is the road, you choose to lead her down every single time
you got to understand you're going to run into the mass majority of problems 99% of
men are already running into and we can choose, we can choose to keep going down this road,
we can choose to keep making the same mistakes, we can keep choosing the push button quick
pleasure impulses, but you will never know what it is like to truly have a grasp on your
virtues and on your mission until you're stronger to go against them. And until this three letter
word right here does not control you, you will no longer know what it feels like to
actually have a true sense of self worth. If you look at what we're doing as a culture
as men We're worshipping false celebrities, we're worshipping false standards. And not
only that we are worshipping false pleasures. And when you worship these three things, your
life goes in the completely opposite way that you would actually prefer it to. And don't
get me wrong. These quick push button pleasures feel great. It feels amazing in the bedroom
to do those types of things. It feels amazing to know a woman has to view you like that.
It feels amazing to do all of that in the moment. But what we've learned what I've tried
so hard to teach on this channel, is that what feels good is typically not good for
you. But I know you you think it's all just about the looks or how to make more money.
You think that that's where it ends. If you liked this video, I want you to hit the like
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