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hey guys welcome back to my channel
ignore some of the mess behind me I have
some clothes here all sorts of things
I'm a bit of a mess I'm trying to get
back into a routine because I just got
back like almost a week ago almost and
I'm still recovering because I went to
Osaka like right away I just haven't had
a chance to sit down since the last
video to explore
my long distance engagement I am engaged
now and my boyfriend or my fiance now I
should say is not here and he's living
in LA right now and I'm going to talk a
little bit about it while I do my makeup
because today I'm having a small little
get-together with some of my girlfriends
to celebrate the engagement and yeah so
I'm like really excited about it now
that I have engaged a lot of you guys
probably have questions like well that's
super super fast and he's living in LA
why are you getting engaged first of all
I'm just gonna say I'm not an idiot like
I would never get engaged to someone if
we weren't we had no plans of ever
getting together at all
that makes zero sense one of us
obviously has to move and that is him
he's moving to Japan so we're not
married yet and we have to do that here
we didn't want to get married in the
States obviously because we're not going
to be living there and I heard that if
he get married in Japan you're
automatically married in the United
States I'm not sure how true that is I
feel like when you meet the right person
you just know and if it were true for
any of my past relationships I would
have been married to them now and I'm
glad that I didn't feel that way about
the past relationships that I had and
I'm glad that I'm old enough to have
experienced a lot and to know what I
want and same for him because we're not
like in our teens anymore we're not in
our early 20s anymore so really happy to
have somebody that really has similar
goals as me and loves me and it's
excited to travel with me and to do
things with me and just motivates me and
he's a hard worker he's a kind
guy he's very zen he keeps me calm but
when he comes back he's going to be
visiting his family first because he
hasn't seen them in a really long time
he's been living in LA for like eight
years
so almost around the same time that I've
been living in Japan which is kind of
interesting but yeah our engagement is
real and I honestly feel like this is
the right time and the right one and
he's been nothing but supportive and we
just feel like we've known each other
forever and there's so many people that
get engaged and stay engaged for about a
year and a half and then they get
married and then they're married for
three years and then they get divorced
so it's timing honestly is not anything
it's not everything and especially when
you're older I feel like it's not
everything if I were younger I think it
would be a little bit fast because I
haven't experienced a lot but honestly
like I was at the time that I met him I
was on those dating apps like dating
around and meeting new people and I did
not expect to meet somebody on Instagram
and I did not expect another friend of
mine to know him so like it's kind of
nice to have that connection like we
both have our creative instagrams and we
have met somebody that has been a part
of our lives at some point and it's just
really interesting and I did not expect
to meet him or anything this is the time
that I was dating for fun and I felt
really good about myself and I accepted
myself and I told myself that I would if
I never met anybody I'd be so happy
still because I'd be focusing on my own
goals and I'd be trying to start my own
brand and my own business and I'd be
happy doing that I've learned a lot from
all of these things and I just felt
really comfortable then and I was over
my past relationship and it just was
easy everything was easy at that point
and it was a good it was good timing to
meet him then think that we work really
well
long-distance and we work really well
together knowing that now it just felt
right like everything feels right and
being engaged to him feels completely
right and yeah we're both very much
I think and we're both were both very in
tune with our emotions and comfortable
with ourselves and I just I'm very very
happy and I'm excited to continue my
life with him and travel with him and
yeah it's gonna be a big transition for
him know that he's gonna struggle when
he moves here because he hasn't lived
here in a really long time so I think
the transition is going to be very
difficult and I just need to remember to
be there and to support him and to make
sure that he is comfortable and it's
gonna take some time it's probably gonna
take a year before we're really
completely settled and in a new routine
and yeah it's it's gonna be very
different it's gonna be a big transition
and a big part of my life honestly I'm
really happy with all the support that I
have been getting from you guys I
haven't gotten many negative messages
from anybody which has been really
awesome honestly like you can't predict
the future you can't say like oh it's
not gonna work out based on your
experiences in your life like
everybody's life and relationships are
different I have a friend that knew her
husband current husband now for only two
or three months they got married here in
Japan and they've been traveling and
living together and they've been married
for about two years now and I think
that's such an incredible story because
it's hard to find that kind of love and
it's hard to find you know something
like that and somebody that brings you
up and is willing to help you and
support you and that's the most
important thing
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it is later in the day not sure how long
this video is going to be it's probably
gonna be a short one since I talked a
lot in the beginning I am late for my
own party and I'm going to be meeting
some new youtubers it's always our
youtubers instagramers one is a youtuber
I think one is an instagramer I love
meeting new people who are creative and
know who they are and just own it and I
am excited so we're gonna go there I am
going to head out now
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oh no no no oh I keep I was saying I
keep wanting to call you me Khan because
your YouTube channel veena okay it's
such a pretty name oh my gosh
she got me flowers they're so pretty
thank you so much oh my gosh thank you
you're so pretty oh my gosh everybody's
so nice looking
Kellis been away so we're waiting for
Brittany right she's coming right now
okay we're at Friday's right now yes
oh my gosh it's my engagement party I
hate this camera oh there we go yeah
I feel like I've known them forever
I feel like I've known you forever I'm
done by you today I feel like yeah you
did really well
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yummy I like every time I have a chance
to come here I just feast
all right it's always fun to have Cal
especially when the Asian D is big and
you didn't expect fun OOP all I did was
edits do my makeup and go to this dinner
and now it's back to life tomorrow okay
I'm home I'm exhausted I'm going to take
a shower and go to bed so I'm exhausted
and I had a really good time and I'm so
glad I met some people new people today
and I had such an amazing dinner and my
friends are all so amazing so thank you
guys for coming I really appreciate it
I'm just a mess thank you guys for
loving me and my mess I think sleep is
what I need now so thank you guys for
watching this incredibly short video and
um yeah it was kind of like an update
video so anyway thank you guys I love
you all and I'm excited for the future
and I'm excited for you guys to see my
fiance in my videos and yeah there's
gonna be lots of good things coming so
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guys in the next video bye bye
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