This is Tripp from www.trippadvice.com. Today, I'm going to be sharing with
you a few techniques that will help get a girl to like you and quickly. If you
know how to build quick rapport with the girl, then she will start to feel
attraction for you. In this day and age, with so many options for men and women
to choose from,
you want to stand out from every other guy. Before we get into these tips,
don't forget to check out my magnetic conversation course that will teach you
how to talk to girls and what to say to them when you first approach, including
how to get her number and get her attracted.
The first technique to get them to like you quickly is to break the
physical barrier with them. When we feel touch from another person it makes us
feel comforted and makes us feel a connection towards that person. But you
have to know how to do it right and in a way that's not going to creep her out.
The best way to do this is by touching their shoulder or arm area with the tips
of your fingers at a moment in conversation when you seem to either
agree with them or you're excited by what they're saying. This is a good
opportunity to break the touch barrier and make them feel closer to you.
When you're talking to a girl you want to show interest and non-judgment. Let me
explain both. First, the best way to show interest is by getting them to talk
about themselves.
Ask them questions about themselves that you're interested in learning.
Studies have shown that when people talk about themselves they feel positive
emotions and you want a girl to have positive emotions around you.
Also, in conversation do not argue with them and don't try and correct them
Once you do that, it will spike a feeling of defensiveness and that's going to
make her less likely to feel connected to you.
Next is being non-judgmental. When you show non-judgment on a person
it gives them the feeling that they can be
themselves around you and feel unashamed about it.
The way to do this is to not question their thoughts and feelings on a
particular subject.
You don't have to agree with them, but don't make them feel wrong for their
beliefs.
Another great way to get a girl to like you when you first meet her is to
summarize what she says
back to you. When you're talking to her and she says something, say it back
in summary. This way she knows that you're listening to her and that you
actually care about what she's saying.
For example, if she talks about a work trip that she took last week to New York,
you can say back,
"Oh wow. You get to travel for work and you went to New York. That's awesome."
Here's a really powerful one. I'm glad you stuck around.
Only use this if you actually mean it. Ask her for advice.
Asking someone for advice shows a vulnerable side to you and shows them
that you respect their opinion. That will immediately make a connection between
you and the person. If you're talking to them and maybe they mentioned
something that they do for work or something that they're good at,
ask them for advice on that topic. Or maybe it's something on your mind that
you wanted someone's opinion on. Then go ahead and ask them.
Here's another one that has been proven to work as an actual FBI tactic to gain
rapport. And it's also used by a lot of pickup artists.
It's called a false time constraint.
This one isn't a hundred percent necessary, but it definitely works to
make women feel comfortable around you. When you first approached a girl at a
bar or during the day, in order to make her feel comfortable
let her know that you actually you can't be there for that long. You have to leave soon.
Say to her "Hey, I actually have to go in a minute" and then continue talking. This
relieves the pressure that you're going to stay there and bug her just in case
you're an annoying or not a cool guy.
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rambling technique to keep a conversation going and the specific
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Go get that right now, subscribe to the channel and I'll see you on the next video.