In today's videos ladies, I uncover those
10 Things Elegant Ladies Never Do.
My name is Anna and I run an online finishing school called
School Of Affluence.
I teach women high society skills and how to transform themselves
into becoming elegant ladies that can have great success with the affluent society.
If you're interested in this transformation visit,
www.SchoolOfAffluence.com
for more information.
Now let me jump straight into number one because
ladies, the world needs more elegance and affluent men are widely requesting it!
So make sure you listen up!
Number 1.
Elegant ladies would never dress inappropriately.
And with inappropriately, I mean elegant ladies are not trying too hard.
They are not trying to sex it up as much as possible so that they can
get more eyeballs on them.
They don't use these strategies because they don't have to.
They know that their elegance make them stand out. They know that their elegance is their superpower
that actually gives them the attention that they want,
but most importantly, gives them the right attention.
Elegant ladies do not wear clothes there are too tight.
They wear clothes that you can at least place two fingers in between the garments and the body.
So that's a good measuring stick if you are unsure whether your dress is too tight or not.
Number 2
Elegant ladies never show lack of confidence.
And to tell you the truth, confidence is probably the main ingredients in elegance.
Because no matter how well you dress or how well you speak,
if you don't execute anything with confidence,
then people don't buy your dose of elegance.
So it's really important to have that right, which is why I teach students confidence and how to develop it.
This is such an important ingredient that everybody must master
if they want to have success in this journey.
Number 3
Elegant ladies never speak carelessly.
They speak eloquently, they choose the right words, they use the right phrases.
They wouldn't say, "I'm going to the toilet" or "I'm going to the loo".
They would say, "Excuse me".
There is a particular elegant manner, a woman would speak in.
She doesn't have to speak rigidly but it's about killing those bad habits in language.
No swearing, that's a given but also choosing the correct words for things.
And if she is a native speaker in a language,
she would use the correct grammar and avoid slang and such things.
Number 4
Elegant ladies do not have certain tics or bad habits.
And what do I mean by that?
Well, cracking your fingers as an example.
I keep seeing that a lot, it's horrible or maybe cracking your neck or
maybe doing this with your hair or what else?
Or maybe pulling your clothes all the time or what else do we have that is very common?
You know all these small things, like these small tics,
we might not even be aware of them but we keep doing them.
And it's absolutely unelegant behavior and it's something that
one must start paying attention to and work with self-awareness.
The more tics you have ladies, the less elegant you're going to appear.
And I'm sorry but things like cracking your fingers or head,
that is extremely unattractive behavior full stop!
Number 5
An elegant lady never uploads provocative pictures of herself online.
And I'm talking about glamour shots, provocative bikini poses.
And I'm not saying this because I'm here to
shame women and put them in a box and don't do this and you cannot be free souls,
absolutely not!
There is nothing wrong with showing skin.
But if you're trying to be elegant, if you want to have the branding of an elegant lady,
then these type of images do not go hand in hand.
You are fine with uploading a vacation picture, if you are wearing something that is tasteful.
Let's say you are in a swimsuit or bikini on the beach or in the beach club or whatever it is,
that's totally different ladies.
But if you're there posing on the sand and
touching yourself and showing off your assets then ladies,
that's not going to make you look elegant.
And for those of you who are perhaps models and work as glamour models,
your branding can become very confusing if you also want to appear very elegant.
So sometimes, you really just have to pick your battles and decide for yourself.
What is more important for me,
having this glamour model branding or actually, have more of an elegant lady branding?
It's all about your goals and what you want to achieve.
so make sure you strategize according to what makes you happy and gives you success in life.
Number 6
And this is one of my favorites.
Now elegant ladies never chase men.
Because elegant ladies, they know they are high-caliber women who do not need to chase men.
Surely we can help men a little bit along the way
in a very silent and an invisible way so that they don't notice.
But we do not chase after them, we do not keep messaging them first,
or calling them and asking, "Can we meet?" No! We stay put and if they're interested,
and if they propose it well, we might accept their invitation.
But other than that ladies, you always have to remember never to sell yourself short.
Number 7
Elegant ladies would never slouch and walk around with curved back
or sits with a curved back.
I mean imagine, a lady has the honor to wear this beautiful expensive designer dress
and then she's sitting there as a hunchback.
How wrong is that? That is so out of place.
And it just reduces every single penny spent on that dress and ruins her image.
You really have to take the details into account if you want to be on point with your personal branding
and knowing what is the branding of an elegant lady and I need to get it right,
if I want to become one.
Number 8
This one I've noticed in society that a lot of ladies actually do not notice.
And it's really tricky when this happens.
Because when you do not notice things you cannot correct it.
So you keep doing it and then you wonder, "Why am I not being successful?"
Having aggressive body language. And that could be anything.
That can be the tone of your voice.
That can be your gestures.
Maybe you're grabbing things too harshly or when you're walking you stomp with your feet.
Or when you open doors, you kind of just slam them open.
Having this very strong and aggressive presence is not doing you any favors when it comes to elegance, ladies.
You don't have to be this little soft piece of cotton wool, you know.
You have to soften up if you're prone to this form of aggression.
And I know that aggression might spark a little bit of a defense system in people
because it's not a compliment and nobody wants to feel like,
"Oh I'm an aggressive woman."
Many people have a difficulty to see them that way.
Number 9
And this touch a little bit upon the chasing men but actually I'm talking about the bigger picture here.
Elegant ladies are never desperate and I mean, for anything.
We're not desperate for men, we're not desperate for friendships or networking,
or opportunities, or food, or anything really, ladies.
Because as soon as you start being desperate for things, it could be literally anything,
regardless of what your goal in life is.
You cannot be desperate for your goal because then you're selling yourself short.
You have to always keep your head high and be laser focused on your goals
but you can never act with desperation.
As soon as you start sending that desperate vibe out to universe, people pick it up and
it's not doing you a favor. It's actually putting people off from you.
So the chances of you achieving your goal is going to be even smaller because now,
it's written desperate all over you. So, no we don't go that far.
Just stay focused and follow the formula
and if you are one of my students, you know exactly what I'm talking about.
Now, lastly ladies, we have arrived to Number 10.
And this one is probably the most important and I have already been hinting about it throughout this video.
But actually this topic is very present
in my online finishing school because I truly believe that this is what makes
somebody achieve success.
Now, an elegant lady never does uncalculated things
that can harm her personal brand.
So I teach a lot about personal branding and image development in my online finishing school.
Because it is that important.
But a lot of the times women tend to skip this topic and they just focus on other things like,
"What bag should I buy?" or "What should I text him?"
There's a bigger picture involved than just that.
You really have to think about every single detail
and when you get those details right, that's when you get success.
So, elegant ladies, they're always careful with their reputation, with their personal brand,
with everything that they send out to universe, in terms of society,
in terms of their behavior, in terms of their online presence.
How they are seen and all of these details that are so important.
Personal branding is like this big puzzle.
You have to start placing the puzzles in the right directions, in the right places
because when you have a complete puzzle that just works,
that's when you're winning and that's when you're achieving success.
Now if you are interested in my online finishing school visit
www.SchoolOfAffluence.com
because there, you will learn everything that I've just covered
in such great detail that will really help you on your transformational path.
Ladies, unless you have watched a very popular video of mine,
10 Things Elegant Ladies Never Wear,
this video has reached millions in views so please go and watch it,
because that video is going to really tell you what not to wear.
So make sure you don't miss that one. Now I will see you in that video
and don't forget to subscribe if you still haven't done so. Bye, ladies!