I've seen a lot of videos online that recommend this and this is definitely
not what I recommend today insider I want to share with something that you
don't wanna hear from me but you need to hear and you'll see what I mean a
moment it comes down to these three things and I'm probably the only person
who will tell you this insider because I care about you from the bottom of my
heart take every single one of these points on board and you will be able to
achieve the ultimate freedom in life which is in financial freedom it's
called social freedom getting to a point where you are free of other people's
opinions and you're living that life you're born to live that is the ultimate
freedom in life let's go on to the first thing which is to stop making this game
all about you anytime you're carrying and worrying about what other people
think you're stuck in you freaking ego and you just think about yourself that's
why you're feeling this pressure you know my mentor once said to me he shared
with me this analogy that really painted a great picture that I want to share with you
he said how Tim right now you think all of the cameras all of the lights is on
you and you're the main act in your movie walk around thinking everyone
cares about you and everybody else the side cast right and all other ride along
I said yeah he said but let me ask you Tim in my movie and he pointed to
himself he said who's the main actor I said I suppose it would be you and so he
said who will be the side cast I said it would be me he said are you starting
to see what I mean by this right now you think everybody cares about you but
frankly they couldn't give a shit because they're too busy worrying what
you are thinking of them and so you're walking around this movie thinking all this
lights all the cameras are on you but in reality nobody really cares at the end of it all
we're all gonna be burnt to dust anyways have you ever zoomed out on Google Maps
before and notice how you are speck of dust on this planet you think the lights on
you nobody cares even if you got followers nobody really cares
they'll probably care about you for like ten minutes and you're gone out of their
world you are free you are free to do your thing insider realize that you're
free to do what you wish because if you allow yourself to be controlled
by other people's opinions that side for example pay paying interest on the debt
that you don't owe don't be one of those people everybody else is worrying what
you are thinking to them be free be different act different think different
let's be a most authentic version of ourselves
most congruent the second point I want to share with you is to change that question
because right now anytime you worry about what other people think of you
it's because I like to talk about this a lot it's because you're asking yourself
stupid-ass questions it's negatively oriented such as oh my god
why am I feeling so bad or what if they think this what if they think that if
you ask yourself subconsciously these questions become conscious of it you're
going to get negative responses in a subconscious and you cannot create a
positive life with a negative mind so when you change your questions you
change your life you probably want to write that down because when you get
conscious of what is controlling me every single day you'll notice how half
the time every single day autopilot negative oriented questions you change
this you'll begin to change your life just for example when I was
starting to speak which is about two years ago actually nowadays I'm an
international speaker travel around the world and so forth but literally a decade
ago suffering from social anxiety I've transformed this because I've changed
the questions when I was really bad at speaking and when I was really nervous
it's because all of the questions was about me I was asking myself oh what if
I screw up what if I run out of things to say what if what if what if it's all
about me it was all ego when I began to change my questions I asked myself
good questions for once positive questions such as how can I most uplift
the audience's day-to-day how can I best serve today how can I make them walk out
of the room feeling like they've got energy and passion to do what they're
born to do when I began to ask myself quality positive oriented questions
everything began to shift in my life it was no longer about me as my willingness
contribute that got me to where I am today insider I've totally transformed my
life because I let go of the ego trying to control me and making
the whole game about me let go of that that's the second point
the third point insider it's something that most of you will not do because it
requires action and most people they're too busy just frankly watching videos
never doing anything about it and never creating their dream life just wishfully
hoping if you are an action taker please let me know in the comments box below
you will be involved with this because I'll definitely reply back to you because
I love those people who actually follow through commitments the third point
you've got to challenge yourself every single day you got to you got to do the
things insider that you believe people care about you for doing every single
day if right now if you film yourself in public maybe you know on your iPhone or
whatever if you believe people care about you do that every single day if
you believe people care about you when you're on the stage speaking do that
every single day if you believe putting yourself out there online people care
about you do that every single day why it's called an elastic band theory write
that down when you stretching the elastic band let go what happens yes it
goes back to normal when you stretch a little bit more but
you let go what happens it goes back to normal
but when you keep on stretching and you never let go you keep on stretching and
perseverance what happens it snaps that's called a breakthrough frankly
you've never experienced a breakthrough if you still care about what other
people think because you let go way too early you took a little step and you're
like no that doesn't work and you let go now it's back to normal
you've got to snap that elastic band for example for me I used to be terrified of
public speaking but nowadays I'm able to travel around the world literally like
tomorrow I'm flying out to Malaysia and straight after got luxury retreat and so
forth I get to experience all of this because of the fact that one of my
mentors push me to snap this elastic band what end up happening is he made
me make a fool of myself on the stage it was my ultimate fear and I did it after
two minutes has never been the same again literally that single moment changed my
entire speaking career why because afterwards speaking normal was
easy because I've experienced a real stretch and that's why my mentees on
board Success Insider Academy as well as Life Mastery Accelerator and so forth they
become so successful in terms of turning this fear into results because I
challenge them every single day that's what you got to do insider challenge
yourself every single day in that way you're able to unlock your greatness so
if you're willing to do this be sure to let me know in the comments box below so
these are the three points insider the first point is to stop making this game
about you nobody frankly cares you're featuring a
movie called my life the second point is to change internal questions change this
question although it seems bit counterintuitive for example focus and
what you can impact on them but realize this if you're going to be asking
questions that's to do with you you're going to find yourself so self-conscious
if you now put the focus on the audience in terms of how you can uplift their day
now you're focusing on something that will
uplift you now you're focusing on what's called an ethnocentric energy the third
point is to challenge yourself every single day if you go value from today's
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your biggest takeaway the thing you're gonna take action on and as always follow your
heart my friend and take action and go live the life to truly point to live I'll
speak to you very soon take care