﻿Have you ever wondered why it feels so good to hear that your ex got dumped? You always
tend to feel a sense of relief and fulfillment seeing your ex get hit by one misfortune after
another. What really triggers this feeling? In this video, we are going to reveal five
main unknown secrets why it feels so good to hear that your ex got dumped.
Number two on this list will blow your mind! AT NUMBER FIVE;
IT AFFIRMS YOUR CHOICE TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR PARTNER.
How does it feel when you realize you made a good decision breaking up with your ex? This is the
thought that subconsciously runs through your mind when you see your ex get dumped. You feel redeemed
and justified having broken up with him. Knowing that someone else does not consider
your ex a good partner makes you feel safer. You start to reassure yourself that you did not make
a bad decision breaking up with him, after all. You automatically feel relieved in the realization
that other people have the same negative opinion concerning him. It helps you to
accept that he was always the problem, and reinforces your own decision to dump him.
Have you ever had this feeling? Let us know in the comments section below.
AT NUMBER FOUR; WE GENEROUSLY COMPARE OURSELVES TO OUR EXES.
Every time we feel our life is a mess, we often opt to compare ourselves with those who are doing
worse than us. The feeling of seeing ourselves doing better than others boosts our mood and lifts
our spirit. This applies to our relationships as well. After a break-up, we begin to compare our
lives with our ex-partners. We become excited when we realize that our ex is doing relatively worse.
Seeing your ex dumped acts as a joyful affirmation that you are doing better in life.
Research shows that people who feed their minds with negative comments concerning their life
tend to feel good when they hear about unfortunate experiences of others.
This will insanely shock you, even more, when you listen to number one on this list.
NUMBER THREE: IT REINFORCES
YOUR IDEA THAT YOUR EX DESERVES PUNISHMENT When your partner initiates a breakup with you,
there is always a strong feeling that the same should happen to him too. Seeing your
ex get dumped feels like repayment for what he did to you. You start to feel that you have
finally gotten justice. Research indicates that humans tend to feel a strong sense of
empathy and sympathy when they feel someone does not deserve the misfortune that befalls them.
In the same way, we are often excited and happy when it appears that others
deserve their misfortunes or hardships. You automatically feel your ex deserves to
undergo the same difficulty you underwent when he broke up with you. If you think
this is the reason you feel so good your ex got dumped, hit the notification bell down below.
AT NUMBER TWO: IT BOOSTS YOUR SELF-ESTEEM.
Women never find it easy when their partner breaks up with them. You tend to constantly feel
inadequate. You start to wonder what really made your partner break up with you. Your self-esteem
hits a low and you feel an acute pain every time it dawns on you that he actually left.
This pain, discomfort, and the feeling of self-unworth magically vanish away when you
hear that your partner has been dumped as well. You begin to rejoice at the thought of him going
through the same difficult experience too. Your self-esteem automatically boosts when you realize
you might not have been the problem after all. If you have ever had low self-esteem when
your ex broke up with you, hit the subscribe button below.
NUMBER ONE; IT'S A PERSONALITY TRAIT.
Sometimes, this feeling of joy can be attributed to your personality trait.
People with a narcissistic personality trait for instance, often tend to lack empathy.
Narcissists are more likely to rejoice at the misfortune of others. Research also indicates
that people with psychopathy personality traits tend to have an impaired empathy system as well.
Their excitement is in seeing other people undergo suffering and adversity.
It can be surprising to realize that your personality trait is actually the reason
you feel so good when your ex gets dumped. People with inflated dark personality traits
are usually associated with the feeling of intense joy at other people's hardships and adversities.
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