All right. I want to warn you,
this is not the kind of handshake battle that you're probably used to seeing.
Yesterday, at the G-7 Summit, Trump sat down with India's
Norendra Mobi. This is a guy who I get requests to do videos about all the time.
This is the first one I've done, but a handshake battle and sued,
and it's a bit different than normal. At the end of this video, first of all,
we're going to watch the handshake,
battle them to break it down and show you exactly what happened, but by the end,
you're also going to understand a social principle that you'll be able to use
every day. Now,
what do we normally see with people who are in handshake battles,
especially with Trump? Oh, so serious, very serious, very intense and serious.
Never break the frame and there's a time and place for that because as you've
probably learned on this channel,
showing that you're overtaken by emotions is never a positive thing.
When you show emotion,
you want it to be calculated in something that you're doing intentionally.
But in this instance, Moby took a little bit of a different spin.
So let's watch the footage and I'll come back in and break it down to show you
what happened. He actually speaks very good English.
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big, big guy is good nature just cracks me up.
I'm probably seeing this five though. And look at the look on Trump's face.
That's not a forced smile.
Like he's actually trying to keep back a smile a little bit in that I love it.
And how does he accomplish this?
There's a lot more going on here than what you probably think.
So the first thing the Mobi didn't do was just go along with on.
Most people do just go along with the joke. Oh yeah, he can't speak English,
doesn't want to talk to me. Huh?
That's what 90 95% of world leaders would do.
But he took a move out of Improv.
If you go to Improv or they basically teach you how to act on the spot,
they'll give you, hey, do a scene about this and you have to go. It's,
if this is true, then what? So what the person does before you, if this is,
if they say, hey, do a show about your walking,
and it just starts pouring rain and the first person takes out an umbrella and
you're playing along with him. Okay, if there's an umbrella, then what? Right?
It's never, the umbrella isn't there.
It's always take that and build on it so he doesn't push back from it.
Number one, he goes along with it. He rides that social energy,
which you see what it does. Hit the move with that cheesy smile at Trump's face,
which I think is hilarious, but he goes along with it,
but then shows that he has high status.
He doesn't go along with it and lose his status. And how does he do that?
Physicality. He not only is comfortable touching Trump,
he's grabbing his arm and pulling it in with two hands.
The reason he gets away with it, that huge smile,
that big laugh and that exaggerated hand movement. So he won on two fronts.
I shouldn't say he won. It's like he came out on top,
but he played that perfectly. And I shouldn't say,
I'm not saying Trump came out on top.
This is a great example of both people retain high status and the mood is
brought up.
So many people think with an interaction there's always a and a loser and that's
a really amateur way to look at things.
The real pros always want to bring people up.
They want to bring the collective mood up, so how can you do this?
You go along with it,
the person said before and then you show that you still have status too.
You're not just going along with it like some puppy dog on a leash,
but you're going along with them showing it.
You think showing him you think it's funny,
but then adding your own thing to show that you feel like you have high status
too and then,
and then Trump just stares at it for a few seconds and Trump at that point is
thinking, all right, I know he's joking. He's good nature. They're free.
I mean clearly this is a little bit of a different dynamic because they have a
friendly relationship,
which makes it much easier than someone who you have a confrontational
relationship with.
But Trump gives him one last little push to the arm and I want you to notice
some nuance about the push to the arm too.
He pushes it knowing the last time that he touched him ob,
he grabbed his hands and he tried to push him back.
He wanted to end with the push with nothing back from Ob.
So notice he pushes him so quickly and Mobi actually does go to grab him like he
anticipated,
but he pulled it back just to kind of finish with a little bit of a one up.
That's a strategic thing. Don't think for a minute if you're watching this,
they're like, oh, that's over-analyzing. Trump wasn't thinking that through.
He was absolutely,
people get to this level because they are very socially aware.
They understand all the nuances that are going on and if you are in Trump's
brain,
it's not like there's a million calculations like this and this and this and
this. Oh, the five plus five minute, I gotta do this, I gotta do this.
He just felt that that status was a little bit in question just because he was
so grandiose.
He was pulling him and grabbing him and just wanted one moral thing.
It also creates a poor, he's joking around. He continued to do that,
but that is a calculated move by Trump to accomplish the fact that he didn't
want to end with Moby, grabbed his hand and yelled at him and that big,
exaggerated gesture and look how this ends.
How does this feel to you? How does the mood feel?
They're in a room with other people. They're both feeling good.
How often do you see an interaction,
especially among politicians that ends with both of them? Jen,
usually it's that cheap, fake smile.
It's so good to have you here. These guys are actually having fun.
This is one of the first interactions that actually seen to Moby.
I'm going to keep my eye on him because this is very advanced stuff.
If you were just to watch it, what would most people say? Oh, you know,
he was just laughing and slapped his hand. Well, if you want to end there,
that's fine. But that is not true if that was going on. But most people,
that's all they understand about social interaction.
That's why when they go out,
sometimes they get a good reaction from people and sometimes they get a bad
reaction and they don't know why. It's not their fault.
We're not taught this in school. There's no place you can even learn this.
It has the biggest impact on the success in the workplace,
in business and dating and relationships.
And there's nowhere that people can learn this stuff.
And that's why I'm so passionate about teaching this on the channel.
My goal is to teach as many people as possible. If you like videos like this,
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video as well. Now, if you want to see another handshake battle,
I think this is probably the most incredible handshake battle I've ever seen
between Trump and McCrone,
where yanks him and whips him through the streets of Perry.
You could click a right here.
I'll put a link to it right here and I'll walk you through it there. Now.