Summer: Nobody knows how to plan a polyamorous wedding. Like seriously.
Betty: We're here to celebrate the love of Summer. Jimmy and Chacha.
And it's going to be a fabulous day.
Jimmy: My mom and my dad my sister, my other sister,
they chose not to come. It sucks I mean,
I, I didn't think it was gonna be this bad.
Summer: Right now we are here at the hotel
and we're getting ready to get married.
We are here all three of us in separate rooms.
because we're not seeing each other the night before the wedding.
Jimmy: So I'm pretty much just gonna chill.
Eric: Yeah you don’t have to stress too much.
Summer: It’s so weird we always get ready together
so, it’s so damn …
Chacha: I've always known I was bisexual.
When I met Jimmy it was like our first second date
and I just told him like, Hey, I I like girls,
and what do you think about dating other girls?
Three years later we met Summer.
Jimmy: I'm a little nervous, but you know, pretty, pretty good.
So this is the first time all families are going to be together.
I have two cousins coming.
My mom and my dad and my sister, my other sister,
they chose not to come. So they were really upset.
I didn't think it was gonna be this bad.
I just see Summer’s family, Chacha's family.
And then my family is just so closed about it, you know?
And it sucks.
I know the girls are excited and that's what's keeping me up, you know.
knowing that they're happy and this is something that they wanted as well.
I'm gonna go there first. Eric can you come help me with this real quick.
And then the girls are gonna arrive there separately. Okay.
Chacha: I'm a little nervous.
You think you're ready, but I don't think you're ever ready.
Summer: I'm a little nervous. But now I'm like got my coffee and me
and my hair is getting done.
So I think everything's coming together slowly.
Betty: We're here to celebrate the love of Summer, Jimmy and Chacha
and it's going to be a fabulous day. I can feel some excitement.
I can feel some anxiety. There's a little stress going on.
Kellina: What do you want with the m&ms?
Being the mom, step mom of one of the brides,
my position on the relationship is is that I support the whole thing.
There are numerous family members that didn't show up,
due to the fact of what kind of relationship it is.
I just I just wish that people would take past concepts
out of today's realism, because what they have is beautiful.
John: Being the father of Summer, I am so happy that she's happy.
That's my main goal in life. She's healthy, she's happy.
I mean, what else could I ask for, you know?
Jimmy: I'm pretty relaxed about everything.
The DJ was a little bit late, but he's here now.
So, you know, I think everything will work out.
Summer: I'm really excited for our families to meet.
Chacha: I'm super excited whoo it's happening.
Celebrant: I welcome you here today to bear witness with me,
the lifelong partnership of Summer, Chacha and Jimmy.
These three love each other in so many of the same ways,
yet individual love overlap
to create a unique and special bond.
If they are happy to do what they're doing,
can we support them and be happy with them?
Chacha will you take Jimmy and Summer to be your lifelong partners
as husband and wife? Chacha: I do.
Summer: I do. I do.
Jimmy: I do.
Celebrant: I I'm proud to now announce you for the first time,
Mr. and Mrs. and Mrs. Silva.
Ron: I feel great. You know,
I'm so happy for her. I wish that
maybe some more my family would have participated.
I'm 72 years old; I grew up in a different world.
I never knew anybody like that.
Yes, I was surprised but never disappointed.
You know, I'm a caveman.
Summer: I’m married to two people now how cool is that?
Jans: There, their love, and their connection
showed me so much more of what this world can be.
Even its darkest moments. And it's a beautiful thing I think that's divine.
Jimmy: Want to say thanks to Eric, for coming.
That's my only family member that showed up him and Alex.
So I appreciate that.
Eric: All your families. I know. Some maybe they just can't be here today.
No big deal. That's just what it is.
That's all, but all the ones that are here are so happy and so supportive
and it's so beautiful.
And that's really what it is about. We love you.
John: I love you guys. I love you guys.
I love you guys so much. I Love you guys.
Love you so much.
Chacha: Thank you everyone for coming out.
it means so much from the bottom of my heart.
Now it’s time to let the party begin.
Chacha: Our family says they're having a great time getting along.
This is new for everyone.
A lot of people were not for our wedding.
So I'm just really relieved that we just got to enjoy
our celebration with people that support us.
Jimmy's family is a huge part of our lives and we wish that they were here today.
It's gonna just be a matter of time for them to change their mind.
I think everybody was just really happy overall which was a goal completed.
Summer: Nobody knows how to plan a polyamorous wedding.
It was so different from two brides and you know, it's just it was awesome.
So it just all came together beautifully and I'm so happy
everybody's having a good time.
Chacha: What do you have to judge?
There's nothing to really judge there's just love.
Ready to go? Jimmy: We’re going.