this video I'm going to show you the problem with twin flame understandings
why so many people put this idea on a pedestal and end up blocking them from
experiencing something that could be amazing in their life and I'm going to
show you exactly how to bypass that belief system welcome back to another
video my name's Aaron I help people expand their consciousness now in this
video I'm going to be showing you a paradigm that goes beyond that of
understanding Twin Flames and understanding that in a way the problem
with thinking about Twin Flames in the way that most people do and I say this
because just yesterday I was on a Q&A for one of my coaching groups and one
thing I noticed is that a lot of people were asking about twin flame energies
and asking about their connection to Twin Flames and what I recognized is
that many people may actually be vibrationally separating themselves from
experiencing amazing things in their life because of this idea now here's the
thing our beliefs create our experience now what a lot of times happens is some
people will look at this idea of a twin flame which in a way implies the other
half of our soul which already from that frame of a belief system is saying I am
one-half of a soul and I then be complete when I find my other half of
the soul at least that's the traditional way that people understand the twin
flame energies and the point of this is understanding that when we have that
interpretation of it if I bracingly separates ourselves when actually
connecting to ourself in a deeper level and I've kind of shared this before as
well but it's almost like this idea when looking for it to enflame it's like I'm
looking for my twin flame and in a way it's like every single person you date
you're asking yourself in comparing - your twin flame which we may not
always actually incarnate with what we could call our twin flame we may we may
not who knows we don't really exactly know what twin flame energy is we do
know that we are infinite spiritual beings having temporary human
experiences from what I understand about Twin Flames from watching someone like
Bashar somebody listening to someone like Edgar Cayce the idea of a twin
flame is that many times if Twin Flames do incarnate together it's to do some
type of work together some type of it complements each other in a powerful way
but char has also said who's channeled by you know Darrell Anka channels Bashar
Bashar has talked about how sometimes twin flame energy can also be a divine
counterpart which means in a way think of it like the Oversoul and then after
the Oversoul you have higher selves which is like the higher version of us
that has many simultaneous lives and the idea behind this is that what we could
call a twin flame or a divine counterpart it's just closer on that
triad going down it's almost like you share the same higher self in a way from
my understanding that's what the potential of what I think a twin flame
energy could be however I don't know for certain now what I do know is that I see
so many people that could be in amazing relationships but what they do is they
compare the person they're with and they say are you my joint flame imagine that
there's this book this dr. Seuss book that I used to read when I was a kid and
it was like this little is like are you my mother it was like this little chick
or something like that that was like asking everything I do my mother died
asking like some type of a human or you'll a mother asked him like a bottle
of water as you bottled water said are you my mother are you my mother
and the same way it's like some people are like are you my twin flame are you
my twin flame are you my twin flame and what happens is when you're always
comparing the person you're meeting to twin flame and seeing and thinking or
you might to acclaim you didn't immediately put that person on a huge
pedestal and say I really really expect things to happen in a certain way if it
doesn't happen according to the blueprint in my mind then I don't know
what I will do because this person is the other half to my soul and when we
believe someone's the other half to our soul that are vibrationally on a
different pedestal and we're then vibrationally far away from them however
this is what I believe about two flames I believe that we use this word twin
flame because in a way it's something that we can relate to in a certain way
we can kind of understand the idea but what if there's only a limited amount of
language that we have and what if there's like eight different types of
twin flames what if that we just don't know about it because we only know of
this few limited human experience what if there's twin flames that have a
certain type of relationship what if there's twin flames that have another
facet of relationship but we don't know because we're clumping everything
together into one idea what if those romantic twin flame what if there's a
divine counterpart that's not meant to be romantic what if you there's people
that I know that have said and that have had the experience of finding out that
one of their family members is their twin flame
well obviously that's something that's not romantic that's something that's
just an energy soul level what if there's different facets of this but
we're putting everyone into this box and saying this is the way things have to be
not knowing that that death itself is what's causing the problem is
that definition and the key to this is redefining what that may mean and being
honest with ourselves we don't know exactly what it is but what I will say
is when I see like what I want to do is I want to help three people from the
definition of twin flame and feeling very needy with this process because
anything you need anytime there's a needy resistant energy your
vibrationally separated from actually being able to perceive of it so the key
to this is understanding that you might have a belief that you're meant to meet
your twin flame and that your twin flame is the other half to your soul and then
you need to find the other after your soul and then when you meet somebody and
things aren't going well you might go online and look up Twin Flames and zebu
there's this activation that goes on maybe that twin flame that's not acting
according to the way that I think they should is actually activating this
within me and this is why I feel this way and then I get a lot of I get so
many people that I see that reach out to me that talk about their twin flame and
how things aren't working out and the reason I say this is because I want you
to know that you are whole and complete as yourself you don't need to meet the
other half of your soul and this is the thing trying to control it is what's
gonna cause the resistance and the suffering if this whole Twin Flame idea
is real which maybe it is I'm not saying it's not I'm not trying to make some sad
video I'm trying to just be honest and say that as somebody that's on and in
the public eye that so many people reach out to I see it as a very unhealthy
thing many times because then people get so obsessed with the idea of their twin
flame rather than recognize you you are whole and complete already and if you do
want my advice as to how I think you would go about me Tina twin flame or you
were to enflame it would have to do with understanding you being at your core
frequency are you doing what you love for a living when you're doing what you
love for a living you're really
who you're meant to be and then you're more likely to perceive in your reality
of someone to reflect that back to you you see this is the key if so many
notice my online anytime I was working a nine-to-five job I wasn't passionate
about I would also be in a relationship with girlfriends that would also be
working nine to five jobs they weren't passionate about but when you get to
your core you then are being your true self then somebody has someone to come
off of you up and something to like in a way attract to you based on your true
energy however the moment you put someone on a pedestal there
vibrationally further away so what if with this whole idea twin flame it's a
very limited definition what is sometimes when flames aren't romantic
what if sometimes twin flames are only meant to come into your life for maybe a
couple of years and then you go off in your own direction but you see we put
this unhealthy way of looking at twin flames into a box and we say that this
is the way it's supposed to be we're supposed to be romantic and we're
supposed to be together forever and if we're not and the moment that starts to
change then there's this there's this necessity to control the other person
how do I control them how do I get them to act the way that I want them to act
how do I get them to love me how do I get them to realize that we're two in
flames these are questions that are coming from the frame that you are the
Cameo in someone else's movie but let me tell you something you are the star of
your own movie you are a soul that is 100% whole and complete twin flame would
be more like a mirror of your whole and completeness and knowing and having that
frame makes it easier for you to be like oh yes I am whole and complete already
that frame is everything but the frame of the twin flame energy that somebody
else outside of you is going to complete your soul is something that can be very
draining because the moment they don't act according to the way you want is the
moment problems come now here's the thing and this is a life
challenge for me this is something my whole entire life
I may be working through it's learning how to not control different situations
it's learning how to surrender to the moment not being so stubborn just in
general in my life the way I have my routine the way that I make videos every
single day the way that I am and I'm pretty stubborn and I try to control
certain things I try to fix people sometimes even though that implies that
someone is broken whether it's family members it's like it's like trying to
you know trying to fix and trying to have them be a certain way and do
certain things let go of the control and you take my own advice sometimes I do my
best to realize this but when you try to control things you create resistance if
you're trying to control someone here too it started to have being a
relationship with and then things are going to happen that control is causing
the resistance people can feel that too you try to control someone else they can
feel you're trying to control them they will do everything they can to repel 99%
of the time so the reason I say this is because if you're trying to control
someone else to love you to give you validation to be with you to recognize
that you guys are Twin Flames then they are going to rebel against that but if
you let go and trust the universe if that is your twin flame then it will
come back to you if it is meant to be you have to trust that process though
trying to control it from the evil perspective though is what will cause
resistance the problem with Twin Flames and understanding this is that the
belief system of the way people believe it to be is unhealthy and because of
that a lot of times people create more harm than good with it and and you don't
it's not necessarily cool and fun to hear that when you're in the thick of it
I get that but I'm willing to do it because I want to help free you from
that from that I'm feeling unworthiness feeling like you're incomplete
incomplete the more you focus on your own self-love the more you focus on
yourself the more you're the starter of your own movie the more gravity you
create and the more people want to be around for the more people feel that
energy off of you but the more that you are focused on someone else acted in a
certain way be in a certain way is the more you are going to create that kind
of resistance within yourself so recognize that the beliefs we have
create our reality and if you change your beliefs you change your life
feelings come from beliefs this is the way that it works beliefs feelings
thoughts actions results which fuel beliefs so you first off have a belief
which then because the meaning you give something you then have a feeling in
that feeling state you then have two thoughts that are equal to it those
thoughts eventually led to you taking action you take action roots reap the
certain result and then that result goes back into belief which reaffirms the
belief some people say well I feel like this person is my twin flame this person
is my twin flame this person is my twin flame why are they acting the way I want
the reason you feel that way is because you might believe they are your twin
flame now not to say that there isn't some divine connection to where that
could be the case but the key is is 90% of the time I'd say it's a belief and
then that person was on a pedestal if they don't act a certain way you have
rules and beliefs as to how they should act you then will feel negative emotion
if they're not acting according to the way you want but don't be fooled into
thinking that it's all about the feeling because the feeling comes from the
belief you must first believe something to be true and you'll you're if somebody
if you look at someone you believe they're just the one for you they're the
one for you you're gonna generate a certain feeling a certain emotion but
say you're on two or three months of dating and they do something that just
you just know immediately this is not gonna work out this is a huge value from
me you don't value it as well this is not gonna work out that feeling would
change very quickly you'd be conflicted for a lot of it I
still love this person but I know it's not gonna work out long-term your
feelings will start to change because your beliefs about it is changing you
see so what I'm trying to do is to help free you from the belief of the twin
flame other half of your soul that will complete you and you'll finally be whole
and complete and you'll finally be able to be happy and like and I'm trying to
free you from that definition so that you know you're already whole and
complete you're a 100 whole and complete soul
100% and if you are meant to meet a twin flame connection and have a twin flame
in your life then you will if you trust the process you trust the universe but
know that once you put someone on a pedestal your vibrates leave separated
from them the key to this is letting go letting go of the definition letting go
of trying to control letting go because when you let go you can then allow
things to happen the way they're meant to happen but the frame of you want a
whole and complete will only help you and I understand that this video might
be a little bit hard to hear for somebody that's been really thinking
about their twin flame because in a way it invalidates it you seem to in flames
aren't real I'm not saying that I'm saying that the definition the way that
we believe it to be is what's causing a lot of pain the frame from it is
unhealthy and the frame you can begin to develop is that a twin flame would be a
reflection a reflection but not the other half to your soul you're
completely also maybe someday it would reflect something back to you so
this is something that I think changes the absolute game with this process now
the way that I've come to the reason I made this video is because in something
I have called the shift Academy is my group coaching and I coach people every
single month on a two-hour long zoom call that I do and when I do that I
bring people on life like you see me work with someone else and actually
interact with them and you see them go through the transformation by the end of
you know 20 30 minutes of working with them you'll see and that's a completely
different person and what I do is I help people to be the version of you you like
the perfect version of you so that you start to wire in the vibration into your
reality to disassociate from the old story the old belief system and to be
who you're really meant to be that's what the shift Academy does every single
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highlight people that help you to see you as this version of you and then the
coaching is where the value really is and when I was doing it yesterday there
were two or three people that were talking about this understanding of twin
flame and that's something that I noticed and simply changing this belief
about it changes absolutely everything now right now if you want to join the
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want to share with you what I know about it let me know if that's something
you're interested other than that I hope you enjoyed this video and as always
I'll see you on the next one peace much love and I will stay