I know.
Wondering waste time.
So what to do when do you do when you have no direction in life?
That is going to get answered for you today.
Kirk.
How do I find direction in my life?
What do I do?
Wow.
Of the thousands and thousands of people that I've personally met who asked me this question.
How am I supposed to know how to help all these different individuals and their different
talents, abilities and come froms help them find direction in their life?
Ahh, there is a method to be able to figure this out.
Now, some people, you know, they go off and sit by themselves by days upon days and to
try to write down and discover what their purpose in life is.
I really think what works best for a person to discover their path in their life is you
got to go a little bit of a process.
I am going to show you the equation.
But each individual that I show this equation to.
Who has taking it on has literally found a much more clear idea of what their direction
in life is.
Now, the beginning of this equation looks like this, service.
You in a service type of experience.
Serving people in some way, helping somebody who, you know, maybe struggling or helping
somebody with a project with their house or volunteering somewhere to offer your service.
But when you give service to other people, what it does it is it helps you be able to
discover, you actually can make a difference.
And to discover your own personal path in your life, it's got to start with service.
Because service leads in to discovering what your personal worth is.
Now, how does that happen?
Well, when you help somebody, let's say you just go to a service project to help somebody
with their yard.
The yard is a mess and you're going to go over with a couple of neighbors and help clean
up somebody's yard.
Well, while you're there you hear comment from that home owner how much they appreciate
you.
What a big difference you've made.
They tell you that you've saved them a lot of time.
Now, listen to that.
You know as you're driving home from that service project, you could be thinking to
yourself, "I make a difference in other people's lives.
I saved them time.
What I do really matters."
So, you see where this is going?
Giving service builds a sense of self-worth.
And when you have a higher level of self-worth, it then takes you into this next level of
you have self-worth which then creates an opportunity for you to feel like you have
purpose.
Because if you don't have self-worth, why would you ever figure out what your purpose
in life is?
It's just not going to happen.
Because if you have low self-worth, there's nothing you could do that would feel like,
you know, it's having a direction.
And so, and you move into this category of having self-worth and having purpose.
You then begin to open up your mind to be able to discover your own personal path.
So, when I have a mentoring client who is struggling with their direction in their life,
I start asking them, "What service projects they can do?
And when they think, you know, sometime they think big gigantic service project and I'm
just like, "No, we're talking about 15, 20 mins service you can do for someone."
I don't have to help that person figure out their direction in life.
What I do know that is missing is a level of self-worth.
When you self-worth is low, you can't see that you even have a purpose in life.
So, we got to build up that self-worth.
Now, how often would I suggest you do it type of service?
Well, depends on how soon you want to find your direction in life.
I had one mentoring client who is adamant about they want to figure out their direction
in life now.
And I said, "Okay.
Well, you need to pick of really large service that you can provide to people."
And you know, there are big service project or multiple service projects in a month.
And I said, the more you do it, the clearer you get.
It's fantastic.
Because when you offer service then what happens?
Your self-worth goes up when your self-worth goes up, you realize you have a purpose.
Because you feel like have a purpose, you start to see your path.
So, she was like, "Alright, game on Kirk.
I want to do this."
So, she picked her service that she was going to offer to people and it was a lot of times.
She was going to...
Now, put about 5 to 6 hours a week into a service project to serve other people.
And the first week, you know, she told me, she was like, "Aw man, this is tough.
Trying to add these hours to my week and I've never done this before."
And she goes, "Are you sure this is going to work?"
And I said, "The equation happens every time."
Raise your self-worth through service, you'll find that you have purpose and when you have
purpose, you discover your path.
So, the first week went by, the second week went by, the third week went by.
I saw here literally 4 weeks after she started this, you know, 6 hours of service each week.
And when she walk into the room where we're going to hold our next mentoring appointment.
She walked in with the biggest smile on her face I have ever seen in my life.
Big bright smile.
Super excited.
She looks at me and she goes, "You know, Kirk, I just...
You did it again.
You really figured out the equation."
And I said, "What happened?
What's going on?"
"Well, I start doing this service, I feel good about who I am.
And I realize I can contribute and make a difference in the world."
And she goes, "This ideas have been coming to me about the direction in my life."
She was like, "I've never had these ideas before in my entire life.
Never even thought this things before."
And she goes, "Am I a crazy person?
How come these thoughts are coming to me now and I haven't been able to figure this out
for the last 4, 5 years of my life?"
This was missing.
It's an equation.
And it works.
When you decide to start donating time or planning time to give service to help people,
this will happen to you.
This will go up.
You'll begin to find that you do have a purpose in life.
To literally make other people's lives better.
And when you have that sensation, that feeling, that realization.
That you really have a purpose to really improve other peoples lives, your direction in life
of what it is you can do and really like fulfill your mission, your movement, your cause will
begin to come to your mind.
It's not in there right now.
But to uncover it.
Start with giving service to others.
It works every time.
And now it's your turn.
Figure out what your next service is you're going to offer and be consistent and watch,
it'll show up.
And the path, your direction in life will become uncovered.
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