INFJs are warm-hearted and known for being friendly introverts who can form a wide range
of friendships with a variety of people, but they keep their emotions hidden. As a result,
determining whether and if this type likes you as more than a friend
might be tough. INFJs have a reputation for being mysterious individuals. That reputation
is somewhat accurate if you're attempting to figure out what an INFJ is truly thinking.
And, judging by the number of people who ask "How can I know if an INFJ likes me?" on the internet,
determining if an INFJ is attracted to you, especially romantically, can be challenging.
So in this video, we will be talking about 7 signs that an INFJ likes you.
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They want to hang out
When an INFJ has a crush on someone, they desire to spend time with them. It's a good sign if an
INFJ freely wants to spend time with you when he or she or they could be doing something else.
They will take time out of their busy schedule to be with you, despite their hectic schedule. As we
all know, INFJs prefer to spend time alone or with close pals in this circumstance.
That isn't to say they don't have meaningful connections;
it's just that they prefer to be alone. In contrast to the stereotypical introvert,
INFJs are often outgoing people who love socializing more. However, they still have a
finite amount of social energy. It's a fairly good clue that they like you if they answer the phone
when you call, say "yes" when you ask if they can hang out, and plan to spend time with you.
Spending quality time as a key aspect of a relationship is how INFJs demonstrate
affection, and they will utilize that time to learn everything there is
to know about a special person in their lives.
If they make time in their schedules to hang out with you, it's possible they like you .
They respond to your text/calls promptly
When an INFJ likes you, they will respond to your Messages or calls considerably more
quickly than most other people. Although some INFJs enjoy conversing online,
many of them want space and quiet from technology; being always ready to answer
calls and texts can be too weary for them and decrease their alone time.
If you receive a prompt and substantive response to your messages or have your
phone calls returned, it's likely that the INFJ who you're looking out for
really likes you. They wouldn't want the person they care about to think they were ignoring
or dismissing their message in any manner. They'll have a lot more to say than usual,
and they'll probably be aware of the significance of their lengthy texts.
If they initiate the communication;
messaging you and even calling you then you can be quite sure that this INFJ is intrigued.
They share their inner world
If an INFJ has feelings for someone, they will find ways to share bits of their soul with them.
They'll play you a song that speaks to something deep within them. They'll take you to a place that
has a significant meaning to them. You'll acquire exclusive access to a private world inside them
that only they and a few trusted others are aware of. They'll be sharing their artwork,
music, and heartfelt writings. If you want an INFJ to like you in the future,
don't reject these small gestures. This is frequently their approach of ensuring
that it is safe to share the most sensitive information with you.
This includes sharing thoughts and talking more about personal matters;
discussing dreams, worries, desires, secrets, or hurts can indicate that an INFJ has a high
level of confidence in you. They may also inquire about your personal life,
and engaging in more in-depth talk can be interpreted as a show of interest.
They’re very protective
We must remember that INFJs despise drama, therefore going out of their way to protect
someone can be an indication that they genuinely care about them. It could be in a social
environment when they defend your reputation or stand up for you when someone is disrespectful
or rude. Another example: a judgment you made may have been put into question. An INFJ will always
protect you and stand up for you, no matter what others think. They won't show any hesitation or
apprehension. It could also be more physical. If there is a visible threat, they may stand in
front of you. They may walk between you and other individuals at night to act as a line of defense.
It's not that they believe you need them to stay safe. However, while they're around, they feel the
need to defend you in whatever manner they can. It's a way of saying they're safeguarding you.
INFJs will defend someone they care about at the first sign of trouble.
In the name of justice, they will fight for them or seek justice on their behalf.
They'd also text you to check in on a frequent basis. They'll want to make sure you're fine and
don't require any assistance or support. If they're generally protective of you,
they'll probably check in with you after occasions where you might have been under a lot of stress,
such as a job presentation or a disagreement with someone.
They will act nervous around you
INFJs have a hard time verbally expressing themselves. So don't be surprised if you
notice them acting nervously around you. For nervous INFJs, bending their head,
scratching their arms, and avoiding eye contact are just a few of the things
on the menu. They might feel at ease with people who are also calm so they should be
fine if you're equally at ease right? Not quite. If their interest in you is genuine,
all sorts of thoughts will be racing through their heads. How are they going to get along
with you who has a different personality type? What's going on in your personal life? Or do you
prefer to spend your time with friends partying, reading, exploring, or simply hanging out?
All of these thoughts may make it difficult for them to maintain
the flow of your discussion going. So, if they seem shy or do anything embarrassing,
it could be a hint that you make them nervous, because they actually like you.
They analyze you
People, according to INFJs, have many layers. They want to peel back all the layers and
personas that get in the way of actual, meaningful understanding when they like someone. This can be
a little frightening at times. They might offer you entertaining questions, just to surprise
you with a random, "So, what's the significance of your life?" or "What makes you cry?". When they're
with you, their ability to socialize will improve. They'll want to chat about anything from favorite
ice cream flavors to childhood fears to their greatest aspirations and dreams for hours on end
just getting to know you in a raw, intimate way. These in-depth interactions allow
them to connect the dots and gain a deeper understanding of who you are on a soul level.
INFJs are excellent listeners and observers in general.
This is attributed to the reason that they spend less time talking
and more time thinking and watching things. When they like someone,
they spend the majority of their time observing and recalling important details about that person.
They want to know more
Another distinguishing quality of an INFJ
is their keen sense of curiosity. It's important to remember that introverts,
particularly INFJs, don't only want to be in a give-and-take relationship. Rather, they are
on the lookout for something more meaningful. This simply implies that if an INFJ likes you,
they will want to learn more about your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. They will be intrigued by
learning about your hobbies, interests, likes, and pet peeves. They might even go so far as to tell
you everything about their lives. This is highly sensitive information that they do not disclose
with just anyone. To acquire access to it, you must be incredibly exceptional.
As a result, if your INFJ starts asking you questions that they wouldn't ask
or care to ask other people, it's a good sign that they like you.
Making the first move is difficult for anyone, and this is especially true for INFJs.
They do not have the same ease with which they can communicate their emotions as the rest of us.
So you have to be considerate if it is taking them a long time to tell you what they feel.
To prepare their speech and to coordinate their strategies in this regard, it takes
a significant amount of time. In contrast, if an INFJ has a really strong liking for someone,
they will almost always find the guts to approach them and ask them out on a date.