- I'd right swipe on all of you.
That's like- - Oh, wow.
- [Nick] That's just a base, like, you're a beautiful man.
- Really? Thank you.
(all laughing)
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- I'm the shortest, so.
- Well. (all laughing)
- [George] Are we really gonna base on height?
You have to call yourself out like that.
- If we go based on height,
we're gonna look like the AT&T bars.
Like we're just gonna go-
- Honestly, I was gonna rank you higher up,
'cause I like the tattoos,
and I think that counts as your body.
- That's what I was gonna say.
I think the tattoos, like, deserve a higher spot.
- I'm looking at chest.
You have the biggest chest as well.
- Oh, thank you.
- Yes. - Wow.
- I feel like you two would like go like one or two further.
- Definitely like one and two. - Yeah, exactly.
- And my leg does play a huge role
in my confidence in myself,
and that's a big reason why I'm so heavily tattooed
is to draw more attention away from my leg.
- You are going over there.
- I know where I want to go.
- You too, definitely go over there
- Okay, so, what side do you want me on?
- You are way bigger.
You got the arms, basically Chris Hemsworth.
(all laughing)
I say Vashon.
- Okay.
- For those calves. - I think yeah.
- I feel like Tony might be number two.
Just 'cause I feel like if you lost the weight Nick,
you'd be more defined just 'cause you go to the gym.
I could tell you have muscle,
but I think you have just more like average body, I'd say.
- Yeah, I'll take it.
- [Michael] Does everyone else agree?
- I would put you number two in terms of body.
- I feel like I do look like the most average
out of everybody here, so I'm okay with that.
- Average isn't a bad thing.
- I go to the gym because I no longer drink alcohol.
That was like a very bad vice.
I just got four years sober,
so the gym is like my stress reliever.
- Three times a week.
I'm trying to get at least three in
and then, like, an activity of some sort,
whether that be, like, basketball
or just something along those lines.
- Based on that, I feel like you should...
- Because we can see it, we can see that you work out.
- [Interviewer] How did being up there
in your underwear feel?
- Not great. (laughing)
Didn't love it.
I don't inherently love being shirtless.
I try to stay away from it as much as possible.
- Yeah?
- I'm good with it, yeah. - Absolutely.
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- No.
- I am very plain.
I don't think I have a style.
This is just gym shorts and a t-shirt.
- You should be number one.
- Okay, I'll take that.
- Definitely the most flashy.
- I know a pose.
- I think it works.
- [Interviewer] Where does your style come from, George?
- At some point, I got really tired of, like,
trying to force myself to be accepted by other guys,
is just such a frustrating dilemma to, like,
force myself into that I just, like,
started just choosing what I thought was cool.
Men in skirts like Prince and Kid Cudi.
Queer men, trans men, women, a lot of women inspire me.
Like, I feel like, you are inspired by lesbian women.
(record scratch)
- I'm inspired by my girlfriend.
That's who I'm inspired by.
- I would switch you two
because you both have acceptable like guy, like,
he looks good fashion, but I like the color.
- Yeah, he definitely put more-
- The earth tone tones.
- Yeah, I was gonna say though, it's very put together.
- Okay. - Let's do it.
- I would put you number two and you number three.
Just because of the colors.
I like the rhine, not rhinestoning, the sparkling.
- Oh, thank you.
- And you guys put effort into like jewelry accessories.
- I'm like, so where am I? - Where am I?
- What's going on? - You're three.
- Well that's up, do you all feel okay about that?
Are you cool with number three?
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- I'm so happy that the body type round was done first.
It allowed me to feel a little uncomfortable at first,
and then it made me realize once I did put the clothes on,
how much clothing makes me feel more beautiful
and attractive.
- I think definitely for me,
more basic stuff is what I like to see
and I think that kinda,
makes a person more attractive for me.
Like, I'm not really into flashy stuff.
I'm sure it's different for you guys,
you guys probably like to stand out.
- Well you guys have the confidence
to rock the stuff that I don't.
The judgment always weighs on me
when I go out in public like that.
- When I was in fourth grade,
I bought a beret at Macy's that I thought looked so cool.
I wore it to school and I got made fun of the whole day.
- Hopefully, like, you can find style
and engage with style that you like
and be confident with that.
- I met a friend in high school,
and so he always dressed comfortably
in case he ever had to defend himself,
and I liked that idea, and I was like,
because we kinda grew up in the same neighborhood,
it made sense.
So I've always liked shorts,
and I always liked a comfortable t-shirt,
in case I had to run away or something.
- I'd love to see you in a long skirt though.
Like a flowy one too that you can run in.
- I'll give it a shot.
- [George] Go for it.
- You can pick out my next outfit.
- Yeah, we're all going thrifting after this.
- I wanna change myself to switching with Nick,
just because, like, based off of style as well
like, I know you're shocked right now, but like-
- You think? - The thing is that, like,
you can see this is as style, but I see you as style.
I saw it, so that's why.
- He really did, wow okay.
- He volunteers as tribute, I like it.
- I'll take it, I appreciate it.
- We are not our clothes like...
- I do like that, just wear what you want, you know?
- It's an attitude.
- If you thought like, this is a very masculine person,
who's like your prime example of?
- The first person that comes to mind is my stepdad.
He really stepped up and took my mom in when she was sick,
and took in two stepsons, my brother and myself.
He has cried in front of me,
he has cried in front of my mom.
I know we separate femininity and masculinity,
but, like, I think if you're peak femininity
or peak masculinity,
you're in tune with both sides of your emotions.
- Honestly, growing up,
masculinity was taught to me as
pretty much just an absence of emotion.
I knew that that was wrong,
so I've just been like masculinity, femininity,
it's not even real,
we're just taking all traits that humans can have
and applying a word to it.
So I don't know where I stand.
I'd like to just throw myself at the end.
- I'll go with you
'cause I don't like the modern version of masculinity,
so I wouldn't associate myself with it.
- Obviously you are very influenced by your stepdad.
- For sure.
- And if that is your definition of masculinity
and that's the healthiest definition I've ever heard,
you deserve to be here.
- I'm on my own journey,
and, like, I still gotta get my anger under control too.
- Oh I understand,
but you had an opportunity to look at someone who,
maybe not mastered it,
but understood both sides of the spectrum.
Therefore, I think your upbringing
and your way of seeing things makes you deserve this spot.
- I like that you said too, you were like,
"I'm still working on it."
If you had told us that,
like, no you're the perfect one already,
you chewed masculinity,
then you wouldn't deserve the top spot.
No one will ever be, like, a perfect man,
but that mindset will make you a perfect man.
- That means a lot.
That's pretty cool.
- You give dad energy.
(all laughing)
- I am a dad, so I'm trying.
Trying to be better for my daughter, you know.
So I appreciate, that means a lot.
- Well then get up here, go on.
- I think you deserve that one.
- If I had to make a switch,
I'd switch you and you.
Just vibe honestly. - I already moved.
- But where do you feel like you belong,
'cause you don't have to switch if you don't want to.
- I don't know.
I actually don't know.
I think masculinity, like we've said,
is one of these topics
where it is changing every single day.
Like, something new comes out and then it's like,
oh well it's masculine to do this.
It's not masculine to do this.
And it's like, you know,
it really depends on where we've been throughout our lives,
what we've experienced and what we've gone through.
But I think this is a question that transcends,
you know, six spots.
I think this is something that
we're gonna deal with for generations still.
- Based on that answer,
and you're admitting
that you are working through your motions,
I don't feel like I'm at that level yet,
so I would put you here based on that one.
- I'd say it all kind of boils down to, like, hormones,
if that makes sense?
And like testosterone versus estrogen.
- Naturally, our testosterone levels are going to drop
as we get older.
Does that make us less of a man in your eyes then?
Because like-
- I don't think less of a man.
I don't think less masculine either.
- Okay, so then should that be a valid argument
in terms of masculinity?
- I guess when I see a man,
like I was able to see like kind of straightaway,
like where you guys stood, if that make sense?
Like I saw you guys as more feminine.
I think a man,
it's more about like dominance, if that makes sense.
- Do you think I'm less dominant than you?
- It's like facial wise, I don't know, I can't explain it.
- Facially I'm less dominant than you.
- I guess my definition of masculinity
is more traditional in a sense.
I feel like everyone was maybe like a more newish, like,
you know, not that there's anything wrong with that.
And I don't think that's necessarily real,
if that makes sense.
Like realistic, I think it's, like, ingrained in us.
Like I can't describe it even.
Like when I see someone you could kind of tell,
if that makes sense.
- Okay, so yeah, you base it on more physical
and that's totally fine, yeah, that's totally fine.
- Growing up it was always, like,
either black or white, you know?
Where my parents are like,
"You're masculine, you're super tough, you're super strong,
and you're there at the head of the household,
you're always that or you're like feminine."
So, that's something that I've always like kind of seen.
That's why I was able to see both sides of, like,
where Michael was coming from.
- I don't think I deserve the top spot
I really do, like, after hearing your story
because I obviously I didn't have that growing up.
I didn't have someone who stepped into my life
and really like changed my worldview,
and changed my perspective on things.
So that's why I think you deserve this spot more than I do.
And if you- - You sure?
- Yes, I'm a 100% sure.
- All right, thank you.
- I think I'm kind of pretty.
(all laughing)
- You have a very nice smile,
that's what I noticed. - [George] Thank you.
- You have a very, very nice smile.
- I have a lot of moles
and I don't have a lot of moles on the rest of my body,
it's just all, I just look like a chocolate chip cookie
and then I got-
- Chocolate chip cookies are hot.
- And then I got my scar
from when I busted my lip playing tag on crutches,
like, a couple of months after my amputation.
I think I'm lower on the end for sure.
- [Michael] If I had to say-
- Nah, scars are hot.
- [George] Stay there for a second.
- Stay there. - Stay there.
- Hold up, hold up, hold up.
- You have not been officially switched.
- Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
- So I wouldn't view your face scar as a bad thing.
- I try to hide mine, but yeah.
- I put you ahead of him.
I put you three, you two, you one for now.
- Okay. - Sounds good, yeah.
- [Interviewer] Why's that?
- I just think they're more attractive, to be honest.
- You're into us? (laughing)
- I don't know, like, you guys both have very nice skin
and so that's why I think you guys are above-
- I think you do too.
- Well thank you, but...
(George laughs)
- You seem so uncomfortable
with the idea of being judged attractive.
- I'm actually okay with this spot just because, like,
I have, like, anxiety ticks, so I tend to pick at my face,
so that's why I have a lot of acne scars.
- I think you have a very symmetrical face though,
and you have a very bright smile,
so I think you could also be further up.
- I would say that also too.
- I would put you- - Nice eyes.
- I would put you here, if anything.
How do you guys feel?
Where do you think you belong?
- I think I'm higher. - [George] Okay.
- I don't wanna be narcissistic.
- If there's ever a time to be narcissistic, it's now.
- I can look at you
and I could see myself getting lost in your eyes.
You have very pretty eyes.
- There you go.
- You have, you don't have to do too much,
like you're just attractive,
so I would like to place you here to my right.
- Sounds good.
- Happy not to be number one.
- You also don't, but there's like,
there's something like-
- Off.
- No, no, no, no, no.
Like, there's something-
- No, like, I say that
because I've had an underbite my entire life
and I got made fun of a lot in middle school
and in high school,
and even now, like, on the internet, that people think
I have features of someone who has down syndrome,
because of the almond shaped eyes, the underbite,
kind of just like, this weird looking,
so I'm completely fine staying where I am.
Totally fine with that.
I'm just saying, I get what you mean.
There's just something off.
- Wait, let's talk about these almond shaped eyes,
because that's always been a beauty symbol for me.
- Yeah, that's what I keep hearing in the beauty community.
- Where are you from?
Who's doing this?
Who did this?
- We'll beat them up.
- Give me their names.
- And also just to call out,
even if you had down syndrome,
I don't think that would eliminate you
from being the most attractive spot at all.
- I agree.
- I think it definitely helps to know that, like,
other people are not seeing me the way that I see myself
or I look in the mirror,
and I see everyone who made those comments.
Whereas, they look at me for the first time today
and they're like, "You look fine."
- Where would you put yourself here?
And be honest, it's okay.
- I think second to first.
- Second to first.
I think I'd put you third,
because I think your jaw line's way stronger than mine.
I'd put you right here, personally.
- Any objections?
- No objections.
I think you have really nice facial features so.
- Appreciate it.
- You're almost like one of those elves
in like "Lord of the Rings" or something like that.
- [Tony] Oh please.
- [George] Very sharp nose as well.
- We're not getting nerdy here.
- Also, I like your confidence,
like, you have this cool confidence,
and I think that's part of attractiveness too.
- Yeah, absolutely.
- So I would personally place you higher up.
I don't know where.
- You're number one, dude.
- Do you wanna be higher?
- Yeah, I feel like, especially, like,
keeping you up in number one, it's kind of like,
you have the humbleness to yourself.
- That really like resonates well with me,
because, like I said, I don't like attention,
and it's because I had attention
ever since I had one leg,
when it was amputated at like five years old, you know?
And that's why I've never really craved it.
It's just I had unwanted attention
and so just to hear, like that means a lot.
Like it really does.
You guys are awesome.
I thought I was definitely gonna rank lower,
but I don't feel like they ranked me out of my disability,
or out of pity today so, that's why it feels pretty good.
- I would put you up second,
because we got to hear your story too.
- Yeah, you have a cool story.
- Oh, thanks.
- [Nicholas] I agree.
- There was beauty being shown all throughout.
- Thanks, thanks, I don't think I deserve two.
You two, not only do you know how to dress,
you guys are both bubbly personalities, you know.
You've got just this glow about both you
that are very warm, inviting presences-
- It's sweat.
- [Nick] It's sweat. (laughing)
- So where would you place yourself?
Like where would you feel like-
- Honestly, five or six.
Like, I'm just a basic white guy.
- I definitely agree you should be higher.
- Just from other like, you know, people's perspectives,
you really have, like, this good energy
that I feel, like, is really uplifting.
- I appreciate that.
- Let's put you at a three, how about that?
Not too high, but you know, not too low.
- If I were to place myself,
I would feel like I would be right next to Vashon,
on the right.
- You guys have more, I feel like extroverted personalities.
- So you're more introverted.
- Yeah, I'd say.
- [Nicholas] Keep to yourself kind of dude.
- I'd say Nick should be higher, personally.
- I disagree.
I think you're a beautiful man.
- This is so hilarious.
- Okay, if we're, if we're basing it on like-
- Personality and looks yeah.
- If I looked at personality and looks,
and even if I wanted to boil it down to like,
right swiping or left swiping,
I'd right swipe on all of you.
That's like, that's just a base.
- Oh wow, thank you.
- You're a beautiful man.
- Really? - I do.
- I wanna see you here.
Really?
- [Nicholas] Rock, paper, scissors.
- Rock, paper scissors, shoot.
Rock, paper scissors, shoot.
That's you.
- No, I won.
I get to stay here.
- What?
- I won, my choice.
- I don't get it.
- Yeah, I feel comfortable.
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- It says a lot that this type of situation
can bring six people of different backgrounds,
different styles, different looks,
and we kind of all worked our way from,
cool, we have basically seen each other naked to,
I really love your story,
you're so masculine for like dealing with your trauma
and I just find it very,
therapeutic is the way I would put it.
- I would've never met people like you, I guess, in my life.
It's definitely a unique experience
to talk with some of you guys and your personalities.
See what you guys all feel.
- Yeah, I'm glad we got to talk to you.
I'm happy you're here too.
- Likewise.
- It was cool that something so divisive,
like ranking each other
or having to put someone front, back, last,
just like brought us together somehow,
which doesn't feel like it would,
but I'm happy that I did this with you guys.
- Hey yes, thank you.
- Alright, give me a hug, give me a hug.
- Male to male validation is really, really rare.
So, it's honestly kind of affirming sometimes
when you get validation from other men,
because we so, like, desperately kind of deprive ourselves
and each other from it.
- Surround yourself with people
who are not only gonna inspire you to be better,
but people who accept you as you are,
and the people who find you attractive
are the people who see past the very, you know, first glance
and they look at who you are.