- The key to you creating your dream life,
is not necessarily wiring in.
It's not taking some type of affirmation
and adding to it and adding to it.
It's actually more something completely different.
This is the switch for me that changed everything.
Until to 2017, I was working a nine
to five job I hated.
I was doing affirmations.
I was sitting on the couch thinking about what I wanted
but I couldn't figure it out.
Now that's because the key for this,
is this analogy right here.
Imagine that this represents your old life.
This represents your past.
This represents the beliefs,
you tell yourself about who you are.
The stories you have about the way reality works.
Now, what a lot of times we're doing
is to create our dream life.
What we are doing is we're taking,
this representing our dream life.
And we are starting to fill up this other cup.
The thing is, is we can only fill it up so much,
because it's already full
of the stories we've been telling ourselves.
It's already full of the negative emotion,
maybe we've been through.
And the challenge is there's no room
to really put the vibe of our dream life.
Now that's why the key
to you creating your dream life,
is actually letting go of the old.
And then as you empty yourself out
What you do, is you then allow more space,
so that you can fill up your cup
of the vibration that you really prefer.
This is the biggest key it's letting go.
When you let go of attachment,
you then energetically free yourself of the past.
And from that point, you then begin
to wire in a new reality.
Welcome back to the video.
My name is Aaron
and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now, in this video, we are gonna be looking at
the key to creating your dream life.
And how to really exponentializes
the process so it happens quicker than ever.
Now, a lot of this has to do with first off the first step.
The first step is you must become aware
of what was in your cup.
So for me, back in 2017,
I was working in that job,
at Barneys New York, selling woman's shoes.
I'd wear a suit everyday to work.
I wasn't passionate about it.
But I thought that that's how reality,
had to be at the basis.
You know, think about it.
A lot of people go to jobs they hate,
not realizing that they are choosing to go to the job
that they have a choice.
They could choose not to go in the next day.
And then normally they'd say, well
if I choose not to go when the next day
then I'm not gonna have paycheck or money coming in.
But the challenge is, that's what keeps us trapped.
We believe leave that reality is fixed.
We believe that we have to do that, which we've been doing.
So for years I sold women's shoes.
I worked at Barney's in New York for five years.
And then I worked for three to five years at,
no I worked for four years at Barneys New York.
And I worked for five years at Nordstrom's
before that in a woman's shoes.
And I remember just feeling stuck.
I didn't know what to do.
And one of the biggest changes me,
is I had to look at my life
and I had to take ownership
and become aware of where I currently was.
I had to become aware of the stories I had about who I am.
I had to become aware of the self-image that I have.
I realized that I saw myself as a nine to five job goer.
And I realized that a lot of that was justified, you know.
Also it wasn't bad money.
I just wasn't passionate about it.
It's probably making 50, 60K a year.
And that wasn't that bad, especially for that, you know,
like age of my life.
And I realized that a lot of that key was I had to let go
of viewing myself as a nine to five job goer.
My reality was a direct reflection,
of the way I saw myself.
I saw myself as a nine to five job goer.
I'd go into work every day.
I would complain to my coworkers about how slow it was.
And that was my reality.
And my thoughts my actions and my feelings,
were equal to that reality.
So the first thing I had to do is I had
to become aware of that.
So right now, what are you experiencing in your life?
Become aware that your story about who you are
and the thoughts, the feelings and the actions are equal
to the reality you're in.
And the best way, if you don't know what that is,
is just to look around. When you look around in your life
and what you are experiencing.
If you are in a relationship that's unfulfilling.
Or you are single, or you are experiencing, you know,
you are at a job you hate.
It's because you've allowed it to be there.
And the first step is taking ownership of that
and letting go of the story.
Believing that you are trapped.
I used to think I was trapped in that nine to five job.
Until I saw myself as choosing it.
What happened is that was on autopilot.
So the first thing is to become aware of the thoughts
the self image.
And the stories you have,
about where you are in life.
That's the first step to this process.
And it is extraordinarily important to become aware of it.
Now, once you become aware of the story,
you can then become aware
that then you can begin to question that story.
See that it's just been on autopilot.
Then what you can do is you can wake up.
And when you wake up,
then what you can do is,
you could focus on being aware of it.
And then why you bring in something new.
But you have to let go first off of the, where you were.
I realized that nine to five job I had, it felt safe to me.
I got a certain paycheck.
If I was to go, full-time doing what I love.
I would, you know, a lot would change in my life.
I didn't, maybe people would judge me.
I would, I cared a lot about what people thought,
especially back in the day.
So there's these things called payoffs.
So payoffs right here.
Payoffs, payoffs are the things that keep us tied
and attached to the old.
The payoffs could be that it justifies where you are.
Some of the reasons it's so hard to let go of a painful
for past, is because if we are afraid.
If we let go of the painful past, then what'll happen.
Is it will.
It kind of invalidates our life in a way.
We also really want to be right.
It's one of the dirtiest highs we get is when we're right.
So it invalidates what we experienced in our past.
So the key is becoming aware of what these payoffs are.
And my payoff of working
that nine to five job by the way,
was that I felt safe.
I didn't have to step into the unknown.
People were questioning me.
But what I eventually had to do,
is become aware of that payoff
and realize that it's not serving me anymore.
So look at the payoffs in your life.
If you are in a relationship that is abusive,
the payoff you might be getting,
is it's a relationship nonetheless.
It may be reflecting back to you,
that you don't feel worthy
and that maybe that's a feeling that you had in childhood.
And that feels comfortable.
Comfort is a payoff that will rob us,
of really going forward, what we will want.
So a big part of creating your dream life,
is letting go of the stories, letting go of the beliefs
letting go of the attachments you have.
And then making the choice to step into the new.
To step into the new.
So it's letting go and wiring in.
And for me, I let go of the nine to five job that I had.
I didn't quit right away.
What I did is I let go
of viewing myself that way.
I let go of the story.
And then what I did is I simply started to wire in
and be, this is the most important thing.
I started to be a full-time YouTuber,
even though my reality, wasn't reflecting that yet.
So what you do,
is you focus on the thoughts, the feelings
and the emotions of the version of you,
that's doing what you love.
That's living in your dream life.
And you simply decide that that's who you are now.
You take on the identity itself.
And as you are being that.
And because you've already become aware
of your old story, you begin to let it go.
As you are being that,
because it's who you choose to be.
That's when your reality will begin
to change on the outside.
The way reality works is be, do, have.
You must first be it.
Then you can naturally do it
because that'll feel natural and easy.
You won't put things on a pedestal
and then you will have that which that version of you has.
So be it.
Take on the identity.
Do it for an end of itself.
When people get on YouTube, by the way.
And their intention is to gain a lot of followers.
And they become like, well-known.
It normally doesn't do well
because they are not doing it from their passion.
It's not as authentic.
And people can feel that people can feel authenticity.
So when I first was visualizing back in the day
and it was probably somewhat significance driven for sure.
But back in the day, when it creating my dream life.
I used to think about this 1 million subscriber plaque.
I used to think about
the a hundred thousand subscriber plaque.
And I would imagine it.
And the thing that I realized is.
Is I had to start seeing it as natural
because I was putting things on a pedestal.
And what I did is I ended up just completely being
it was an end of itself.
What I was passionate about was making videos.
The funny thing is the more I let go
of needing those on my wall,
the more they would come.
There was like a direct, it was the funniest thing.
The more to the videos I was, the less good they would do.
But the more I would just kind of let go
and trust that the information would flow through me,
the better things did.
So anytime I've, here's the funny thing, anytime I've let go
of a relationship that I was being attached to.
Anytime, I've let go of outcome
from how well a video does.
Anytime I've surrendered to these things.
I'm not kidding you so much more comes in.
Because we are emptying out our cup.
And as we empty out the old,
it's like the universe naturally wants to fill the space.
And then also, what does that say when you let go?
It's saying I'm trusting something new.
So make the choice to step into the new.
It's going to feel scary.
You are gonna have things come up.
I was really, you know,
when the first YouTube video I ever put out on YouTube,
I called my mom to like the post on Facebook.
Cause I was worried, no one is going to like it.
I was really cared.
I really cared about what people thought.
I was a,
I had friends and family always asking me what I was up to.
And some of them I could just tell were like,
Oh you're still doing that hobby.
You know, I had to really have the vision
and commit to the vision.
And trust it and do it because I enjoy doing it.
Not because of the results it would get me.
And then when you are in that frequency.
When you are in that energy,
your outer reality begins to change.
But the keys and the steps of this process is very simple.
One become aware of your current story,
the current beliefs you have.
The current attachments you have.
Two, identify the payoffs.
What are the payoffs that's getting you?
It is serving you.
It's just probably negative serving you.
It's keeping you safe.
It's keeping you comfortable.
Then start to look at the opposite payoffs.
Start to see how it's not serving you anymore.
And then three,
make the choice to be the identity you prefer to be.
Knowing It's who you really are.
It's who you prefer to be trusting,
that when you step into the unknown,
that's where magic happens.
When you're doing the known,
you are only going to get more of the known.
You are only going to get what's equal
to those thoughts, feelings, and emotions and actions.
And another important thing I wanna say
with creating your dream life, it is letting go.
But I do recommend taking action.
I took massive action.
When you are taking action
in your being the identity you want,
it feels natural.
But I was for a long time trying to manifest
by sitting on the couch.
And it was like, just thinking about it, thinking about it
thinking about it.
It wasn't until I brought it down into action,
that things really really changed.
So maybe that's something you need to hear right now.
Be it, when you being it, it's just natural.
It's just easy.
It just kind of flows.
So that for me was the key.
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Also there is a meditation
for why you are in the new self image
and letting go of the old one.
It'll be in this top of description box below.
It's a very powerful meditation.
And when you do that for 21 days,
I think it will absolutely transform your life.
So commit to it.
Let's all commit to it together.
And as we do it,
we are also gonna be amplifying that energy too.
So anyways, I hope you guys enjoyed this video.
And as always, I'll see you in the next one.
Peace much love,
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