Chasing implies that the other person is running. I imagine it like if there was a dog there
and I was like, I'm going to get ya, I'm gonna go get ya. And I was running out after that
night cause I'm going to get ya. That dog would then change. It'd be like running or
run away or like, Nope. It's time to play. And in a way, what happens when we are energetically
chasing someone else, they energetically Oh are like, Oh look, it's time to play. And
they continue to run because they're just playing all that energy dynamic. So in this
video I'm going to show you exactly how to have them chase you to switch that energy
dynamic around so that you don't feel like you have to need it or play that game altogether.
Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to be showing you how to Twitch around the energy dynamic
so that it's not so much like you're chasing someone else. Because remember the chase implies
that someone else is running away. And the key to this is understanding the frame of
going into the process altogether. If we're under the frame that we want to be in someone
else's movie, we want to be the cameo in their movie, then they're going to treat us as such.
And if we are chasing them, think about that as well. Anytime we chase someone else, energetically
we're seeing that person is not in my life and we are feeling a lack. And when we're
feeling a lack, we're going to create more lack in our life. Think about it like this
too.
Gratitude unifies us with the results and the experiences that we want. And when you're
chasing someone else, you're not feeling gratitude in the present moment. You're not feeling
gratitude for what you have. You're feeling the lack because you don't have that which
you want. Now in my own life, this is something that I've experienced especially years ago
when, uh, even you know, I was, I started dating later than a lot of people just because
I had a certain level of control in my life until I was 15 years old. After that I was
like probably 16 or 17 when I had my first girlfriend. And I remember getting into it,
it was like a whole new world because I went from somebody that was a having no, you know,
no freedom at all to all of a sudden being able to have friends and then also be in a
relationship.
So I was kind of new to the game and I remember like talking to someone, uh, one of the first
girlfriends that I had, I was very much focused on getting validation from her. And I was
in a way as well, like I would spend a lot of time or lighting. Yes, I would spend a
lot of time thinking about her and wanting things to go a certain way. And I found that
the more I did that, the more I was thinking about her in that way, the more I was wanting
it to go a certain way in a way, control it, the more resistance I would create. And in
a way, I can see now that anytime I've played that pattern in the past, the other person
was just playing off the energy I was projecting. And if I was always being needy, that would
resist.
They would push me away. But if I was in a way, seeing it as natural, and that's really
the key to this whole process is seeing it as natural for your self image to have love
in your life and to have a magnetic personality. And when you have that, that's when things
change. Also understanding that you can be in abundance. So when you're in abundance,
you realize that you have other options. A lot of times when people chase love or chase
someone specific, especially what they do is they're looking at one person. There's,
they're chasing one person and they're hoping it goes very well. And if it doesn't go well,
then they end up feeling resistance. So it's an awake, it's put on a pedestal. And anytime
I've been in that position, I'll tell you, it normally just doesn't turn out well. What
I have to do is I have to decrease the level of importance.
I have to uh, decrease and know that I'm good either way. And that happened, I shared this
story once before, but it's a good analogy of how the energy dynamic changes, and you've
probably seen this as well. Have you ever seen it to where there's a girlfriend or boyfriend
or somebody breaks up with their significant other or the person they're in a relationship
with? One person is very distraught about the whole situation. The other one maybe is
a little bit less attached. Then what happens is it's like that other person, it's like
there's a period of time when it's like maybe a couple months or maybe a couple of weeks
where that one person's really in their head about it. They really want to get back together
with this person, but the other person is just kind of doing their thing. And then what
happens is that person that's all distraught about it might go out with their friends.
They might go and, uh, and do something that takes their mind off that other person. And
then they may even have fun and then all of a sudden the energy dynamic begins to change
and when that energy dynamic begins to change, what happens is many times that person, the
other person that really didn't care, they can feel that shift and then sometimes they'll
reach out. It's a very interesting thing, but the more unattached you become, the more
detached you become on outcome, the more attractive you are, the more attractive you are because
the more that signals that you have in art and abundance that you weren't dependent on
the outcome. So let me show this a little bit on this chart right over here and I'll
explain a little bit more. Now, when it comes to attachment, did you give it like this?
When we're chasing love, what we're doing is we have this stick and this stick at the
end of this stick is the people that we are chasing, the love we are chasing.
Now what happens is no matter how far we go, if the energy dynamic here is chasing, then
that means that it's always a little bit further out of reach. It's almost like if you've ever
seen those things where they, they'll have a like a horse and I'll have like a stick
with a carrot on it and they'll make the horse run. I noticed that it was like cartoons or
something like that, but if you ever remember that it's, it's, it's like then it's like
on a little treadmill. Have you ever seen those funny videos where like someone's running
on
a treadmill in the gym and they have it like a, uh, a muffin on a, on a stick that's like
a head and they're like running for it. It's that idea that's chasing love. It's this,
we're just vibrationally telling ourselves a story that we don't have love already, that
we should have love and then therefore we energetically separate ourselves from it.
That attachment is, this right here is that stick. So the key is learning to be detached
from outcome, to be tached knowing that you're already love you within your own energetic
field. You can feel love right now and think of it like this anyways, even if we were chasing
love and we finally got it, what would then happen is there's a rule in the mind that
says, once I finally achieve love and to have someone else in my life, then I give my true
self permission to feel more love.
But that love was always within your field. That's the funny thing. It's always been within
your field. It's just, there's a rule, there's a story in our mind that once someone's in
my life, then I can actually feel it. You know, I have a buddy the other day I was talking
to, I went to is that there's this Conor McGregor fight and I went to the, uh, one of my friend's
house and I was with a whole bunch of buddies that I've been friends with for a long time.
And I was talking to one of my friends who just recently, uh, is starting to get into
a new type of relationship. But he was talking about how much he was a, he really likes this
girl. It's like a girl. He kind of indirectly works with and he's really attracted to her
and he really likes her and some of his friends said, Oh this girl's out of your league.
Even though my uh, my buddy is like a stud guy, you don't know why they would say that
to him but, and he's a real cool guy, real cool personality. But there's like Oh this.
And he was like, no, I need to just, you know, going on dates with this girl and he really
likes her. But what I could tell is what I was communicating with him is in this dynamic
she can feel, because she's mentioned it before, that he may want a relationship and she is
more so right now like I just kind of want to date, I don't want the attachment right
now. And, and I could see that if he were to push that it would push her away. If you
were to push for the relationship, even though they have this connection and the thing that
I was expressing to him is make sure that the energy dynamic is you are giving that
freedom.
You are still giving that freedom. Because she may not be 100% um, gung ho that I want
a relationship right now. And if you push that energy, then she's going to, she's, it's
going to repel her. But if you give her complete freedom and you're like, yeah, it's good either
way, whether we're in a relationship or not, then she'll feel that freedom. That also is
a signal of abundance. It's a signal that you are being yourself and that you have other
options. And that's a different energy dynamic. That's a different energy exchange. So the
key to this is understanding that the way we go about this is we must first off become
aware of how happy are we with being ourselves, with being by ourselves, even if we're not
in a loving relationship right now, the first to do is to develop a loving relationship
with yourself.
And when you develop a loving relationship with yourself, you then feel more love within
your field. And then guess what? You then are more likely to perceive of someone that
can also perceive of that love within you. And think about this just in the form of energy
dynamic. Are you doing what you love for a living? I'll tell you right now that once
I started doing what I love for living, I bring through a different energy and my reality
now, and it attracts different types. It attracts people that are more in alignment with me.
And then I feel like I don't have to chase, but I'll tell you, even in the last relationship
I was in, in the beginning of our relationship and you know, that was a relationship with
Leo [inaudible] who's still like my best friend, even though we're not in a relationship anymore
romantically.
It's like I remember in the beginning of that relationship I was so gung ho and like I never
met somebody with such a deep connection that I felt a spiritual connection to as well.
Because normally it was like kind of like love by circumstance. It's like, Oh, we worked
at the same place, you know? And now that I was doing what I love, I met someone else
who was also doing what they love. And it was someone who had a very deep connection
with. And in the beginning I remember just almost like sabotaging my own mind. Like this
needs to go well. I really hope this goes well. And and energetically when you start
talking to someone, communicating with them, you create what is called an energetic cord
with them. And when you think of them, it strengthens that cord or it, it channels energy
back and forth.
That's called an energy cord. And what happened with Lee organized, we started dating and
that energy cord that was connected between us, I then was getting all in my head about
it and like, Oh, I've never had a connection like this before. I really hope it goes well.
And even when Lee, your, I mean Leo is much more grand than this person right here. But
you know what I mean? Even when the your wins, she ended up going with one of her best friends
to Europe and when she went to Europe, I felt this pull of her leaving. And in a way I was
so butchering the vibration, the energy, because I was so needy and so chasing and hoping everything
went well between us, even though we were further away. And she could feel that she
even texted me one day when she was there.
She's like, is everything okay between us? Like, you know, and this is when we just started
dating. And I was like, yeah, I'm sorry. You know, I just, I'm really, uh, like energetically
going through some things. And if you remember back a year ago, I started going through some
things personally, and that was, it was me getting in my own head and me putting like
us on a pedestal. And what eventually happened is I learned how to value and bring this all
more within. And once I brought it more within and it got rid of that energy, that negative
energy dynamic that was in place, that chasing the love, the chasing, the validation, the
wanting things to go a certain way. So from an energetic point of view, the purpose is
understanding being 100% okay with yourself and feeling love and understanding that when
you're being yourself totally.
That's the most attractive thing and when it comes to this process as well, don't chase
love. Understand that you are love, which I know sounds cliche, but any of the flaws
you think you have, feature them what you have for us. Flaws, feature them, own them,
own them. When you own it, it's a different energy and when you own it, people feel what
you feel about yourself. So if you just, if you're like, Oh, I've got this, I've got this
littleF , where does it struggle? I feel like a freckle, like on the one either side. I
can't really see on the camera right now I've got a little freckle. If I was like, Oh my
goodness, I'm so insecure about this little freckle, but will people think of me? I hope
people don't notice my freckle. And then when I'm talking to people, I'm thinking in my
mind, please don't look at my freckle.
Please don't look at my freckle. Please don't look at my freckle, guess what? Eventually
they're probably gonna look at my freckle cause I'm literally projecting that insecurity
out. But what if instead I own that freckle and I'm like, you know, what am I the back
of my mind? I'm not like telling people like, yo my freckle, that freckle right there. Guess
what I own that. That makes me super special. I am special, unique star seed. So the idea
is a freckle. It, it's, you own it, own the freckle and if it's something else and you
know that's just an analogy or just like a kind of a funny little example but own whatever
you think is like, you know, you might like a certain type of food and be afraid or a
certain type of music. When I first got into spirituality, I really liked a n***a mud and
yeah, which is kind of girly music to listen to.
But I remember being in like in the beginning of any relationship at being, I'd be like
afraid to share that cause I go, Oh it's not, it's not like Drake. You know, even though
I, sometimes I would listen to Drake but I wasn't, it's like it's not like Drake or cool
like are these cool artists and stuff, but if you just own it, then they feel, Oh this
person is just really comfortable and really just owns it. I liked that, you know, that's
kind of unique. Maybe that'll show me something different. You see. So the main part of this
video as well that I really wanted to share is understanding the power of gratitude and
how gratitude unifies you with the reality you want. So one of the last things I want
to talk about
is understanding gratitude and feeling grateful for your who you are. And what I mean by who
you are is also the energy character in a way that you're playing. Because in a way,
this reality that we call life, we are all either the star of our own movie or we're
the cameo and other people's movie and anytime we're chasing love, we are putting ourselves
as a cameo in their movie. And then the energy dynamic is off because they know they're the
star. Because the energy that's being projected out is as the cameo as the supporting role
as the can I get you anything or can I help you and support you in this master role of
your life. But remember, if you treat someone like a celebrity, then they will treat you
like a fan. And having that energy dynamic influence, it emphasizes that. So the thing
that I want to share with you today is that what you can begin to do is to take back your
star role and that if you're chasing love, then maybe this is also a reflection that
maybe in life in general, just love, but maybe in money, maybe in career and success and
health, maybe you haven't been showing up as the star in that area of your life.
Maybe you have, but many times areas will leak into different parts of us. So the thing
that I would really encourage you to do is to become aware, to become aware of the energy
that you're putting out and whether you are the star of your own movie. You see this our
whole lives. We believe we were given a script, the script many times we were given as Disney
channel. We get the Disney channel script. The Disney channel script is that you're a
damsel in distress, you're completely incomplete and then one day, maybe one day you'll meet
that Prince charming and when you meet that Prince charming, it'll be amazing and then
eventually you'll live happily ever after. That's the narrative, the script that we're
giving that we then start to think that that's the way our life has to go, but when we change
the script and realize that you write your own script and that you're not a damsel in
distress, you are completely whole.
You're you can. You start to change the frame and you start to become the star of your own
movie. You can decide with your choices which direction you go in and one of the choices
you can do right now is choose that you are worthy. Choose that you don't need outside.
Love to feel the insight of love. Realize that this is about putting out a frequency,
almost like a radio tune, a radio dial. When you tune to the frequency of love, other people
will feel that off of you and you'll have much more attractive energy. But anytime you're
chasing love, that's a different radio frequency. That's the radio frequency that says, I don't
currently have it and I really wish I did and I'm putting my intention and I want it,
but the want implies the not having. So the key to this is tuning your radio dial to the
frequency of love by feeling gratitude within, to remember, gratitude unifies you with whatever
you're thinking of that reality.
And a lot of people, when you know, when you start feeling gratitude for what you have,
you get more of it. When you start to feel gratitude for the love that you are, you'll
get more of a reflection of that in your life. Whatever flog you have or you perceive that
you have own it. And when you own your flaws, when you, the things that you perceive to
be flaws, other people will, will be much more open and comfortable with it. And you'll
realize that the whole time, maybe that whole entire thing was in your head anyways. But
gratitude is the key to this unification process. Feeling the emotion now, giving yourself permission,
and as you do this, you will eventually perceive of that reality. And if you haven't seen it
yet, I have an attract love meditation. That's the most powerful meditation on my channel.
It's got over like 1.5 million views. And I say that because it really does work. If
you go read the comments, you'll see probably hundreds of comments that say, I attracted
love using this meditation. I listen to it for 21 days and this is what happened. Go
read some of those that'll increase the belief that they can work for you. Listen to that
for medic 21 days. It'll be in top of the description box below and watch how love starts
to come into your life because you start feeling it within. So would that be and said, see
you on the next video. Peace. Much love and not mistake.