you're here because you want to reinvent yourself and you want to know the
quickest the most effective way to do so. well in this video I'm going to share
with you six techniques that will set you in your path to success and give you
change you desire to making in yourself but before you start I'd really appreciate
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share some life-changing personal growth tips each week so you might have changed
careers 10 times. Or not even started your career yet
you might be fed up with your lack of a love life desperate for more money in
the bank, yet everything you've tried has not probably worked and it's kind of
left you frustrated and you just want someone to share some logical advice
that you can actually implement well here's the good news
I've had three failed attempts at launching businesses and been broker than broke
living on debt filled spending I mean I was constantly angry and pessimistic and
I blame the world for my failures then it changed or I changed. I turned it
around by reinventing myself I want to share the steps I have taken that I
modeled or countless other successful individuals when it comes to reinventing
yourself. You see you change in two circumstances either when you experience
pain or pleasure pleasure can be that you are more of something in your life
so you work furiously to have more of that pleasure this could be something as
small as saving up to buy a new pair of trainers or it could be painful simply
put you can't stand it anymore like you can't stand the lack of money you have
as it can't do anything you want. You know here we basically come to a
crossroads and the problem with everyone who's tried to change is that life is
just fine you know I don't need to change the hard work is that is the
thought that you know we're not cut out for a different life
and our subconscious comes into play and tells us you know what it's okay
life's not too bad I'm I'm fine where I am but that's not what you want right
now and what you've got is you've got three choices, you can let your current
failures in the pursuit of the life that you want define you, it can destroy you
or it can inspire you and when it inspires you, you can take massive action
to reinvent yourself, first you have to accept full responsibility for your life
today where you are is because of the beliefs you hold and they're shaped from
experiences from the years at school to your parents to friends to even the
media good or bad these past experiences have shaped how you feel and act towards
everyday life simply put the beliefs you have of influenced and ultimately shaped
by you into the actions and these actions have consequences so let's say
in the past your teacher gave you you know constant bad marks in maths and
tells you off each time your parents kindly tell you not to worry stating
you're more creative anyway but ultimately you get bad maths reports time
and time again you then become disillusioned and disengaged from any
maths related tasks and you come to the belief it's not for you. Fast forward
this belief can affect you in the future too something like splitting the bill in a
restaurant due to the mental arithmetic involved in going for a job in finance
but here's the thing you are creative you are resourceful and you have the
capability to change you are not defined by your past so right now you've got to
tell yourself yes I screwed up in the past that doesn't define me if I want to
I can actually change and put the effort into change
this all starts by raising
your self awareness and accepting responsibility
from here you're ready to move from first to second gear
next you want to take stock of your current self you want to heighten your
awareness by asking why you want to change when you list down why you want
to change you will be driven with intensity your wise will be the fuel the more why's
the better so when you ask yourself why do I want to reinvent myself also add
the words so that to the end of the answer for example I want to reinvent
myself to be free of debts so that I can pay for my family so that they don't
ever have to work again so that I can spend more time with them so that and
why a powerful tools so start by answering this question why do I want to
reinvent myself at step 3 many of us feel inspired or motivated for change
but when we get stuck on following through with transformation it comes
down to one word obstacles we create all these obstacles or barriers to why we
can't start this can range from negative beliefs simple excuses to even nightly
fears do you know how many people I've heard say they want to quit their job
give up smoking lose weight before summer but they put up these barriers
and you know they can't quit because they hear it they say lines like I need
the income cigarettes are part of me I'm a smoker I
haven't got time for the gym between work and kids so this is the time when
you have to make sacrifices remove the things that hold you back in life if you
want to lose weight create time wake up earlier exercise at home walk at lunch
just find a way to start and commit my small level ask yourself the following
to raise your awareness further what people habits and beliefs are holding me
back from the change I want what options have I got from letting go
of these things, what is the first place I can start and what sacrifices do I need to
make if you want something badly enough for you're why's you'll cut out all the
distractions together in the words of Tony Robbins if you want to take the
island burn the boat you have to put yourself in a situation where you have
no choice in turning back in order to gain clarity on this new version of you
you have to define the future you write down where you want to be in a year's
time close your eyes and imagine your possible self, get really creative if
there are no barriers and no money constraints what do you actually want
from life there is no wrong or right, just simply
answer these questions to kind of help you on your way where do you see
yourself in a year's time where are you working what are you wearing to work
what are you doing on the weekends where do you live what am i working towards
now if primes are unconscious you need to be aware of the power of imagination
when you think about what you want this takes place in what's known as your
mind's eye your brain and your nervous system cannot tell the difference
between what's imagined or a real experience and this is important as a
human being will act feel perform in accordance with what he or she imagines
to be true about him or herself these mental pictures allow us to form
new traits inspire confidence and create new neural pathways
they provide us with an opportunity to practice attitudes that we would not
otherwise do did you know that students at alcohol therapy they have to
visualize who they want to become through a mental motion picture, Conrad
Hilton of the Hilton Hotel group imagined every day he would operate a
hotel long before he even bought one and Napoleon practiced soldiering long before
he stepped on the battlefield so that he could see how the fight would play out
so I encourage you each and every day to close your eyes and strengthen the
visualization of the future. Create a vision board of the things that inspire
you the trick is to keep viewing what you want in your life each day as
imagination is a preview of life's coming attractions. When creating your
action plan you need to talk about goals goal-setting is a secret of success here
by now you know what you want what's in your way and where you want to be and
why you want it, this ultimately has formed your outcome goal, now you have to make a
process of how you're gonna get there consider this your steps toward yourself
which will form your action plan you need to ask these questions in order to
move forward what steps could you take to work towards this new version of you
what new habits we'll have to create? what new knowledge of skills will you need to
learn? whose help do they need to achieve this? what key milestones must I set that will
help keep me on track? what small sacrifices might I need to stay on
course? what's a realistic timeframe for
achieving all this? what is the first step you need to take this week? what is
the first step you need to take right now? if you can answer all of these
questions then you will have clarity on yourself. As a bonus if you can find
someone to share your goal with and hold you accountable each week this is a
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