so when a man is falling in love with a woman sometimes it can feel a little
extreme us guys we get a little excited when we're really into a woman so here are
seven things that men do when we are just over the top attracted to keep watching
hey there my name is Adam lodolce from lovestrategies.com where I help successful
single women get out there and track love and do it with a proven strategy and here are
some signs you can look for that a man is just like yearning for you in ways you may have not
experienced before or in a long time number one is he's gonna want to spend time with you alone so I
can't tell you how many times I've had this exact dialogue with literally thousands of clients over
the years and it'll sound something like this so I went on a first date with this guy it went really
well he seemed to like me a lot and now he wants me to come over to his place for our second date
and he wants to make me dinner and this is where I say oh I bet he does what a guy's really tried
to do he is going to want to spend time with you alone he's going to try and progress things and
ideally spend time with you alone maybe with good intentions maybe with bad intentions or
good bad intentions we don't know quite yet but that is what guys tend to do at this stage and
so what we recommend our clients do is Pace the progression of your connections especially when
you're you're first going have them for the first three to five dates keep going out at night I
would not recommend going to his place I would not recommend having him over to your place because
you know what we know what happens when you spend time alone like that the next thing he does is he
finds ways to touch you I know that feeling when you first go out with a woman and you feel like
there's like this Chasm between the two of you you want to kind of break the touch barrier and
build that connection but also you don't want to come up it's creepy but before you know it
as the connection continues and the conversation goes really well a man is just going to struggle
not touching you and engaging I don't mean like being handsy obviously there's an appropriate way
to do this in an inappropriate way to do this but when a guy is attracted to you he's going to find
ways to touch you and break that touch barrier and at the same token if you're attracted to
a guy I recommend you do the same okay touching one another appropriately is one of the easiest
ways to send that green light signal that says hey you know what I'm into you I like you let's
see where this kind of goes number 3 is that his eye contact lingers have you ever started talking
to someone and you say something you look away and they're still looking at you and then you
say another thing you're kind of looking away but they're still looking at you and then you
say one more thing and then you're like dude why do you keep looking at me don't get too mad at
us it's your beautiful eyes that he's looking at but when a man is extremely attracted to a
woman he literally can't take his eyes off of her men experience attraction through our eyes
when we first start getting to know a woman but when we start falling for a woman it feels a lot
less like we're actually staring at you and much more of like we are glaring deeply into your soul
it's much less of him checking you out and it's much more of him wanting to actually get to know
you and understand you it's kind of difficult to explain the difference between these two different
ways of making eye contact it's kind of one of those things you know it when you see it next is
that he'll try and protect you from other men look the statistics and the studies are pretty clear
on this men tend to be more jealous than women so when you do go out with your guy and he's keeping
a watchful eye over you he may be doing to protect you or he may be doing it because he's a little
bit jealous that's relatively normal so long as it isn't at those toxic levels where he's trying
to be controlling of you when we're extremely attracted to a woman we will go into that kind
of more dominant protector mode around our woman you may even notice his voice might drop when he's
talking to other men around you and as a quick fun fact did you know that a deeper voice can indicate
a good partner for genetically healthier children I know crazy another fun fact a man with a deep
voice actually statistically lives longer number five is that he's gonna tease you a little bit and
you might even poke fun of you a little bit when a guy's attracted to a woman he kind of reverts
back to this playground way of kind of poking fun and teasing women it can be a fun way to build a
little bit of banter obviously if it's done well if it's done incorrectly it can be super awkward
so if a guy is kind of teasing you or poking fun of your shirt a little bit or something you said
or whatever it is take it light-heartedly because it's chances are he's just flirting number six
is that he might touch his face a lot when he's talking to you back when I used to coach men on
how to meet you you beautiful women I always used to say that if a woman is touching her hair then
she's probably into you and what I tell my female clients is that if you're talking to a guy and
he keeps touching his face that means that he's massively attracted to you he's kind of grooming
himself a little bit and it's funny because when I first met Jess and we'd go out a lot she would
actually say to me she'd be like why are you always touching your face it's kind of weird
she's like kind of call me out on it because I'd always be doing this and it's not something that
I would normally do when I was meeting other people it's just a way of kind of like grooming
yourself and trying to make yourself look good for your potential mate and finally number seven and
this one's just a little bit counterintuitive but that is that he kind of withdraws a little bit and
he might even get a little shy around you this is especially true if the guy's a little bit younger
or maybe less experienced around women but you might notice that if he's the type of guy where
if he's around anyone else he tends to be more outgoing really comfortable socially you know
engaging but then he's around you and he starts to get a little bit nervous and he he's kind of
at a loss for words sometimes maybe a little bit awkward it's possible he is just like out of this
world attracted to you so when it comes to any of this stuff I always like to say please don't over
analyze men always assume attraction if he's talking to you he's attracted to you he's over
the top if he's pursuing you then he likes you probably a lot don't let your analysis paralysis
and all that head trash kind of get in the way of you just enjoying yourself and being present
with this guy if he's displaying any of these things and he's talking to you he's taking you
out he likes you and he's attracted to you and just lean into that idea so I want to hear from
you in the comments Below have you ever seen any of these signs from a guy let me know how it went
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