Heya playa, are you struggling to figure out whether or not your crush likes you and you're
trying to understand what signs they're giving off to show that?
Don't worry, in this video, I'm going to share 5 signs that your crush wants you to ask them
out, so stay tuned.
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Now I'm not a big fan of indirect signs like "oh my crush looked at me", "my crush smiled
at me", I don't think those are real signs.
I think sometimes people just do those things and we tend to misread them.
But some signs make their intent a little more obvious than you would expect.
So the first thing you're really gonna look out for is whether or not your crush wants
to spend more time with you.
If they're making hints at it, if they're outright saying it, if they're telling you
things like "Hey we should hang out one day", "oh you should come with me to this thing",
"oh are you free?
We can do this thing together" then that's a clear sign that they want to spend more
time with you.
Like I said in a previous video, if your crush wants to spend more time with you then that
should be enough for you to ask them out.
But like most people, we're a little shy, we're a little timid, we want to be 100% certain
that they like us so we need to look for more signs just to clarify that.
So, the second sign you should really be looking for is whether they're asking your friends
what you think of them.
Understanding how you feel about them and going through your friends to do it is a sign
that maybe they're curious about you, they want to know more and they want to see if
you can connect but they don't outright and upfront about it.
Even if your crush really likes you and wants you to ask them out, that doesn't mean that
they're going to have the confidence to do it.
Sometimes people are just too shy to do it so going through the friends is the next best
thing.
But if you see them doing that, that could be a sign that they're interested.
Now if your crush is really shy, the third sign you might want to look out for is whether
or not their friends are asking you how you feel about them.
A lot of times people bring their friends into the matter because it's easier for their
friends to walk up to their crush and talk to them so if their friends are approaching
you, that could be a sign that hey, it's time for you to make a move.
They might be a little discreet about it and not ask you whether you like that specific
person but just ask you something in general like "hey, do you have a crush on anyone?".
"Do you like anyone in your class, or in your grade, or in your school?".
Just to kind of pry at you to get that information so they can bring it back to their friend.
Now like I said in previous videos if someone outright asks you if you like someone, I don't
think you should ever lie, I don't think you should ever mislead them.
I think you should be honest about them because the more honest you are, the more confident
you look and the easier chance you'll have with actually getting with your crush.
Sometimes though, you might notice a specific behavior coming from your crush whenever you're
interacting with other people, that behavior is going to be jealousy.
Whenever you're talking to someone and you're flirting with them or joking around with them,
and your crush see's that, they might get a little jealous and do things like get involved
in the conversation or try to split you guys up or may even spread rumors about the person
that you're talking to.
Now I'm not condoning spreading rumors or looking at it like it's a good thing, I think
if your crush is going through the effort to really insert them into the equation to
prevent you from being with someone else, that can be a clear cut sign that they want
you to ask them out.
They don't want to see you dating someone else because seeing that can really hurt you.
I mean, think about your own situation.
Have you ever seen your crush flirting or talking to someone else?
How did that make you feel?
Didn't that make you feel like you wanted to be part of that equation and push that
other person aside?
Your crush may be experiencing the same exact thing when they see you talking to someone
else like that.
It's a weird ship to keep afloat and not everyone is just outright and honest about their feelings
which is exactly why you should look out for the fifth sign, and that might be your crush
just pulling away from you.
Not talking as much, not interacting as much, just overall not knowing what to say when
they're with you.
This is a bit of a tricky one to understand because sometimes people get signs of disinterest
confused with signs of nervousness.
So as you try to interact with your crush more, really try to pick up one whether or
not they want to be around you.
Sometimes if they're nervous they may want to be around you but may not know what to
say while other times they may just flat out not want to be around you, not want to talk
to you and that's just a clear sign of disinterest when you're in those situations, just let
the person go.
Don't keep assuming that they like you and are playing hard to get, sometimes you just
need to take things as they are.
Now if your crush is just nervous around you, they may be waiting for you to make the actual
move.
They want you to talk to them, you to ask them to hang out, you to kind of initiate
things for them to follow.
Feelings are not always that clear though so sometimes you need to pay attention.
Learn about your crush, interact with them more to really see if they are showing off
these five signs.
Sometimes they are and sometimes they're not so it's best not to assume that they are and
really if you want to know whether or not they like you, the best thing for you to do
is to just ask them out.
That's a clear path directly to doing it instead of kind of waiting to read their behaviors
to see how they feel.
But now I want to know, what do you think?
Are you waiting for the perfect moment to kind of ask out your crush and looking for
different signs before you do it?
If you are, leave your comments down below and let's talk about it.
On that note guys, thank you so much for watching this video, I'm very grateful and very happy
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Check it out so, on that note I'll catch you guys tomorrow.
As always, love and peace.