DO YOU SIT IN YOUR WIFE'S SPOT, SIR?
DO YOU SIT IN HER SPOT WHERE SHE USED TO SIT?
YES.
'CAUSE SHE JUST TOLD ME TO TELL YOU TO GET OUT OF HER SPOT.
I DON'T KNOW.
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DO YOU ACTUALLY HEAR YOUR WIFE CALL YOUR NAME OR CALL YOU?
SO I GO -- I GO, "OH, YOU CALL YOUR HUS--"
SHE GOES, "YEAH, I GOT TO YELL AT HIM ALL TIME,
THERESA, 'CAUSE HE DOESN'T PAY ATTENTION SOMETIMES."
THAT'S TRUE.
SO DO YOU SOMETIMES FEEL THAT YOU HEAR HER VOICE OR YOU
HEAR HER TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO?
SHE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO ALL THE TIME.
PERFECT. KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT CRAZY.
-KNOW THAT THAT'S REAL. -I AM CRAZY.
DO YOU MAKE YOURSELF BREAKFAST EVERY MORNING?
-YES. -AND YOU TALK TO YOUR WIFE?
I TALK TO HER WHEN I GO TO BED.
SHE HEARS YOU.
-SHE WHAT? -SHE HEARS YOU.
OH, SHE HEA-- I KNOW SHE HEARS ME.
-SHE TELLS ME THAT. -I -- PERFECT.
SHE SAYS, "AND YOU TELL HIM,
I AM JUST AS BEAUTIFUL AS THE PICTURE
THAT HE LOOKS AT."
YOU STILL LOOK AT YOUR WEDDING PICTURE?
YES, I DO.
SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE THAT.
SHE TOLD ME THAT YOU WERE MARRIED 50 YEARS.
Mike: I LOST MY WIFE FROM COMPLICATIONS DUE TO SURGERY.
AND I MISS HER SO MUCH.
I REALLY DO.
SHE SAYS YOU SAY HOW MUCH YOU MISS HER
AND THAT YOU WOULDN'T DO ANYTHING OVER AGAIN.
THAT'S RIGHT. EXACTLY RIGHT.
SHE SAYS, "I FEEL THE SAME WAY."
SHE SAYS, "I WOULD NOT
HAVE CHANGED NOT ONE THING IN OUR LIFE."
I REALLY APPRECIATE THAT VERY MUCH
BECAUSE EVERYTHING I DO, RIGHT,
I FEEL THAT HER SOUL IS WITH ME.
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I WANT TO START WITH -- WHO LOST THE MOTHER?
OH, YOU LOST YOUR MOM?
YES.
SO, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOUR MOTHER IS STEPPING FORWARD.
SHE TALKS ABOUT EARRINGS.
DO YOU HAVE HER EARRINGS?
YEAH.
PERFECT.
SHE TOLD ME RIGHT BEFORE SHE DIED
THAT I COULD HAVE HER PEARL EARRINGS.
DO YOU SAY, "I WISH I SPENT MORE TIME AT HOME"?
YES.
SHE SAYS, "I WANT YOU TO LIVE YOUR LIFE ON YOUR TERMS."
NOW, DID YOU JUST HAVE A DREAM OF YOUR MOM?
YES, I DID.
AND YOUR MOM LOOKED BEAUTIFUL, RIGHT?
AND SHE LOOKED PERFECT AND SHE WASN'T SICK.
YES.
AND YOU WERE JUST LIKE, "MOM, YOU'RE BETTER."
SO, KNOW THAT WITH THAT DREAM THAT YOU HAD,
THAT WAS NOT A DREAM.
KNOW THAT THAT WAS AN ACTUAL VISITATION.
DID YOU JUST GET THE GOOSE BUMPS?
YES.
KNOW THAT THAT WAS YOUR MOTHER'S SOUL
THAT JUST MOVED RIGHT THROUGH YOU.
YOUR MOTHER JUST LEANED OVER AND KISSED YOU AND SAID,
"I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT WITH EVERY BREATH THAT YOU TAKE,
THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE PROUD OF YOU
AND THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY LITTLE GIRL
AND THAT I AM HONORED AND VERY PROUD
THAT YOU ARE MY DAUGHTER."
Jess: LAST CHRISTMAS WAS INCREDIBLY HARD
BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW THAT SHE WAS REALLY WITH ME.
BUT NOW THAT THERESA VERIFIED
THAT MY MOM WAS REALLY WATCHING OVER US,
THIS CHRISTMAS IS GONNA BE SO MUCH BETTER.
KNOW THAT YOUR MOTHER IS LOVING AND GUIDING YOU
FROM THE OTHER SIDE.
SHE SAYS, "EVERY BREATH THAT YOU TAKE,
THAT I AM A PART OF THAT."
FEEL LIKE I'M ON TOP OF THE WORLD
KNOWING THAT MY MOM IS WATCHING OVER ME.
IT'S INCREDIBLE.
HELLO, EVERYBODY! MERRY CHRISTMAS!
HOW ARE YOU? MERRY CHRISTMAS.
WELL, THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME.
OKAY, SO, UM...
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Theresa: WHO DO YOU KNOW THAT LOST THE DAUGHTER?
YOU KNOW SOMEONE THAT LOST A DAUGHTER?
THAT WOULD BE YOU?
HOW DO YOU KNOW HER?
THAT'S MY EX-GIRLFRIEND'S MOM.
Theresa: DID YOU FIND THINGS
THAT YOU WERE SURPRISED THAT SHE KEPT
OR THAT SHE STILL HAD?
OR DID YOU FIND THINGS THAT SHE HAD GIVEN YOU?
IT WAS A WHOLE BOX OF THINGS SHE GAVE ME.
SO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU WERE GOING THROUGH THIS BOX
AND FINDING AND REMINISCING,
KNOW THAT HER SOUL WAS WITH YOU.
NICOLE AND I DATED A VERY LONG TIME AGO AND THEN RECONNECTED.
SHE WAS ALWAYS, YOU KNOW, THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY.
DID YOU THINK, OR DID YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT IT,
OR WAS THERE SOMETHING WHERE YOU THOUGHT,
"SHE WAS THE ONE THAT I WOULD HAVE LOVED
TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH."
YEAH.
HOW DO YOU CONNECT WITH THE NUMBER 37?
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Janice: TODAY SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN 37.
TODAY SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN 37. TODAY'S HER BIRTHDAY.
DID SHE LEAVE THE PHYSICAL WORLD IN A TRAGIC WAY
OR UNEXPECTED?
WERE YOU SUPPOSED TO BE WITH HER THE NIGHT THAT SHE DIED?
YEAH.
BECAUSE SHE SAYS, "YOU NEED TO KNOW
THAT YOU WERE NOT SUPPOSED TO PREVENT MY PASSING."
DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT? YEAH.
AND SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO CARRY THE BURDEN OR GUILT
CONNECTED TO HER PASSING.
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"THE ONLY THING," SHE SAYS,
"THAT I WILL DO IS TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY PASSING."
BUT I DO NOT FEEL AN INTENT. DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT?
YES.
WHICH MEANS THAT SHE DID NOT
INTENTIONALLY TAKE HER OWN LIFE.
SHE IS SO CONFIDENT WITHIN HERSELF,
AND SHE LOOKED ME RIGHT IN THE EYE, AND SHE SAID,
"DOES IT REALLY MATTER? THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT I DIED."
THAT SOUNDS LIKE HER. YEAH.
Theresa: SHE SAYS, "I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING ME
"TO LEAVE THE PHYSICAL WORLD OF KNOWING WHAT IT WAS LIKE
TO BE UNCONDITIONALLY LOVED."
SHE SAYS, "I AM OKAY,"
AND THAT, "I AM AT PEACE."
Janice: SHE CAME THROUGH SO STRONGLY TO ME TONIGHT AND TO ALL OF US.
AND I THINK IT MIGHT HELP MAKE
THE HOLIDAYS A LITTLE BIT EASIER FOR ME TO GET THROUGH,
KNOWING THAT SHE'S AT PEACE AND OKAY.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
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