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hey guys it's kevin kreider and i'm from
the ugly model
and netflix's bling empire i'm here
because a lot of asian guys have been
reaching out to me asking me
some dating advice and really i'm not
the guy
that's not my expertise but i know a guy
that is his field
and his name is jt tran from abc of
attraction
so i'm here and i'm gonna tell you the
good the bad
the ugly of the whole boot camp i am not
getting paid to say this or anything
like this
so stay tuned you're chilling keep it
there day one
was awesome i'm not just saying that
because jt is a friend i
really had very low expectations going
into it i thought the guys that were
gonna come in were gonna be
kind of like no personality dry
personality and
actually these were guys that i would
normally just hang out have coffee with
it was really great my biggest takeaway
that i got from day one is that
rejection is part of the game being
rejected and not letting it affect you
he actually coached people through
rejection
and helping them pick themselves up and
so they can go back out there and do it
again
hi my name is gt what's your name yes
hey what's your name yes
i don't get it why are you saying yes
after each rejection instinct to be
rejected
to feel bad oh you're replacing it yes
got it changing your motion from a
negative state to a positive
i understand hi i'm kevin
yes but you need to always look in the
odds especially when you're controlling
a group of girls
it's just these little small techniques
that jt
taught that made such a huge difference
in their approach to women
so think about this if i was to talk to
a girl
from this distance what did this say
about me bad breath or something
what about this that's too close
but the chemo turn distance armling
slightly
bent hi hi i'm kevin hey
nice to meet you stop looking at her
boobs i'm not looking at her food
you look down at your hand which makes
it look like you're looking at it really
yes yes [ __ ] don't ever break eye
contact
okay again hi hi
captain
what i also loved about everything was
going into the field as jt calls it
which is where
the women are and the club action scene
i thought i'd be just like left alone
hanging out with the guys it was
seamless
how they coached people and said hey go
over there
there's two women by themselves get out
of your comfort zone and
they instructed and helped you out along
the way and that's what i loved about it
because they actually gave you
attention not instead of just throwing
you out there and they were reminding
you about day one and all the things
that they taught you
i'm so used to talking to asian girls
for the last five years
and today i was hitting on and talking
to my first
white girl i was practicing and riding
on a bike for the first time so i kind
of got back into it but i really
appreciate him
giving me that extra slap in the ass and
say go out there and talk to her
he really has some good tips and he
makes you feel like you can really do it
which is awesome
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my name is kevin my why is that i'm
always committed to
becoming better no matter how good you
think you are
it feels like you're really good at
vibing
and you kind of lean on that too a
little bit too much one thing i would
say is
i couldn't tell who you were into you
focused your attention a lot
when i was watching you i was like oh
was he into the white girl is he into
the short asian girl i can't tell i
would say if you like kiss someone yeah
you know
especially women focus on the girl you
want there's some things that i do
naturally
for instance when conversation stuff but
i will say that everything else was just
so
systematically in place in so many
things that i didn't realize
you have to think about in the beginning
and then you unconsciously just do it
that's the goal and hopes for the boot
camp
but i'm so glad that it's a 72-hour
process
for the whole thing because there's no
way i'd remember
half of this stuff so i'm really glad
there's people here to help you out with
all of that stuff
now jt is going to hurt my feelings
he's like i warned you so i'm going to
hurt your feelings
do it you are already a confident guy
which is why like last night's infield
like you were selling to yourself sure
like you could perform so much better
now part of it is like
it was the first time you talked to a
white girl in like five years like in
that way yeah yeah
so obviously that's outside of your
comfort zone but
as one of the best looking guys in the
venue but that's the problem of being
someone as
good looking as you it's very easy to
get lazy
have you talked to black girls white
girls latinas like the hottest girls
there you could get
like be typed one of the rare guys you'd
be like you you
you could like pick any girl but problem
is like
you know it's that good-looking guy
syndrome you know you get these
successes
so it's very easy for you to avoid
anything that could cause you pain
but as you realize you know the
rejections aren't that bad
no last night was my first infield with
abc's of attraction
in a club at nightclub which is totally
out of my element
and i didn't realize how uncomfortable
i was going to feel in a night setting
like this
i thought i had pretty good game talking
to random girls
i realized i don't have that much game
talking to girls i needed the coaching
and help from jt and jeff to
be able to guide me and just show me how
to
approach women in a club setting because
that's not my forte
and they actually helped me out and it
was just inspiring to watch them
just confidently approach just random
beautiful women
and to be able to talk to them
effortlessly and seamlessly
so i felt super comfortable once i got
the advice from
jt and his coaching staff with the
nightclub scene
i was able to get the numbers and
to have a lot of fun with girls that i'm
not really used to
i had this really beautiful blonde
around and
first of all tell you that i was like i
didn't really approach her because she
looked a little bit standoffish and i
was like oh she's probably
like thinking she's way out of my league
but then i got
coaching and it turned out she wasn't so
i really thought this was a great
experience
i totally see how this works so i
thought i had pretty good game
and inner game but this program taught
me like there's always
more to be done
day game infield my reactions to it was
man this is actually even more
challenging
than doing the club when you're doing
the
day game it's more challenging because
there's
no all inhibitions are just
full in effect because people are there
for shopping your solo
the mix and match of the crowd and i
have to say that this was one of the
most
useful days for me because i lived most
of my day
in the day anyway and just the
approaches
are something that is oddly
you you notice when you do talk to a
girl
it actually works because when it does
work
you realize oh my god there actually is
like a system to talking to girls
during the day and the biggest thing
that i learned is that sometimes when i
talk to girls
i can over complicate things if i'm
actually interested in them which often
misleads them into maybe like maybe
does he just want a friendship which is
probably what i come across as
and instead of just going for the front
route i just go straight to the
directness
of my my pickup line is what they call
it in the abcs of attractions i would
say
since uh the first time i tell you to
now that i see a lot more control
in your body language i don't know if
it's a confidence thing or the way
you're
controlling yourself is a little goofy
at first and now you're kind of a little
more
it's just coming across like way more
confident and although you're tall dark
and handsome i think that your
attitude is really your best attribute
what i've seen over this weekend is more
purpose
i think when it comes to meeting women
of whatever you know type that you want
you know beginning it was sort of like
you know spinning your wheels kind of
being friendly
but no intent behind it right
here it does seem like you were
successfully had
intense romantic intent with the women
that you are attracted
to and i think that this is a good skill
to have
in every regard beyond just women
because you're going to find that you
know being able to read people situation
is going to work for you in business
marketing sales you know dealing with
anybody and everybody just finished the
final
day of the boot camp and my closing
thoughts are first of all
amazing i mean i am not getting paid to
say this or anything like this
it was literally me just going in with
an open mind and thinking that this camp
was going to be something where
i could just go through it and
tell people the good parts about it so
other people would do this boot camp but
i
truly believe i went in there with
an empty cup and i learned so many good
great things that i will carry on for
the rest of my life
so i do very much highly recommend this
especially if you're an asian guy what i
loved about jt's approach
is that a lot of the stuff and personal
development i've done in my whole life
to inner game
he really takes everything that an
asian male has experienced in america
growing up and
the unconscious biases we might have or
insecurities
and he brings it up to the surface so
you have to face with it now
i told you i'd give you the bad there
are some bad parts about this and it's
only because of my
own lifestyle if you're not a late night
person
it gets really tough to stay out late
night i
only got like five or six hours of sleep
at night i
needed to drink a lot of coffee the boot
camp is intensive
it can get a little too technical but
the thing is if you're
a beginner or you just suck at dating
you're going to need the techniques so
that's why i think it's a great approach
for that as well
sometimes what you think is they kind of
push you
to approach different situations
different times different people
because it's a lot of practice they want
you to do and sometimes i think i was
uncomfortable with some of the practices
because it was like
ew you know like this is a lot of
approaching all in one time and it's
condensed but they want to show you the
best
like every one of these coaches the way
they treated the other
students in the camp were amazing
the first coach i wanted to give a
review is jeff
his coaching advice is super spot on
what i like about his approach is that
he is honest and candid
but he doesn't go out there to hurt your
feelings
kate the coach she was wonderful what i
loved about her
was she was always having something
positive to say about you
what i really liked about her was that
she had the girl's perspective and point
of view
of how you talk to and how you are
presented
it was very honest and it's something
that i needed to hear too
even though like it wasn't like
sometimes news to me but to hear from a
girl not just a guy during this boot
camp setting which is awesome
what i really liked about ozzy was he
was the day guy
and he was very much about just getting
you out to practice
he was very detailed with his techniques
i really liked ozzy's approach to
everything
and he's more like me where he likes to
get up at five or six a.m in the morning
he doesn't normally stay out super late
so he gets
my lifestyle so i felt like he was
really speaking to me when
he was coaching that's what i learned
from it and that
is totally the overall outcome that i
got from this which changed my mind on
even just dating coaching or dating
seminars or boot camps and jt is totally
changing the game for pickup culture
because i think it's he's putting it in
such a good positive
way that is not sexist
or or misogynistic or
toxic masculine which i think a lot of
people would associate
with something like this and it was the
total opposite it was teaching
men to feel confident empowered and
to personally develop themselves inside
and outside which i freaking love that's
why it's an a
and that's what i totally would
recommend this class for anybody
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