Miriam says I was told if you don't have
direct officer in your,
relationship ever. This - oh I should
thanks for that reminder, Miriam. I have
mentioned this before but I will mention
this again - your heaven luck, your
astrology - is not set in stone, okay? Not
set in stone. So many years ago, probably
about four or five years ago now
I had another client again, if you've
heard this story - apologies but I'm going
to say it again because some people may
not have caught it before. So she was
told by many other Chinese astrologers
again, no direct officer in her four
pillar, the one right before me before
she came to me she went to see another
Feng Shui, Chinese astrologer and
he said just give up. Just accept the
fact you're gonna be an old spinster at
that time when she came to me, I think
she was in her early 50's, okay? He
told her you are doomed in terms of
relationship. Just be happy being single
just try to be happy, being single
there's no point in looking for a man so
when she came to me and she was
like Safrina, you're gonna be the
last one if you tell me the same thing
then I'll be I'll accept my fate as a
spinster and I said exactly this earth
luck, mankind luck, heaven luck has always
been how I operated since the very
beginning so I told her I looked at her
chart I said yes astrologically you are
you know you are challenged in terms of
finding a man.
I didn't sugarcoat. It it is
astrologically not there but I said but
we do some internal healing and then you
put yourself out there so she did a
couple of EFT sessions with me we dug
into some past hurts I was in training
in past life at that time so we didn't
or Akashic record so we didn't do any
past life or Akashic record work on her
but even with just the internal healing,
it gave her a little bit more peace and
I said now you need to put yourself out
there so she started going to a book
club, she started taking salsa lessons
she started taking like the Chinese
musical instrument class. Not even
just to meet guys but she's been such a
workaholic cuz one thing is like this
she's in the office all the time,
when she's done work, she goes home
she wakes up she goes to the office
she's done work, she comes home so I said -
well you're not helping your astrology
by not putting yourself out there so she
started going to more social events and
then last I heard from her was about a
year and a half ago I knew she met
someone but what happened was they
bought a house together and they're
still together. It's not perfect because
you know no relationships are perfect
but they are happy with each other
they're in love with each other
so which goes to say if you don't have
spouse star in your chart - does it mean
that you're doomed? I don't believe in it.
I don't believe that's the truth. Yes, it
doesn't mean that you need to work more
to attract someone but it doesn't mean
you're doomed, okay? Joy says you are
doomed only if you believe you are
doomed. Exactly and you know what she
kept saying the word doomed. Am I really
doomed in relationship? You know you have
to tell me if I'm really doomed and I
actually remember I had to tell her
stop saying that word stop saying that
word, it's so disempowering for
her to have that word stuck in her
brain because that's what the astrologer
used, the astrologer actually said the
word doomed in relationship so that's
why, okay?
Yeah Miriam if you don't have a direct
officer it doesn't mean that you're
gonna be single, you just need to work a
little harder in the mankind luck,in the
heaven luck and I can tell you it works
she didn't give up, yeah exactly.