- What does childbirth feel like?
- Well if you get an epidural it feels like you're pooping
but in a really weird position
'cause they make you put your legs up and hold them.
(springy music)
- Hi my name's Maddie, nice to meet you.
- Hi I'm Davina.
- Do you know why you're here?
- Yeah because you're a teen mom.
- Okay, how old do you think I am? Do you know yet?
- 17
- I'm 15.
- Yeah
I had my baby when I was 14
and I had just turned 14 when I got pregnant.
How old are you?
- I'm 12.
- I remember when I was 12.
Boys would always like send pictures and stuff.
I'm like what was that weird looking worm?
(laughs)
- They don't do that anymore here?
- Oh well I got one Snapchat about it and was just like
just gonna delete.
- It's really bad.
- So I kind of got exposed to that early.
Then when I got a boyfriend, he wanted to have sex.
I didn't really want to but.
- Tell him to do it himself.
(Both laughing)
- I kinda thought, I love him. This is what he wants.
So if want to keep him, this is what I have to do.
Which, is not the case. So never..
- Yeah.
- Think that, but we ended up having sex and I got pregnant.
- Did you guys use protection?
- No.
- Well!
- Yeah, but in Texas they don't really teach you
about that in school.
What would you think if you got pregnant?
- Oh I feel like I'd get killed.
(Maddie Gasps)
- My parents would be like.
- No. Yeah.That's what I thought too.
Luckily my parents were supportive,
but with some people, like, it's not the case for them.
And it's really sad.
- How did you know if you were pregnant?
- I lost a lot of weight 'cause of morning sickness.
- Didn't your mom take you to the doctor?
- Yeah. She thought I was sick.
So when I went to the doctor, one of the nurses,
she was a teen mom, so she just had this gut feeling.
Like I did not say anything. Well she did a pregnancy test,
and it turns out I was, I think, 12/14 weeks pregnant.
- Whoa.
- So I found out pretty far along.
- Oh wow.
- So yeah. Me and her dad had already broken up.
I ended up telling him. How do you think he reacted?
- I don't think he'd want to keep the baby.
- Yeah. His initial thought was abortion.
At three months pregnant, abortion wasn't really
something that I thought I should go through with.
So, I ended up keeping her. Obviously.
But she is the little light of my life.
Obviously, you should not be having sex at 14.
- [Davina] Well yeah.
- Yeah, but I mean stuff happens.
I can't go back and change it, you know.
And even if I could, I wouldn't because I love my daughter.
But it's obviously not something I recommend.
I don't recommend it at all.
- Did people feel bad for you being pregnant at 14?
- Like yes. They also kinda feel like
I'm a bad person because of it.
- I don't think you're a bad person.
- Thank you. - [Davina] Just made a
- Bad choice. - [Davina] Yeah.
- I agree with that. I took the consequences of my actions
and I made it into a beautiful thing.
- Do you still keep in contact with her dad?
- Um, I do now but that just happened.
He recently started seeing her
and I mean he's been really nice.
I really didn't expect that kindness from him,
but I'm really happy that she gets to have a father
in her life because even though I'm a young mom,
I wanna try to make her life as normal as possible,
and as good as possible. Do you wanna meet her?
- Yeah
- She's so cute. This is Everly. Everly, this is Davina.
- Ah she's so cute. I love babies.
- [Woman Off Screen] Do you want to try to hold her?
- I'm scared. I think she is gonna yell.
- You can shake hands. Everly shake hands.
- Oh wrong hand. Okay. Okay. Oh she's so warm.
(giggling)
- What's your favorite part about
- [Maddie] Just the bond.
My mom would always talk about it.
I was just kinda like oh yeah so its basically a bond
you would have with a sibling, but it's
so much more than that. It's just like.
- I don't have a good bond with my sibling.
(everyone laughs)
- She's just like "go away". I'm like, "I'm in the hallway".
(laughs)
High five. Oh nope. Not with that hand.
(laughs)
- Bye it was so nice to meet you.
- Bye.
- Everly you want to shake hands too?
Oh it's the slobber hand.
- Oh that's okay. It's a cute slobber hand.
- Okay bye.
(Clapping)
- Okay. She's happy. I'm gone.
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(baby babbling)
- Oh my gosh.
- [Woman Off Screen] Bye
(Laughs)