Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
Let me ask you a very quick question, when is the best time to do anything?
Right Now.
I've never heard that before.
Have you ever heard that being said that the best time to do anything is right now?
We put things off.
We don't do things.
We get lazy.
We get scared.
Our emotions run high, so we put things off and don't do anything.
This is also related to asking a girl out, however, there is something a little bit different
than me teaching you today.
We were talking about the best time to actually ask a girl out now.
With this being said, we're going to be specifically talking about when you first meet a girl.
This is not going to be advice for online dating.
This is going to be more advice for when you meet a girl on the sidewalk, in your class
or at a bar.
It’s some cold type approach where you meet a girl and you initiate conversation, you
get a number and asked her out and go on dates.
That is the framework where we'll be working on today.
The quick answer to this question when to ask a girl out is as soon as possible, although,
with knowing or having some hunch that she is interested in you.
Let me explain this for a second.
First of all, the reason why you want to ask a girl out as soon as possible is because
right now, we're in a world where it is very difficult to get attention from people.
People are on their phones, they're on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Tinder and Bumble, they're
getting approached all the time.
Girls are busy.
If you wait too long to ask a girl out, chances are that she is going to be saying yes, there's
some other dude, or she’s so busy that she's going to forget about you.
Also, doesn't matter if this is now, in 2017, or this was 20 years ago, the longer you wait
to ask the girl out, the more she has time to not remember you or not remember the experience
that she had with you, and then the attraction level for you goes down.
That's another reason why you want to be asking her out as soon as possible.
However, within the circumstances, you don't want to be just talking to a girl and right
away asking her out, or approaching a girl and talking to her for literally 30 seconds
and then asking her out.
That's not what you want to do.
You want to make sure that she has some interest in you.
You have built some attraction or there is a little bit of investment on her part.
The reason why we do this is to make sure we don't get rejected.
That's why we want to do it as fast as we can, however you want to do it when we know
there's some interest there.
Let's draw this out for a second.
Let's imagine you go to girl, you start a conversation.
Let's say you're at a typical place like a bar, you go up, you start a conversation,
things are going well, you guys are talking for maybe 15- 20 minutes.
You're not going to ask her out there per se, you're probably going to end up getting
her number or maybe you end up bouncing to another place.
Either way, you're probably going to end up getting her number.
That's not asking her out, that just making the next move in order to make the next move,
which is going to be asking her out.
This is the typical situation.
Let's say you got her number.
Now you're going to have to text or call her.
My advice to you would be to do it the very next day.
I know that there's a lot of different rules out there.
There's something called the three day rule where you wait three days.
I think all that is nonsense.
You want to ask the girl as soon as possible, so you know if she's interested because she
gave you her number.
Hopefully, you've been flirting with her.
This is not some business contact or networking, there is some actual interest in you to go
on some date.
With all that in mind, you want to ask her out the next day via text, whatever it is.
By the way, if you want to learn how to ask out via text or with the best text messages
to get, so she actually responds and you're able to meet up with her because sometimes
you get a number and they don't respond, then check out the link in the description below
where you can get my 7 Deadly Text Messages That She Can't Resist.
It's 100% free.
It's for you to copy and paste and use when you get a girl's number.
The whole point here is for you to understand that you want to ask her as soon as possible
when she's interested.
For a lot of other guys who might be watching this, you might be in a situation where there's
a girl who you didn't cold approach, you know her from class or you know her from work,
or maybe she's a friend or you're in the friend zone.
These are the girls that you want to ask out immediately.
Again, we're sticking with what I'm saying here.
You want to ask her out as soon as humanly possible.
Right now, you're probably in the friend zone or she has no idea that you like her and has
no idea what's going on.
What’s the difference between you getting her interest in you and you not, is going
to be you making a move and going for it because she might be interested.
If she's not, then you move on to another girl, but it's time to grab your balls and
go and ask her out.
The best time to ask a girl is right now.
Go ahead and get the 7 Deadly Text Messages That She Can't Resist.
Also, I want you to write down in the comments below.
If you're still watching this video, I hope you are, I want you to write in the comments
this phrase,”Right now.”I want to see a billion of these.
I want to see every single person saying, right now.
We understand the idea here and I know that you get it because when is the best time to
ask her out is right now.
I'll see you on the next video.