I'm gonna draw for you what doesn't work when it comes to a personal development
plan so I can show you how to create a great personal development program so
watch closely as I show you where everybody messes up because you're
probably messing up in this area too
your personal development plan needs some help now this is what's crazy is
you know people talk about hey I want to get into personal development and they
actually need personal help to get their personal development plan put together
so I want to show you some and share with you some problems that you're gonna
run into with your personal development plan first of all when a person starts
to get into personal development they generally get into it doing it
themselves so a big mistake that people make is when they get into it they do it
alone and when they do alone they try to make the jump to get from point A in
their life up to point B because they want to do better be better and they
make this jump and they fall and then when they fall then they turn around and
say you know that personal development is not for me but the problem is their
personal development plan what's setup wrong they didn't know how
to get into it so that they are gonna be successful so big mistake and crashing
and burning on a personal development plan is to do it alone second big
mistake when they start personal development is that they are unclear
about where they're going so they're unclear they have a kind of an idea of
where they want to go but they really haven't dialed in on it one of the main
reasons a person does not accomplish their goal or even even get started in
that direction is because they don't know exactly what they want because
people today are indecisive so much indecision going on it's actually
causing a lot of teeth problems and people because indecision causes teeth
issues and there's all kinds of teeth issues going around that's kind of
little side piece but that's what happens with indecision but they're
unclear because they don't want to make a decision because I don't want to make
the wrong decision so they make kind of a decision so they don't so they're not
wrong they make kind of it so they're not wrong but a kind of
decision means that you start but then you crash and now your personal
development attempt now has failed and now you can be another person who says
personal development doesn't work well it's because you try to try and doing it
alone you're unclear of your goal it's not gonna work because you didn't set it
up right so here's another problem with the person who gets into first
development who doesn't know how to do this is that they don't have any form of
tracking you know what are you doing what is it that you're doing that's
going to be different I just had a text this morning that it was consulting with
one of my mentoring clients who's having a challenge and I asked them did you
track what you did last month and they said no I said so how do you know if
what you're gonna change and I said wow this is a brilliant idea
so if you ever want to change something in your life you have to get better at
tracking you have to get better at tracking what you're doing how you're
doing things and hey you know and so people don't do the tracking and so then
the personal development crashes because they start to take off and because
they're gonna be better but then they don't know if they're being better they
can't tell if they're being better they have no way to prove to somebody they're
doing better they can't notice they're doing better
and so then they crash and they mess up their personal development world they
and they can be another person to say personal development has worked but
people who say personal development doesn't work are people who tried to do
it alone they were unclear their goal and they had no tracking system to watch
the progress happening ok another problem that they have is they have no
one to report to so there's no reporting going on no reporting they're in
personal development and they can try as much as they want they can
cough as much as they want they can sabotage themselves as much as they want
because they got no one to report to and that's you know so that means they can
work really hard for three days and then take two weeks off and still say they're
in personal development yeah you're not that's called do whatever you want
that's not personal development that's do whatever you want kind of thinking
and so again this person will start but because they have nobody to report to
they're going to they're going to sabotage themselves and they're going to
cry so that was a good sound effect and so these are the common reasons why you
would fail at personal development and why your friend fails at personal
development so another reason why people fail at personal developments because
they think that all they have to do is think positive they think that's what
personal development is is oh I'm going to think positive you know they're just
like they think that's it are you kidding
personal development has to do with behavior and behavior is your actions
thoughts produce actions thoughts influence actions but you got to study
your behavior so you got to be able to change behavior not just the thought
process that people don't know that and so they're not looking at their behavior
and here's one that's just cracks me up it cracks me up so they're working on
personal development and then I say to them well this is what you need to do
next to be able to advance in your personal development cuz I'm a mentor
and this is what you got to do and they say back to me you know I I don't know
I'm not sure about that it's like what what do you mean you don't know you
think you're smart enough to figure this next step out
no you you got to do things that are uncommon you know like if somebody
wanted to you know earn $5,000 more in a month you have to do things different
you can't just um you know think about it there's a work it helps but it
doesn't make it happen you have to do things different and so the behaviors
have to change but most people don't think about that
and so they crash and they don't do well in their personal development world they
don't do well now the last one the last one here they have for you number six of
how to crash and burn ruin your personal development process is that in the mode
of your personal development experience in that whole entire experience you
actually have to get smarter you got it up your education you got to move it up
because education about your goal is critical it's essential it's necessary
so people don't think that you have to like keep learning about that particular
goal that you have this next phase of life that you want they wish for it but
they don't turn their wish into a want wishing and wanting two totally
different things so another crash-and-burn
is that they don't turn it into a want and the reason you turn that into a want
the way that you do that is that you really study it out you know like let's
say let's say I wanted to be a better fisherman and catch Marlin in the ocean
alright like I want to be a better fisherman to catch these big fish I
could wish for the day that I could do that I could totally wish and hoping I
could just make the leap one day and and it would all turn out good because I'm
wishing or I get online I talked to people I study I asked
I talk to fishermen I find out what works I find out what doesn't work and I
raise my education about this Wow you raise your education then it's more of a
solid move going there but if I'm just wishing it's not gonna happen
so another way to crash and burn see your personal development is just leave
it as a wish and and you'll crash you'll you'll take the leap and you'll I'll do the
sound effect again crash okay but wait Kirk the topic you said of this video
was like let's set up this great plan right let's like do this plan and how to
create your personal plan so you can be good at this
well take all six of these and do them you know don't do this alone don't do
this alone what that means is you get a mentor you put a mentor up here and
because you have a mentor you can start passing the little rope back and forth
and start passing the cables back and forth so you can start building what you
need to build to move from here to there you get a mentor somebody to work with
you you get clear about what this is you know what this is you know exactly what
you want know exactly what you begin tracking does that make sense like I
better start journaling I restarted creating tracking sheets a barrier to
start getting myself into a system and then start to report and who do you
report to you report to your mentors start building this about this rope
bridge but now you pass back and forth materials and you start to build this
solid structure that's beans and you know it's just getting nice and soft
because you're doing what it takes build a rapport and then behavior yeah
you got to look at your behavior not just your thoughts you get it like what
are you doing what do you do when you wake up what do you do in the morning
what do you do the afternoon what are you doing all day
long because somewhere there you've got to change that behavior so now you're
building this nice solid steel structure of this bridge so that when you go to
make these steps happen it's a guarantee you make that progress it guarantee now
we're going to show you got we've got the behavior you know okay I got to
change something about myself and I want this relentless want relentless like I'm
gonna do that and if I mess up I'm gonna keep going if I make a mistake I'm gonna
keep going you just build this solid bridge like you can keep passing over
this bridge over and over again then you make it but you got to do the steps that
it takes personal development has been watered down over the years and people
think that there's these easy steps to do it takes a lot of work personal
development is one of the toughest things I've ever done in my entire life
and it takes some thought to put this in order and find a mentor and describe
your goal in start journaling start tracking your behavior and start doing
these things but setting up a great personal development plan right there
let's make it super simple for you get a mentor and they'll show you how to do it
you don't have to think of how all this works don't do it alone position
yourself with a mentor and I am a mentor and if you're ready to be mentored click
the link below and this link will set you up to being connected to me and I
will mentor you I will show you the ropes I will show you how
build the structure I will show you how to do each one of these things there's a
link right here below click the link let's work together it's a group
experience you're going to learn the steps the process is the experience what
to do what not to do so that you can get from point A where you're at to really
where you wish you could be and get you up to that next level that you aren't
been trying to get to all by yourself don't do it by yourself be smart and
start out with a mentor