How to become an attractive man. So in this episode I'm going to discuss things
that you can do in your life to create an attractive lifestyle as opposed to
focusing on what to say? Where to go on the date? How to text her? When to text her back?
We're going to be looking at your life, your lifestyle. Are you leading an attractive
life where women want to be part of what you're doing. And in this episode I'm going to discuss
three things that you can do that will allow you to do that.
Now, the first one is to start reading more books.
Now, the reason why you want to do this is because it's going to add to your conversation
ammunition. And what do I mean by that? I mean your ability to continue a conversation with
women when you meet them. The more books that you read from different forms of literature,
the more things that you can talk to women about, chances are they may have read some
of the same books. If they haven't you can talk about what you found exciting about the book.
You can talk about trends in literature from the areas that you like reading. Reading also
allows you to find role models in your life. People that have done the things
that you want to achieve, they have written about how to do it. And obviously from reading as well,
it's escapism. It allows you to access a new world the author has created and when you do that you
find yourself intoxicated and in the moment. And the more you can do that, the more that you learn,
the more that you can speak to women about these things. The more charismatic you become,
the better communicator you become. The more that you do that, the more that you'll be able
to continue a conversation with women. A lot of guys really struggle off the first
two minutes of what to talk to women about and is because they have not refined the ability
to speak about the stuff that they're reading and learning in their life. So reading more books
is definitely something that you can do that will make you a much more attractive man.
The second thing that you can do is to creatively self-express. This is extremely
intoxicating to women. If you can learn how to sing, play the piano, play the guitar,
anything that you can do to self-express. For example, set up a podcast if you like speaking.
Write a blog if you like writing. Take photos if you like photography, but find a way in
your life to creatively self-express, to take a blank canvas and to paint your picture in life.
Whether that's with your voice, whether it's with drawing or writing, it doesn't matter.
The point is do something in your life which is creative. When you do that,
the energy starts to flow and you can talk to women about
why you do that. You can show them the things that you've created and that is an extremely
attractive character trait. If you think about world famous musicians, any form of artists,
women are extremely attracted to this type of character because he self-expressing,
because he's creating, he's taking a blank canvas and he's putting his views on life down onto
that canvas and that is ultra-attractive. It's something that attractive men do.
Now, the final thing that you can do to become a more confident and attractive man
is to travel more and not only travel more, but actually do more things that the culture
is known for when you go there. So when you go to new cities, go to their art galleries,
go on the walking tours, take in the experience of what it's like to live there and go there.
Again, by doing this, what you're doing is adding to your conversation ammunition. You're giving
yourself the opportunity to talk about the experiences that you've had. You can
also use this as a form of creativity because you can take the experiences that you've had
from your life when you're travelling from your creativity and you can use that to self-express
and talk about these things. You can talk about the Prado art gallery that you visited when you
were on holiday in Madrid. You can talk about what you did when you were in Stockholm. The more
you travel, the more things you see, the more many experiences that you have when you're in
these places, the more conversation ammunition it's going to give you. And also the more you
can express what you liked and disliked about the arenas in your life. This is an extremely powerful
thing that a lot of attractive guys do. So just to round up this episode, I spoke
about how you can become a much more attractive guy. And I spoke about reading to add conversation
ammunition. I spoke about travelling as a way of experiencing new things and having
different experiences to speak to women about. And finally I spoke about creative self-expression.
Now, when you're doing any of these three things to become a confident and more attractive man,
what are looking at doing is leading a lifestyle that women wants to be part of, not the lifestyle
where you're chasing women all the time. The lifestyle where you're doing what you want to
do with your life. And that means if you want to read a book for an hour, turning your phone off,
not being so responsive and reactive to girls' messaging all the time. Turning your phone off, I
am reading a book because I recognise that in the long term reading this book is going to give me
way more value to my life, to every area than just simply sit down and replying to text messages.
Taking a longer term approach to becoming a more attractive man will help you in so many different
areas of your life. Similarly with creative self-expression, just turn your phone off,
turn the Internet off, do whatever you need to do to give yourself the time to express yourself. To
get your emotions out and to feel what it's like to get it off your chest. Creation and creativity
is one of the favourite things that I do in my life. It is such an amazing experience.
And finally, by travelling, when you are going away, when you're an attractive guy
going to these different places, there are attractive women in the art galleries that
you are going to. There are attractive women that are travelling. There's also the women
that you are meeting in your life. You can invite them along to these things. If you're a musician,
you can invite them along to your gig. If you're a public speaker, you can invite them along to a
speech. If you're going on holiday, you can invite them along into your world.
The point is to become a confident and attractive man, you have to be leading
a lifestyle that women will want to be a part of. And that starts by being dynamic,
by using your time effectively and by working on your longer term ambitions in your life.