hey tech leet here and welcome back to
another episode it is coffee time with
the tech lead and I am the tech lead oh
that's so gross now we have an
interesting topic today this is going to
be about the key the secret to success
and just knowing this one secret will
help you become ultimately successful in
life you will have nothing to worry
about forever and what I'm going to do
for you is give you this secret right
here right now that secret is No what's
that sound I thought I told you to keep
it down in there you know I just made
this instant coffee do I have to do
everything myself it's going to get code
joma joma joma you need to learn to keep
your mouth shut
you know that what's poppin you know
I'll let you in on a little secret I
actually like your YouTube channel but
it's bad for business
too much competition stealing my ad
revenue stealing my sponsorships I can't
let you continue unfortunately it's time
to end this once and for all
you understand nothing personal it's
just business in fact that's a good idea
for a video topic top 10 business tips
number one don't take anything personal
number two kill the competition and we
need to go to the bathroom you're not
trying to get my channel to monetize are
you no no no I read need to go can't you
just do it here in the car away but that
would get my car dirty okay fine maybe
you could just go do it in the bushes
over there
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wait I am your father
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sweet I got a funny trick okay okay you
got me I'm not your father but I am the
tech lead not your boss now your manager
not your dad not your brother not your
sister me
I am the tech lead and there can be only
one tech leave your words have no power
over me I've quit my job I have no code
to review no designed our solar cat no
metrics to evaluate I don't need no tech
lead I am just me I am ajumma
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oh okay all right okay how did I do this
hey hey guys hey hey I just want to say
that I'm still alive so I'm I'm okay I'm
doing really okay Oh depression burnout
it's all around us you know and it's a
very serious thing our good friend Joe
MA suffered from depression and burned
out and he quit his YouTube channel
we've heard he even quit his job joema
has been suffering from severe severe
severe depression and it was something
that very few people knew about you know
this was real crisis for him and you
know we look around us we look at our
friends and everybody just says oh yeah
how are you I'm okay I'm fine and you
never really dig much deeper than that
but sometimes you ask to yourself maybe
you should show your sympathetic side
show some empathy just really look at
people and tried to figure out are they
really okay and see if you can help them
that's what they say and then we look at
Joe ma our good friend Joe Moe and he
too has been suffering from depression
and I know that they say that you're
supposed to show your humane side show
some empathy but you know what I just
can't do it this guy just doesn't
deserve it
Joe MA I mean just look at him he's a
complete douchebag he deserves
everything that he got to him and he
deserves more frankly I'm just a little
disappointed that the depression didn't
get the best of him
jung-hwan oma I have a message for you
I'm depressed too we're all depressed
everybody's depressed okay but we still
go on and we still put in our work we
still put in our daily 9:00 to 5:00 we
don't just quit our jobs you know we're
not just crybabies you look at the baby
and they're crying all the time because
they're disappointed that they didn't
get their candy you know what hey none
of us got our candy right none of us won
the lottery none of us got our perfect
lives but we still have to go through
every day and put in the hours put in
the work like responsible adults and not
just be crybabies their whole entire
lives like you okay you know I would say
that people like Joe much
we characterize the millennial
generation we're just something a little
small right some small little thing
obsessed them and then they just have to
quit their entire jobs and they just
can't handle anything in their lives
I think Millennials I think this is the
first generation that actually coined
the term burnout right before that
nobody ever got burned out put in the
work put in the time yeah you know this
isn't about empathy this is about
sympathy this is a pity party that Jonah
is trying to throw and you know what
really ticks me off about others he put
out this video about how depressed he is
oh he's so depressed he's so sad and all
the trendy youtubers are doing this
these days because this is how you can
get views you just say that you're
depressed and then you want some empathy
and that's the buzzword these days and
you know how many views his last video
got 140,000 views right 140,000 views
that's ridiculous right here I am
creating high quality content videos
about how you can be successful and see
that light of success and yet at the
same time people like John but they're
just throwing pity parties about how
depressed they are and then they're
getting way more views than me you know
what I've had it I'm depressed too okay
I'm depressed too now so can't get my
views now right can I have some empathy
oh look look look how soft and gentle I
am I'm gonna I'm a kind gentle creature
so show me some sympathy right let's
bring in the support thoughts and
prayers let's bring all of that in share
this on all the social media this get me
some real support some real people who
can help me out here I need it right I
need the views at least because that
this rate doesn't seem to make sense for
me to create any other content then
about me being depressed so that's the
announcement that I've had for you guys
my channel here on out it's just gonna
be about depression me being depressed
that's the whole thing that's the whole
show and I'm expecting views for this
okay now beyond that I want to talk to
anybody else out there who may be
depressed and I want to help make you
happier because if you're depressed then
there's too much competition for me it's
not gonna help my channel if everybody
else has been depressed too okay so here
are my top five tips about how to stop
being depressed tip number one just stop
being depressed right just just knock it
off right snap out of it
simple as that just switch it off easy
okay tip number
to just stop thinking so much just focus
on the work the day-to-day things that
you have to get done that's what
everybody else is doing right stop
thinking about yourself so much it's not
about you it's about the other people
around you it's about making some money
go to school get your good grades go to
work get your money support your family
that's what most people do these days
that's what responsible those are doing
they're not just thinking about how they
can't be an Instagram influencer and now
that their lives are ruined most people
can't okay tip number three there is no
tip number three or four or five just
get to work now I have a special message
for you Gemma I'm depressed I'm
depressed because the prescient did not
and you I'm going to come and personally
finish it off for you I will hunt you
down and I will give you so many
technical interviews you're going to go
back into depression you're going to get
so depressed that you can't pass any of
the technical interviews I'm throwing at
you you're going to get tons of dynamic
programming problems np-complete
problems that have no solutions but I
just want to see how far you can get
tons of brain teasers like why are
manhole covers round or how do you climb
Mount Fuji how many gas stations are
there in the United States you're gonna
get so many of these you're gonna get so
burned out you're gonna get back in the
depression I'm gonna make sure you stay
there that's the thing with these stupid
data scientists they're so ridiculous
you know data scientist snipe in the job
you know the fact is we're all depressed
everybody's depressed but only one
person can be crying at a time right so
if you decide to start crying everybody
has to pay attention to you and make
sure you're okay everybody else probably
has far bigger problems than you
everybody else really wants to cry too
but they're holding that back such that
they can help make you feel better you
know this is just completely selfish
unproductive behavior hundred percent
loss in efficiency you lose the whole
day now you go around telling people
this like I'm sad I'm so sad it's like
what do you have to be sad about right
your life is better than 99% of other
people let's take a look at what you've
got going for you you you're fairly
healthy you're young you're working in a
nice tech company right what's wrong
with all that and then you look at other
people some starving boy in Afghanistan
who's going around in the war field this
leg is half blown off starving that kid
okay
that kid is depressed and that kid is
who deserves sympathy who deserves a
little bit of empathy my heart goes out
to that kid for someone like Joma
what why would I help him why show
sympathy for this guy you know he
doesn't deserve it in fact if anything
he deserves more depression not less
right let's make him sadder there's
nobody else agree with me reckon nobody
see my point anyway they'll do for me
share my recommendations number one if
you're sad
stop being sad okay that easy number two
it's my turn to be sad they'll do it for
me and I'll see you next time and by the
way I did not quit my job because I
actually have to be responsible