(upbeat hip-hop music)
- I'ma take a shot you start telling me things.
(laughter)
- No!
(laughter)
- 'Bout time 'cause I'm over here cross-eyed!
(glass slams)
- Thank God for Uber.
(laughs)
- We're Ty. Ty and Ty.
I'm the mother and she's the daughter.
- I'm Jon.
This is my mom, Sharon.
- My name is Andrea.
This is my mother.
(cheerful sound)
- Today, we are playing "My First Time".
(upbeat hip-hop music)
- We are close.
We talk pretty much everyday.
You are sometimes the thorn in my freaking side.
That's how close we are.
- Okay.
- We're pretty tight.
- I will talk to my mom about a lot,
but some stuff belongs with me,
so she can't get everything.
She get a lot, though.
- There are some things
that I absolutely will not tell Jonathon.
- We have grown up together.
I had her when I was 18 years old.
- It was cool.
I spent a lot of time with my grandma
'cause she was being a young person.
(laughs)
Doing young people things.
- Don't make it sound like I was out here in the streets!
I was at school!
I feel like our relationship is better than the relationship
that I have with my own mom.
She still likes to hang out with me,
which is like, "Wow!"
- She's like a homegirl.
- When Tyana was born, it was Friday the 13th.
(dramatic music)
- She came out like, "I'm ready for the world!"
Like, "I'm here, world!"
But-
- Sounds like me.
- I don't feel like anything's off limits.
- You can ask me,
but now am I gonna say,
"This is exactly what happened"?
- No.
- Uh, yeah. You'll probably... Yeah.
- Yeah.
- What else is off limits?
- I don't like talking about sex with you, ever.
- [Producer] Are you aware of what game you're playing?
(laughs)
- Who goes first?
- I don't know.
Can we take a shot, though?
(upbeat hip-hop music pauses)
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(smacks tongue)
- That's a big shot!
- Ooh!
(upbeat music)
- The questions says, "My first time having sex."
(clock ticking)
- I'll just go take the shots.
(both laugh)
- [Tyana] Gonna take the shots!
- Oh my God!
(laughs)
- She don't deserve to know the age.
(sighs)
- Mm, the best kept secret is the one you keep to yourself.
- I was going to FIDM, and there was this dude,
and I didn't even like him, it was weird.
I was like, "I guess."
I just wanna get through with this, I guess,
(laughs)
because I was like, the only person
that kinda just hadn't done it or whatever.
- Oh!
- He was weird.
I found out later he lived on Venice Beach,
which is really gross,
and I wish I had known!
- He was homeless, Andrea?
- Yes! (laughs)
Sorry, I didn't know he was homeless!
(upbeat music continues)
- My first time getting drunk.
I didn't really like to drink at first.
- I was a late getting drunk.
- 23, maybe?
- That's so old!
(both laugh)
- So we were celebrating my 35th birthday.
Man, it was blue tequila that took me down.
- I think I told you.
I went to the Bay area, we were playing a game.
It's like, drink if this happened,
but I was drinking like, just knocking them back.
- I had a hangover for like, three days.
- I'm like, I can't see!
(laughs) - I'm like,
everything looks crazy!
Somebody said something really funny
and I peed on myself.
I'll never do it again.
Well, actually, I probably will, but...
(laughs)
(upbeat music)
- My first time telling a serious lie to my child or mother.
(laughs)
- What happened to Sting?
- I told you the truth!
I accidentally threw him away 'cause he was so beat up!
- Dang, have I ever lied to you?
I don't think I've ever lied to you in my life.
(laughs)
- Come on!
- You sure it was a accident?
- Yeah, I just...
You know what I said?
"Oh God, he ain't gonna play with him no more."
He all tore up and everything,
so I just threw him in the trash.
And he cost so much money to replace.
$300 for a stuffed wrestling buddy, though?
I'm sorry.
- I'm just gonna say no, 'cause I can't think of one.
I'm just gonna take a shot.
- [Andrea] Just go on 'head!
Taking them shots real slow.
- Let me get it however I can get it.
- Even when I got arrested, I told you.
- You eventually told me.
- I didn't tell you like, for a day!
- Yeah, I didn't know you spent a whole day in jail.
- Okay.
I guess that's my first serious lie.
- [Producer] I'm calling it.
You have to take a shot.
(laughs)
- They're not impressed, they're not impressed!
(laughs)
- I wasn't even your number one call.
You didn't even call me to come and get you.
(laughs)
- They took my phone.
- Oh.
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- My first time, ooh, experimenting with drugs.
I was dating this guy, it was my first and my last time.
I did
try
powder cocaine.
(record scratches)
(crowd gasps)
- 14.
- And what did you do at 14?
What was that, weed?
- Yeah!
- Oh, okay.
- I guess if you count weed as a drug,
my first time experimenting it was when I tripped out
at school that one time.
- That was crazy.
- I was higher than giraffe ass.
- Okay.
- Second time, I-
- Second time?
- Yeah.
- What?
- It was like, a edible or whatever!
- What happened? Was your nose burning?
- No, it was just a little bit of it!
- I'm talking about the cocaine!
- Yes it was, actually!
It was.
- Ew! Oh my God!
- And it wasn't for me!
(upbeat music continues)
- My...
Ooh!
My first time getting caught having sex.
(laughs)
- I definitely was...
- Just take the shot, Mom!
(both laugh)
- You don't have to tell me!
- Never. Never ever.
- I don't know about that, player!
(both laugh)
- I got you twice!
- Really?
- I'ma take a shot you start telling me things.
(Tysonia laughs)
- I was spared.
(glass slams)
- This was high school?
Well, he had drove us to Dockweiler Beach
and we was in the van and then the popos came
and knocked on the window - Ooh!
and shined the light in there.
And we coulda went to jail.
- First time was on Normandy.
You and Dad was in the, you know...
Then the second time was on Osage,
on the couch, you and him again.
(laughs)
- Oh, wow! - Busted.
You might need to go on and take that Jack and honey.
- I don't think so.
- [Producer] Yep.
- Aw, come on, y'all!
(both laugh)
(glass slams)
(upbeat music continues)
- My first time I knew I'd upset my mother.
- I think I have a answer for that,
but I can't answer 'cause it's you.
- When I stole-
- Yes. No. No! Well...
- What?
- I don't feel like there's no first time.
I upset you everyday.
- Low-key, you do, actually.
(laughs)
- I'm like, I don't remember the first time.
- Maybe in the fifth grade,
when I got suspended the same day
as parent-teacher conference for fighting.
(bell dings)
- I don't know if I would agree with that.
- Okay.
- When you ate the damn brownie at school!
- Oh!
- I think that was my biggest disappointment
in you at that time.
- I think it's when I was a kid
and you beat me in the middle of the street.
(laughs)
- I don't even remember that!
- I said something, probably like, you didn't like.
You was already pissed off at me.
You stopped the Land Rover in the middle of the streets.
And you turned around,
and you started beating me
like crazy!
- Oh, it must've been something...
I mean, okay.
So, that sounds like something I would do,
but I don't even know what you did.
Like, it had-
- It don't matter, you did it.
- It would've have had
to be something - You the culprit.
like really, really bad.
You the culprit.
- Okay.
(relaxing music)
- My first time having a one night stand.
- Yo, that's a good one!
(laughs)
Time is a-ticking.
(clock ticking)
- Never.
Bottoms up!
(relaxing music continues)
- 20, maybe 21.
I was with Ed at that time, I was in a relationship, so.
22?
- [Producer] Wait, so you cheated?
(record scratches)
(laughs)
- Horrible!
(relaxing music continues)
- My first time sneaking out.
I'ma say 11?
- So you was at Uncle Jerry house?
- You know, I will forever not tell,
disclose, (laughs)
what house I was at.
It said first time sneaking out,
so I gave you the age.
I was 11.
- I was 14 and there was this boy that was next door,
that lived next door.
His name was Cooter and he had a scooter.
- Cooter and he had scooter!
(laughs)
- I can't even make this crap up, I swear.
- I've never had to sneak out.
- No.
- I don't think I could ever really sneak out anyway.
Like, you could turn your head and the door is right there.
(Nicole laughs)
- And I snuck out, kind of like,
went to the back alleyway.
- And did what?
- You know, cuddled.
(laugh)
- In the alley, with the rocks and the rats?
Like, what is you doing?
- In the back alleyway. (laughs)
A little touching.
Possibly a little kissing.
- I would've been like, "No."
(both laugh)
- Where did you go?
- I was doing hood rat things with my hood rat friends.
- Okay, okay. All right. - Yeah.
- [Producer] After what you've learned about your mother,
what are your thoughts?
- I like our relationship with the boundaries.
You too open.
(laughs)
- Somethings, like he said, would be between him and Jesus,
so I have to respect that.
- We are open books, and I think it has something to do
with the fact that we're so close in age.
- Yeah.
- But we gon' win, we gon' win!
- That was one shot.
- I feel like taking this one just because.
Let's take a final, come on!
(upbeat music)
- Knew that was coming. - We knew we had it.
We are open, we are open book.
- Apparently lost today, but it's all right
because there's no such thing as losers,
there's only winners.
And there's less winners and more winners.
And I just happen to be in the less winners pile.
- You know, it's still all good.
You guys have given me too much to drink.
- [Producer] And how do you feel right now?
(laughs)
- I'm happy!
(both laugh)
- I have built this wonderful relationship
with my daughter intentionally.
- Mm-hmm.
- And I think that that is why we won this game.
(upbeat music)