And I think I'm bisexual.
I'm trans.
I'm gay.
-I'm bisexual. -I'm gay.
I think I'm...
a...sexual.
I do drink red wine.
But I also drink white wine.
I am a gay man!
You stopped coming to the window.
Yeah.
I did.
What did I do wrong?
You bullied me for years, Adam.
You made me feel unsafe for years.
You were one of the main reasons I wasn't kind to myself.
And I'm supposed to believe that you've suddenly changed?
You're full of shame, man.
And I can't be in that place any more.
I've had to work really hard to love myself
and I won't go back to hiding things about me again.
I'm scared.
And I think I'm bisexual.
Are you all right?
You can't even hold my hand.
Rahim can hold my hand.
I feel like everyone hates me.
It's kind of hard to like someone who doesn't like themselves.
Do you remember what I said about Click's class?
About me being jealous, and like, obsessed.
Yeah.
It isn't because I had a crush on you.
It's because...
she wouldn't stop staring at you.
Mrs Click?
Tammy Thompson.
I wanted her to look at me.
But...
she couldn't pull her eyes away from you and your...
stupid hair.
And I didn’t understand, because you would get bagel crumbs
all over the floor.
And you asked dumb questions.
And you were a douchebag.
And you didn't even like her.
And I would go home...
and just scream into my pillow.
But Tammy Thompson's a girl.
Steve.
Yeah?
Oh.
Holy shit.
Yeah.
Holy shit.
I might get married to a man, like you so clearly want,
and I might not.
Because this is not a phase and I need you to understand that.
I'm bisexual.
There's no such thing as being bisexual.
Yes there is.
I know there is because that's who I am.
I'm attracted to both men and women.
I've known this about myself for a really long time
and I didn't want to tell you because I was afraid
you were going to react exactly like you are.
What do you want us to say?
That you accept me for who I am.
Wow.
OK, let's go.
I'm trans.
OK.
I know I should have told you,
but I didn't expect things to go this far.
This is all new to me. I don't even understand the app.
Got it.
Shit. I feel so stupid.
It’s like being in middle school again or something.
I should probably go.
Don't.
I mean, you can stay.
If you want.
I'm into you.
And we can do whatever.
So is she your girlfriend now?
Jesus, Sam! Warn a person!
That I'm sitting on the couch?
OK. I'm sitting on the couch.
So are you a couple?
I am not having this conversation with you ever.
But...
I mean...
If we were, would that...
be a problem with you?
What? No, why?
You'd be like Sphen and Magic.
Who?
Sphen and Magic.
The two male gentoo penguins at the Sea Life Sydney Aquarium.
They courted each other and built a nest.
Cuties.
When a negligent heterosexual penguin pair
left their egg exposed to the elements,
the aquarium staff gave it to Sphen and Magic.
They have a baby now.
It’s name is Sphengic.
Look at him.
Hello, you.
I think they could have done better with the name.
Isn't your penguin named Stumpy?
Exactly. Something good.
Thanks.
For what?
For not being weird about this.
Or...being weird, but in your own way.
You're welcome.
Now, can you please leave me alone, I'm kind of busy.
I'm gay.
And that might mean you're going to send me to a conversion camp
or pretend that I died of a brain tumour,
or make we watch Wedding Crashers.
Woah, hold your horses, son.
-I already knew you were gay. -You did?
I know who you are, Matthew.
I drove you to tap classes.
Oh! But Mum said not to tell you.
Well, she worries about you
and she might need more time to wrap her head around this.
-I don’t know, I-- -It's OK, son.
We'll figure this out.
Just like the Tanners had to figure out the bedroom assignments
when Kimmy Gibbler moved in!
I think your dad might be done with this conversation.
I love that reboot.
-You did it, Sue! -Wow!
No way Coach Craven doesn't let you on the team now.
Actually guys, it's Theo now.
-Theo? -Yeah.
Sounds good!
You're so lucky, you have a perfect family.
We are not perfect.
Yeah, you are.
It's not like you have a huge lie threatening to tear everyone apart.
Actually I do.
Oh my God. Do they now know you switched to AP Latin?
They don't know...
that I'm gay.
What?
I'm gay.
I'm sorry that I didn't tell you sooner,
I honestly just realised.
Don't you dare apologise to me.
Really?
I love this for you.
And I love this for me. Finally, a gay friend.
It really fits my brand as a theatre wench.
Wow.
That felt so great to say.
I feel like I just solved
an escape room I've been trapped in my entire life.
I don't know that I loved her.
I don't think I'm allowed to be in love.
Don't say that.
You do so much for everybody and all you ever asked for
was a roof over your head
and the occasional s'more and a baguette.
I'm telling you, it's a million-dollar idea.
I got more of you than I ever deserved.
If you never talk to me again,
I just want you to know that I appreciate it.
And I appreciate you.
Thanks.
It was shitty what you did with Emily,
but...
I think I'm...
a...sexual.
A sexual what?
Dynamo? Deviant?
Harassment lawsuit waiting to happen?
No, asexual.
Not sexual.
Oh!
I'm sure you think that's weird.
Are you kidding? That's amazing!
Sometimes I wish I was asexual.
Maybe then I wouldn't have 'A' strain of herpes.
- You have multiple strains. - I know I have multiple strains.
But the joke only works with the 'A'.
It actually feels nice to finally say it out loud.
I am an asexual person.
-I am asexual. -That's great.
I...have something that I want to say.
I'm glad that you're proud of me.
But I don't want to lie any more.
Being a part of...the Glee Club and football,
has really shown me that I can be anything.
And...what I am...
is...
I'm gay.
I know.
-Really? -I've known since you were three.
All you wanted for your birthday was a pair of sensible heels.
I guess I'm not totally in love with the idea, but...
if that's who you are,
nothing I can do about it.
And I love you just as much.
OK?
Just to be clear, I'm a red wine drinker.
-That's fine. -OK, cool.
But I only drink red wine.
OK.
And up until last night,
I was under the impression that you too only drank red wine.
But I guess I was wrong?
I see where you're going with this.
I do drink red wine.
But I also drink white wine.
And I've been known to sample the occasional rose.
I kept who I was quiet from my parents for a long time.
I would wait until they went to sleep
and put on my face and finery
and sneak out to the balls.
Sneak back before they woke up.
I thought I was so smart.
Oh, then on Thanksgiving, I will never forget.
My mother kept looking and grinning
and kept looking away,
so finally I said,
"Mother, what in the world are you grinning about?"
You know what she said?
She said, "You think you're so clever.
I see that little young girl who runs in and out of your room,
sneaks in and out of your room in the dark of the night."
I gagged.
I was too stunned to speak!
So she went on to say how she wasn't mad,
and she was just so relieved I wasn't one of those sinful gays.
What did you do?
I said, "Mother...
that was no strange woman sneaking through your halls.
That was me.
I am not gay and I am certainly not sinful.
What I am is a woman, Mother."
I've never been as scared as I am right now.
All of my life...
I've had to pretend to be something I wasn't.
And to become what I wanted to become...
I couldn't be what I am.
I am a gay man.
I've never said the words in public before.
I am a gay man!
Why did I have to be so afraid to say that?
Because I know that people
are afraid of people that are different from them.
And admitting that I am different,
and refusing to pretend to be something I am not
may cost me a career of pretending to be things that I am not,
which is kind of crazy when you think about it.
But I did.
I did.
For years, I was living inside the fake world of a movie set.
Never daring to imagine that one day...
I might be brave enough...
to do something like this.