Ready for positive change?
I've got the steps for you.
And wow, if you could do 2 of these, you are going to get that positive change.
Time to talk about how to create a positive change in your life that's really going to
last.
You know how many times you've attempted to make changes and it doesn't stick.
Well, the reason why it doesn't stick is because you're only trained from one angle.
If you want to make a change, you got to come at your brain from at least 4 different angles.
4 different ways that's going to change behavior.
But 1 direction?
I don't know.
When I learned about the brain is that the brain demands evidence.
The brain demands that you convince it that it really should change.
So, when you show up in your life in 4 different areas with some small improvements, you're
going to get the attention of your brain to start to pay attention.
Did I just said that?
Get your brain's attention to pay attention?
That's what you're actually doing as you're trying to get this...
All these old habits in your head for your brain to pay attention to these new habits.
So, I think there's 4 different ways that you can make changes that are really pretty
simple.
And their really doable and you could start these today.
Like the first one.
Check this out.
This one is a blast.
It's a music list.
It's time for you to get a really good healthy motivating music list.
Now, when I say, healthy and motivating, I'm mainly talking about the lyrics of the song.
If you're listening to songs that have to do with break ups and loss and mean people
and terrible things that have happened...
Well, those kind of stories get inside your head.
What you want to do is you want to create a list of songs.
Like 20 of your favorite songs that have great lyrics that literally are going to move you
and motivate you because of the lyrics.
Now, music motivates you.
But you want to be super careful about the lyrics.
Go look up the lyrics online.
Read the lyrics.
Read all the lyrics and make sure that message is motivating and encouraging you to be a
better person.
Because today, there's songs out there that are about manipulation and trickery and hurt
and abuse and taking advantage of people.
A lot of songs that sound good are not good.
All you got to do is check the lyrics.
But of you were to compile a list of 10 maybe even 20 songs that have great lyrics, you're
going to notice with this one section is going to help you change your life.
Because music moves the people.
Okay, second.
If you want to change your life in a really big way, start writing yourself a personal
story of where you want to go in your life.
Tough to get somewhere when you don't have a plan.
Now, this is not really goal setting.
What this is...
This is story telling.
Inside your head, there is a story department about you.
And it's got this locked down story about who you are, what you can do, what you can't
do, what you shouldn't do.
And it's got all this things mixed in to your this particular department inside your head.
What it needs is it needs an upgrade.
Because if you have not written a story about where you're going in your life, you are still
functioning off of all the clutter that is in your head about you in your life.
And it's got pieces and parts of all kinds of thoughts that it's just kind of a mess.
So, get in to that part of your head, write yourself a new story about what you wish could
happen in your life.
Now, a good personal story, a really good one is going to be like a full page.
I know.
Top to bottom.
A nice full page.
But wow, you could write the front and back of the page.
That's a game changer.
That's a lot to talk about.
That's a lot of details to put in there.
But it is one of the important components that we must do if we want to get control
of what's going on in our head so we can make a better positive change in our life.
Next, what I have here for you is clean up your language.
You know, somebody who has sloppy language is going to have a sloppy life.
Somebody who has negative language is going to have a negative life.
Somebody who has scared language is going to have scared life.
I mean it just matches.
The way we speak, the kind of words we use literally points us into living that way.
Now how does that happen?
You know, how does that actually happen?
Well, the way we speak attracts people who also think and speak the same way.
It's like we are actually grouped with people based upon the way we talk and how we talk.
You know?
So, if I speak positive and I'm hopeful and I love thinking about what I can build and
create, well then what's going to happen people who like to build and create and are hopeful
are going to gather and be around me.
So, I actually choose the kind of people I'm hanging around with by the kind of language
I use.
So, you might want to check in and see how much of what comes out of your mouth is negative.
You know?
How much what comes out your mouth is positive?
You know?
Are you hopeful or doubtful?
And if you want to up your game and prove your life, you know being around great people
guarantees you're going to have great life too.
So, clean up your language.
But at prior first means pay attention to what's coming out of your mouth.
Now, you have 2 languages.
First language is what comes out of your mouth.
Second language is what's going on the inside of your head.
So, when you're not talking, what's that language like inside your head?
What's going on in here?
Are you hopeful?
Are you positive?
Are you believing?
Are you building a life?
Are you organizing your life?
Or are you inside your head saying negative things about yourself?
Hurtful things.
What if your inside your head and you're saying hurtful things about other people?
Well, sooner or later all that negative stuff and hurtful things in your head, it's going
to create a hurtful life.
It really does.
What goes on in here, what comes out in here gathers those kind of people.
And that's what you get.
That what you get to live with.
So, you got one language here and the other language here.
But start here.
What can you change about what comes out of your mouth?
And you've heard this before.
If you can't say something nice, then shut your trap.
Maybe that's not what you've heard.
You've probably heard of "Shut your mouth or be quiet."
But if you can't say something nice, then just literally shut your mouth.
You need to shut your mouth and stop that language from even coming out of your mouth.
That's if you want to have a positive change in your life.
This is what's required.
Little bit of music, write yourself a story, clean up your language.
The last one is...
You know, the way in which you treat people.
This one right here says, higher purpose serve.
Live a higher purpose.
Find ways to serve people.
You can go down to the local organization who helps serve groups of people.
There's all kinds of different organizations in the world who provide great service.
And that's a great place for you to start.
You could care for your neighbor.
Do something nice for your neighbor.
Maybe bring the trash can in for your neighbor.
Surprise them.
Do little service there.
But one of the parts that can really make a big difference along with the other 3 is
to really serve a higher purpose by getting in to service.
The more people you help, the more the help comes back to you.
What goes out, comes around and it comes back to you.
It's Karma.
You know, It's you got good karma or bad karma.
And so, I hope you can turn it into a person who's putting out the good karma.
Meaning literally doing acts of service for others.
And here's something to think about.
The higher the level of service you give to others, guess where you're at?
You're at a higher level.
So, if you give low level of service well then you're in the low level.
Does that make sense?
It's like, you want to change your life and improve your life.
What are you doing to serve people and help people?
How do you help people?
How do you motivate and encourage and inspire people around you?
So the higher the level the purpose you live, you just took yourself there.
You just moved yourself there.
And that just change your life.
I love this 4.
These are all doable.
You can find some music.
You can write a story.
You can clean up your language.
You can find somebody.
Help them, serve them.
Now, you can do all 4 or you could just start with one.
But start with at least one.
Because it's time for you to make a positive change in your life.
And every single one of these are doable.
But now you know what it takes.
And if you do one plus another one.
Oh!
That helps your mind begin to change.
But to add the 3rd one and the 4th one, it's a done deal.
You are on your path to improving your life for a positive change.
Positive change?
So doable for you.
It's so doable.
Now, sometimes when you go to make these positive change is what would be helpful is to have
a mentor.
Now, I've got 2 options for you.
Number 1, I have a monthly mentoring subscription where you can be a part of this and I can
coach and mentor you.
Literally every month of where to focus, what to do and how to get yourself to move forward.
Second part is I got an online program about how to manage the thoughts in your head so
you're not beating yourself up and tearing yourself down.
And I've got both links here below.
Choose one.
I think either one of them would be a great option for you in moving forward and making
a big difference in your life.