Hey guys,
in order to make these seven juicy ways
to make a woman obsessed with you
and think about you all the time,
you need to focus on
playfulness and keeping the tension alive
constantly crave you
she'll be the one wondering
if she's good enough for you.
And when you're in the driver's seat
it's much easier to teach her
how to treat you.
So, instead of acting like a spoiled princess
who's high maintenance
she'll be treating you like a king
and looking for ways to please you.
This is actually
good for both of you,
which I'll explain.
Welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
Okay, so some of these
juicy tips for how to get a woman obsessed with you
and thinking about you all the time
have a little bit of overlap.
And some of them are juicier than others
so I’m going to save the juiciest for last
because it's a little NC-17.
Let's see how one relates to the next.
Seven, validate yourself.
Stop trying to get
her validation and instead,
validate yourself.
As I said in my video,
two weird ways
to get a woman hooked on you
your attitude is that
you are the prize
you've got to have that mindset.
And even though
you're obviously attracted to her
otherwise, you wouldn't be engaging with her
she is under review by you.
Because when her good looks
and personality
don't automatically win you over
she will be pulling out the seduction tactics
to try to get you interested.
She might be wearing more provocative
clothing around you
or playing with her hair around you,
wearing more makeup
or paying more attention to her style, her hair,
her presentation.
Giggling more around you
or laughing more around you.
Number six, challenge her.
When you challenge her
to meet your expectations and standards
she'll know she doesn't automatically
meet your expectations and standards
and she'll try harder
to prove that she does.
And whenever we try hard to prove something
we tend to stick
with our choice in that thing.
So, if she's chasing you
and she catches you
win-win she'll feel like she's won
the high value man.
She knows
that high value men
are discerning because
high value men have options.
Five, tease her.
When you tease her
in a playful lighthearted way
and make her laugh
her body releases
feel-good endorphins
that she associates with being with you.
And when you tease her in a way
that's playful
and maybe a little bit outrageous
but fun she will think about it later
she will think about you later
and relive that experience.
Getting in her head
is one of the best ways
to get a woman obsessed with you
and it makes her crave
spending more time alone with you.
Four, use animation.
Animated me Anna,
made it I get it.
Anyway okay,
so a lot of you said you really like that
I’m expressive.
Part of the reason I can be expressive
is because I don't use botox
though I might one day.
So, don't hold me to that but for now
I’m okay with moving my face.
But it's also a good thing
if you can move your face.
Here's why,
when you are not self-conscious
in your expressiveness
that shows that you're not self-conscious.
It shows that
you don't mind the world seeing who you are
and you don't mind her seeing who you are.
But using animation
helps amplify your personality
and takes her on a little carnival
ride of motions.
Now, animation doesn't have to be exaggerated
if that's not your personality.
But if you can take her
on a little roller coaster ride of emotions
that's going to stimulate her,
women need to be stimulated
not just physically.
But if you want to get to the physical part
you're going to need to stimulate her
emotionally and mentally.
Remember, women
are more emotional than men
and we also need a little bit more
stimulation than men.
So, if you can be the one
to provide that stimulation
then she's not going to be getting with bored panda.
Again, she'll be thinking about you.
Three, keep her guessing.
Wingmam motto
always leave them wanting more.
Now, this means you have to give them enough
to tease their taste
like an appetizer.
But you don't want to give them too much
that they're full and don't want more thank you so much.
Never mind the naughty in that one,
that's for later how to do this.
Well, doing your own thing
and not always being available
in person or by text
makes you intriguing.
When you're out doing your own thing in the world
not only are you more interesting
because you have a life.
But key point,
she is also going to be a little concerned
that you might be meeting
other women in the world
who will want you.
What did we learn in my video,
on instant turn offs?
That when there is perceived competition
that automatically
increases your value in her eyes.
When you are out doing your own thing sometimes
and not smothering her
or chasing her like
every other needy guy
she's going to wonder a little bit
if you are really that interested in her,
which is going to make her
more obsessed with you
and more likely to chase you.
What have we learned?
Women are more attracted to men
whose feelings about them are unclear.
Along those lines
the next juicy way to get a woman
obsessed with you
and thinking about you all the time is,
touch and retract.
Breaking the touch barrier
falls into the intimacy category.
So, you're going to want to make sure you touch her
in a way that you wouldn't want
your best bro to be touching her.
But to keep yourself
out of a me too situation
you want to be touching her in a safe way
like maybe how you might touch your grandmother.
So, rule of thumb
touch her often
and touch her early.
But then retract
from touching her wait to see
if she touches you back.
Like for example, if you're telling her a story
and you want to emphasize
a key point in the story
you might reach out and touch her on the arm
to get her attention
to that part of the story.
Seems innocent but never is.
Then you go back into teasing
by saying I don't know if you want to hear this part of the story
and then she might reach out
and touch you saying no, tell me, tell me.
Now, if you want to know more about touching
I've done a video on how to touch her
with some examples.
And I've also done a video
on how to tease her effectively
with examples I'll link those at the end.
Now, the juiciest
not quite the juiciest
the second juiciest I’m going to give you
a bonus juicy tip.
Just the tip
to getting her obsessed with you
and thinking about you all the time
is to rom-com kiss her.
Now, in my video
on how to kiss a girl so she wants more,
I give you the step by step
for how to do this.
But women love rom-com movies
right we're chick flicks for a reason
and part of that is the rom-com kiss.
When you kiss her like I show you how...
No, I don't show you well, like I describe
how to in that video.
She's going to be obsessed with you
and thinking about you and craving you
and craving more,
once you get past the rom-com kiss and she is
wanting more right now
thank you very much
then you're going to continue
to touch and retract
and get her to be the one pursuing you and...
Trying to get more out of you basically.
Got to keep it pg-13,
otherwise I get flagged.
But basically,
you start the temptation,
you lead with passion,
and then you pull back
to make her come to you.
So, if you want to know how to kiss a girl
on how to kiss a girl.
And if you're already a stellar kisser
good for you high five
that's ten, hi ten.
You might also want to watch my video,
on this one little word
that works wonders
on 99% of women
to make them want you more.
Because when you say
this little word the right way
she will be chasing you
and trying to impress you.
So, you'll want to use this little word
to get her
and then you'll want to continue
using this little word
to keep her.
If you want to know what it is
and how to use it
check out this video now.
Thanks for being here, God bless.
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