this video I'm gonna be sharing with you the danger of faking it till you make it
I'm gonna show you a more powerful way to go about it so that things happen
easier than ever welcome back to another video my name's Erin and I help people
expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you the
danger of faking it till you make it understanding this concept that with the
law of attraction many people here and it's kind of like been thrown around a
lot it is something maybe you've even heard me say in a certain way but
there's a context underneath it that must be understood otherwise we go about
it in a very resistant type way so first off where does this notion come from it
comes from a understanding of what is called acting as if so we have something
we want to experience in our life we don't currently have it so what we do is
we act as if we already do have it which then sinks us up to that vibrational
reality where that is the case so for example you could say well I am
currently not at the right body weight that I want to be yet so I'm going to
act as if I am and I'd imagine the best version of myself eats healthy goes to
the gym does certain things so you go do those things or it could be that you
want to be financially successful so you act as if you are financed financially
successful what you might do is you might study the markets you might invest
your money you might do different things that align you to the reality where you
are the version of you that is abundant and living with that financial success
now just this alone there isn't anything wrong with it and with everything also
understand that everything in life is a half-truth which means it works from a
certain perspective however there's this resistance that comes under it when
people say you must fake it till you make it now let's look at that term and
let's look at why that may be something that causes a bunch of resistance faking
it until you make it at the same time is implying that you are already not good
enough you aren't good enough therefore if you can be and do something else then
you will be more worthy you will be even better so faking
it until you make it is causing resistance because then we assume that
where we are isn't already good halt and complete so the alternative to this
would be being real and authentic understanding that maybe the facade that
we have been the person we have been hasn't been as authentic as we could be
so it's redefining the way that we see that of being fake or authentic now it
doesn't mean that where we currently are is wrong doesn't mean we need to feel
resistance it means we accept what we currently and how we currently are we
accept it however we are also aware of the different layers of social
conditioning caring what people think because that's not really who we are if
we're doing something to make someone else happy that's not even really who we
are anyways that is us playing according to everyone else's rules everyone else's
expectations now there was a book that was written by dr. Joe Dispenza which is
called how to break the habit of being yourself and when I first saw this book
title I was at the sauna at the gym someone had it and I remember thinking
that doesn't sound like something I'd want to read why would you want to break
the habit of being yourself however what he shows in the book is that who we
think we are is a combination of how we think act and feel this is our vibration
now what happens is we put on this facade we have these layers of
inauthenticity that we are remaining consistent to because the subconscious
mind will always do what it can to be consistent to the way that it sees
itself and because of that if we remain in the bubble of the way we see
ourselves we'll always experience that over and over and over again but you see
you are an infinite being even though you think you might say to yourself oh I
can make that of $100,000 per year you're capable of way more than that
it's about awareness the more aware you are the more you see that there's more
potential for you there's more things that you can't accomplish but if you
don't have the awareness of how to make more than $100,000 per year you want to
experience a reality that is equal to that notion in that perspective but say
start getting within the vibrational vicinity of other people that are making
more than that per year say you start reading books that don't give you
processes for you to make more than that per year so you start listening to
podcasts so you have something you're seeing something you're hearing
something you're experiencing of the potential of you being able to do that
that will then start to break apart the current belief system of your identity
then you'll see what is actually possible for you so for this process it
goes beyond that of faking it till you make it because you realize that who you
think you are isn't the full potential of who you are because you are an
infinite beam however the key to this is understanding the acceptance of where
you currently are accepted say yes to the present moment because if you're
faking it till you make it you aren't saying yes to right now you're saying
let me do something else now of course at a certain level certain things that
have been comfortable the idea is that we say well that's not comfortable
doesn't mean that's not who you are it just means that's not under the prior
reference experiences that you've had so for example if we always stay within a
certain bubble of that self-identity and we don't branch out I always use the
analogy as a gym because it's the easiest to really understand and what do
you think of it like say well what's comfortable for me is eating the kind of
food that I eat it's not going to the gym it's sitting at home and staying in
my house these are all really comfortable to me well it's not
necessarily faking it till you make it but it's realizing that the reason you
might be afraid to go to the gym is because you're in authentically thinking
and caring what other people think of you I have a buddy that's overweight and
he doesn't want to go to the gym because he's afraid of what he'll be that guy on
the treadmill or on the elliptical but in actuality that's not really even him
that's him caring about everything else that's these layers of social
conditioning the key to this is being aware of who is who you really are and
by being aware of who you really are you can then see that you can let go just
what doesn't serve now something else I want to talk about in this video that
I've been thinking about lately is understanding that
if there's something you want to experience in your life and you're
having a rough time knowing that you can do it simply find other people that have
done it and read their stories read their biographies read their
autobiographies read the or watch their YouTube videos because when you see
someone that has accomplished something that you priorly thought you couldn't do
it breaks apart the beliefs in your mind and it shows you what is possible that
dr. Joe Dispenza guy has a whole book called becoming supernatural and a lot
of it is just stories of people that haven't had these impossible things for
it to happen like for example they'd have maybe told you're gonna die
terminal whatever cancer there's no way that you're gonna live from doctors
that's what they told this person and yet they chose not to believe it and
they went beyond the ordinary beyond the natural supernatural and what they did
is they they primed in and wired in that they could do it and somehow they were
able to do it they were able to do things that were probably impossible now
when you may have some type of health issue or something and you see someone
else that's done it just simply seeing them that's done it will start to break
apart your own belief system because then you see oh if they can do it then
maybe I can too so part of faking it till you make it is
understanding that a lot of who we think we are is just habitual eyes thought
patterns over and over again and the key is then looking to our beliefs about
what we believe about ourselves and a lot of times why have beliefs that
doesn't serve us why believes that say though it's very important what people
think of me well I'm not gonna go to the gym because they're gonna be staring at
me well that's not even really you that's the belief system of maybe
something that you've even acquired from that of someone else in your life maybe
your parents felt the same way they were afraid to go to the gym now you think oh
well I'm afraid to go to gym but it was just an unconscious pattern that you
picked up along the way but by you becoming aware of it you then start to
take your power back and the key to this is understanding your beliefs creates
your reality you will always experience a reality that's equal to how you think
act and feel and your beliefs are what perpetuates a mirror
in your life if you believe that you're worthy you will have more and more
people show you and reflect that you are worthy back to you if you believe that
you are able to make a lot of money and money comes easily then that belief will
be mirrored back to if you believe that you're lucky then you will experience a
reality that is equal to that level of luck so what are your beliefs I don't
know I'm not telling you all so just so you know I'm not telling you to pile on
new beliefs what I'm saying is just let go of what doesn't serve because when
you let go of beliefs that don't serve you you naturally start to be in this
high vibrational state now how do you go about this process without being fake
the key is in the most cliched thing you've probably heard me talk about I
talk about this a lot it is following your passion it's following your passion
because the passionate feeling inside of you is who you are it is your body
telling you do this thing do you feel how good this feels this is you and when
you follow that passion you aren't being fake you are being who you really are
because that passionate feeling inside of you is who you are so there is no
faking it till you make it the only time they were faking it till we make it is
when we believe that we have to be something that we're not and please be
something that is someone else's goal we might say I want to make a million
dollars but why do you want that million dollars not that the million dollars is
bad and I'm not even saying not to do it be aware of why you want it and you may
see that getting the million dollars isn't even what you're really passionate
about but if you have first off your goal on what you're passionate about
then the million dollars can come you see people go about things backwards so
they're trying to fake it till they make it well they're trying to go straight to
the thing that they think they want when if you were to go for your passion you
would enjoy the whole entire journey along the way so me I may have goals
like that but it's primarily focused on that of my passion which means I enjoy
the process which means I'm in a high vibrational state which means I'm not
faking it because I don't have to fake it because I'm doing these videos every
single day and I love making these videos and they are Who I am so because
of that it's a natural byproduct of that so focus on
you being the best version of you and finding out what you're passionate is
because the feeling of passion is your body saying yo this is who you are this
is who you are and when you start to become who you really are you'll then
start to see that you can let go of all of the things that are no longer you the
little the little social conditioning or like what do people think of me how am i
coming up to people the thing is is that isn't even you anyways you are so much
more than you could even imagine now what's an easy way to do this
well farce off you got to find your passion set the intention to find your
passion if you don't know your passion right now it's okay but set the
intention for you to find your passion and then you'll start to see things in
your life you're gonna happen you may be somewhere at the coffee shop or the tea
shop or wherever you go and something I might say hey or that you may hear
overhear a conversation someone talking about something Oh sounds interesting
then you follow your passion you know that it may lead to something else so
then you go and you go read a book about it and you're like oh well there's this
idea in the book I'm gonna go check that out you go to a museum or something you
learn as you go set the intention because the intention will show you what
that is now the other thing of this imagine the best-case-scenario version
of you doing what you love for a living imagine you in the kind of lifestyle
you'd love to live imagine how other people respond to you imagine that
version of you now first off that version of you already exists because
there's an infinite number of parallel reality realities that exist I mean this
is like maybe a whole nother video in itself but the version of you already
exists so when you think oh I gotta create my own reality I don't got to
create this version of me fake it till I make it it already exists it's just
about you embody the frequency of that version of you pay attention using your
imagination to that version of you now how does that version of you think act
and feel because these three things make up the vibration how does that version
of you think act and feel what are the consistent thoughts that version of you
has what kind of people are you talking to
what kind of emotions do you have consistently how do you feel what kind
of things make you feel a certain way what kind of when do you feel positive
emotion how are you acting as that version of you what actions are you
taking what daily habits do you have these three things make up that version
of you now as long as that version of you is connected to your passion you can
see that then what you can do is you can start to embody the passion in your life
now that version of you is the more authentic version of you but remember
you don't have to beat yourself up because you're like I'm here and that's
the authentic version of me all you have to do is choose to start to follow your
passion more and accept with where you are we are always doing the best we can
with where we are whether we're aware of it or not because we've rationalized
where we are so in order for you to become this authentic version of you you
have to first off say yes to where you are because otherwise you can't change
because if you feel resistance for where you are you hold yourself where you are
so I'm not where I want Here I am I'm not where I want to be over there but
I'm not over there yet and you just sit there and beat yourself up about it
instead of accept the fact oh I'm over here and I'm going to walk over there
and then you just walk over there and now I'm gonna do the rest of the video
from over here and I'm not gonna be in the frame so I'm just kidding anyways
the idea is that you don't resist where you currently are you allow yourself to
be where you currently are I'm gonna step up just a little bit and what you
then do is you focus on how you think act and feel and you just focus on
combining these three things with your passion that's what you do follow your
passion however say yes to the present moment and say yes to the dress say yes
to everything say yes to who you are understand that
who you are is more than you can even imagine
so when we sit within ourselves and we think that we're only capable of doing X
Y or Z that is of the old self image the old identity based on prior reference
experiences the key is say yes to that because you don't want
to resist it but then to choose a new way of looking at it and to choose a
higher level of awareness because when you see your life in this grander
perspective you can then see how it led you to where you need to be so where you
are is totally cool but then you can choose something new so say yes to the
present moment and say yes to who you are so with that being said something
else that I have for you is a the most powerful meditation that I have made for
that of completing the past this is where you become aware of the old
patterns of the past which is that social conditioning that I'm talking
about what you do is you listen to this meditation for 21 days you can see and
look at the comments on this YouTube video to see what it's possible for you
there's a ton of people that I've had amazing experiences with it because what
you do is you bring up uncompleted experiences of the past you feel them
and then you let them go it's all you do so when you do that and then I what
happens in the meditations you get washed over with unconditional love and
bliss it's a very powerful meditation for that and what it does is it allows
you to let go of these patterns so that you let go these levels of authenticity
so you start to become more who you really are so like I said listen to that
meditation for 21 days if you want to know more just look at the comments in
there you'll see what's possible for you I'll also I'll be doing more live cue
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