verse 2 of chapter 13 then he was sick over his sister for she was a virgin and
it was improper improper means it was not alright for Amnon to date or be
with his sister well for most was like duh Dude she's your half-sister you you crazy
or what and she's 15 for crying out loud in those days things were a little bit
different in Leviticus it says that God prohibited Israel for people to date
marry within their family so god prohibited well like stepsister
stepbrothers they couldn't do that so what do you do when you have a crush
on somebody and God's Word says no I know you probably don't have this
problem but I'm pretty sure you have had a crush on somebody that God's Word
is very clear not good well your parents told you it's not good
or somebody else this is not good for you they're not a believer for example
or maybe they're it's same-sex or or it's something else but you have strong
feelings what do you do now if you're not a believer if you're not a follower
of Jesus Christ what do you do well you do nothing you let the feelings take
control why because in Christians God is love but if you're not a Christian love
is God
what love wants love gets there are people applying for a marriage license with the
horse in the United States there is a person that's applying for a marriage
license with his laptop this is real can google it you know why because they said
well if a man can marry a man because of love why can't I marry a horse because
of love and who are you to judge why anytime you make love at God we're gonna
have a twisted Society because anything you love becomes legal love becomes the
moral standard my god is love but love is not God can somebody say Amen and so
what I want you to see here as a believer now if you're not a believer
for example and you know you're attracted to the same sex or you you
know honestly you can do whatever you want the reason why is because you are
your own God so whatever you come up with and you
usually come up with rules as you go whatever you come up with
honestly I stand aside and I will not judge you why I don't judge fish for
swimming and fish fish for swimming birds for flying men for walking on the
ground and i don't judge sinners for sinning it's who they are we don't judge
but if you are a believer who submitted and whose God is not you but the one who
lives in heaven whose Savior is not you but the one who
died on the cross then you have to submit your biology to your theology
your sexuality to your spirituality your feelings to your faith your chemistry to
your Christ why because you have a God and He is your Savior maybe some of your
saying well this is a good moment I want to switch the camp's I don't want to be
a Christian I don't want to tell God to tell me what to do remember if you make
yourself a god you also have to be your Savior
good luck most of you realize by the time you get thirty you're a terrible
God and when you die you realize you're a horrible Savior because you can't save
yourself don't try to control your life see the best thing about as Christians
we understand is this is that yes it's sometimes our flesh wants to do certain
things and when we submit to God you know it maybe brings a little pain to
our flesh but we know that God is good what he wants is good we me and my wife
we have a dog and they done a study and they said that dogs have 300 million
olfactory receptors we have 6 million so dogs
the brain in the dogs the part of the brain that analyzes the smell is 40
times bigger than in my brain so the smell part in the brain in the dog is 40
times bigger than mine and they have 300 receptors 300 million
scepters what I have only six million so you can imagine one thing when a dog
comes in he smells things on the level I will never ever be able to comprehend so
because of that he is drawn to things based on his senses and his smell
for example our dog he doesn't differentiate between underwear and
sandwiches he doest. he doesn't differentiate between pork and between
his food I remember one time they made waffler for a previous internship they
made waffler to sell for the mission trip and so left a waffle on the kitchen
table and the dog during the night went in and he marked all the stacks of
waffler on every single stack don't worry you guys already ate them it's been
about seven months I'm just kidding we didn't sell those we did not sell those
relax he marked all of them now it tasted good it smelled good and then
soul woke up and Jaco was dead he laid that he couldn't move he thought he died
because of all that he ate see he doesn't understand a lot of times on
Mondays is when Jaco doesn't eat he lies sick and he looks dead why because on
Sunday when we take him to my parents house he eats from our table he doesn't
control he he lets his feelings he lets his urge and his his senses tell him
what to eat and then he pays for it on Monday therefore he has people that care
for him and they put a leash on him and the least that we have on him it's not
because we hate him we love that sucker the leash we have in him is not because
we want to kill him it's not because we want him not to have fun it's that
because we know if we don't control those urges he will kill himself see
your theology is the leash on your biology put it on control yourself
control your passions or they will destroy your lives
if you let your sexuality run rampant you will kill your spiritual life you
will kill your financial life you will kill your physical life you will get
things you don't want in your life because you have to allow your
spirituality put a leash on your sexuality