how do you ever notice that some people
seem to have all the luck with women
it's more than just simple charisma
there are some scientific reasons why
certain methods are effective during
social interactions we'll share some
interesting psychological tips and
tricks that work on women before we
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video mirroring they say opposites
attract but at the end of the day we
tend to like people who are similar to
ourselves you don't have to pretend to
be a clone of the woman you're talking
to but by subtly mimicking her behavior
you can easily pique her interest
according to New York University
researchers this is known as the
chameleon effect and it happens when
people unconsciously mimic one another
try to consciously mirror someone's body
language gestures and facial expressions
and see what happens
compliments paying someone a sincere
compliment does more than make them feel
good studies find that if you offer
someone a compliment they actually tend
to associate it with you other than
themselves
it's a phenomenon called spontaneous
trait transference and it's something
you can use to your advantage if you
tell a woman she's trustworthy or a good
listener there's a solid chance she will
feel the same way about you on the flip
side you want to avoid talking
negatively about other people because
your audience will then associate the
unpleasantness with you as well what's
the best compliment you've ever received
flaws when you are attracted to someone
naturally you want to put your best foot
forward but you should know that it's
okay to demonstrate that you're not
perfect during an experiment at the
University of Minnesota participants
listen to recordings of students taking
quizzes people who did well on the quiz
but spilled the coffee at the end of the
interview were rated the highest it
sounds strange but your minor flaws can
make you more relatable and likeable has
this ever happened to you
I contact this is a psychological trick
which is pretty easy to pull off I
contact is a big deal and it can convey
a lot to the person you're talking to
according to social psychologists a sick
group and people generally make eye
contact about thirty to sixty percent of
the time but couples who are in love
with one another make eye contact about
seventy-five percent of the time
does this sound familiar to you you
don't have to stare her down
let try upping the amount of time you
spend looking into her eyes
this shows you're focused on what she's
saying and you feel at ease around her
touching subtle body contact can be a
great way to let someone know you're
interested and enhance their attraction
to you now obviously you always want to
make sure you're not making anyone
uncomfortable but try a brief touch on
the arm when emphasizing the point the
next time you're talking to a woman one
experiment conducted by the University
of Mississippi in Rhodes college showed
that wait staff who briefly touched
their customers on the hands or
shoulders earned much larger tips than
those who didn't
availability when you're interested in
someone it can be tempting to drop
everything in order to hang out with
them but being too available makes it
seem as if you don't have much of a life
and that's the opposite of attractive we
aren't saying you should play
hard-to-get just that it's best not to
let your life revolve around your
romantic relationship making yourself
scarce from time to time can make
getting to spend time with you a much
more appealing prospect Benjamin
Franklin effect
one of Benjamin Franklin's less
well-known contributions to society is
known as the Benjamin Franklin effect
this psychological effect means that the
more you ask someone to do things for
you the more they'll like you it seems
counterintuitive at first but when we do
something nice for someone our brains
tell us we must like them if you can get
a woman to do a favor every now and then
there's a good chance she'll like you
more open up obviously you don't want to
tell her too much too soon but moving
past small talk is a great way to get
close to someone people tend to like
others when they know more about them so
sharing a couple of Secrets is a good
way to establish intimacy since this is
presumably someone you aren't close with
yet don't share anything which would
devastate you if it got out simple
things like how your relationship with
your parents is or something
embarrassing that happened to you once
can make someone feel closer to you keep
in mind that getting people to like you
is a skill like any other it may take
some practice but these tips will make
the process a lot easier
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