How To Make Him Afraid To Lose You.
Do not let that man consider you his safe choice, with these steps you manage to strive
to win his love so he is afraid of losing you.
It is common to think that being permanently aware of the couple, with attention, details,
and signs of love is how he will be attracted to us, but the truth is that men work differently
than women, they are interested in what it represents difficulty to reach
When your partner feels that he has already won you, he stops striving and assumes that
he will always have you by his side, gradually losing interest, you can prevent that from
happening. This way he will not feel safe and will take care not to lose you:
1. Shorten the security supply.
The supply of all those things that you have him so accustomed to that it seems that he
does not value them, for example, in ancient times in addition to each one having to take
care of the dangers of the environment, predators, going out in search of food, today as soon
as he wakes up, you have breakfast ready, he is so used to it that he takes it for granted.
The same can be said of all the attention and details to which you have accustomed him,
an everyday thing that he does not value, it has become routine and that is why your
partner takes it for granted as if it had to be. He does not fear losing it, cut off
the supply from time to time.
What you should do is that one day you do not call him as usual, or do not send him
that text message he expects, or you can forget to prepare the appetizer or dessert, do not
give him that massage that he is accustomed to receiving, or those little details like
speaking to his ear every night before bed, or giving him unbridled passion, simply cut
off the supply.
If necessary you can disappear for a while and cut off the complete supply of your company,
you can take a course and go on a trip, enroll in a hobby club for women that keep you busy,
whatever you want to do, but let him experience the supply shortage of what you give him,
so he remembers what his life would be like without you.
In this way, seeing that you are not around, feeling your absence, it will be he who will
fear losing you and everything he receives from you, well they say that nobody values
what they have until they lose it and that's the way really is, if you're always around
for him, he'll take it for granted.
2. Allow him to doubt.
Make him doubt, otherwise, he will not be afraid to lose you if he experiences the certainty
that he has you one hundred percent. Do you remember one day when you forgot your cell
phone and he was trying to contact you all day and he looked for you desperately?
Occasionally forget it, this is not bad from time to time. Do you remember when you were
just getting to know each other and you pretended to be the "interesting"? When you used to
take your time to answer?, When you gave him long or invented excuses not to see him whenever
he wanted.
Do you remember he doubted and was afraid of not being able to conquer you?
If it worked then why don't you do it now? He is with you as if you were a sure thing
as if he had a job where he could not be fired from for life.
It is not so, you must show with your attitude that your relationship is like a renewable
contract, if the two parties are happy it is prolonged, but If any part does not meet
what is expected, it may not be renewed.
It is important that you consider all this not only for you, you also do it for him,
think what generally drives men crazy? The challenge, all men love challenges, if you
send him messages constantly, if after each argument you ask for forgiveness, what he
will think is that he can have you without much effort.
When there is no challenge, that no effort is involved in conquering you, it kills the
spark of the relationship. Men need to experience the doubt, he must see you like a challenge
every day.
3. Make him feel your limits.
Men are completely different from women, for evolutionary reasons they love the rules,
if you think about sports, games, hobbies that fascinate men, each one has clear rules,
when clearer and more effective better, when those rules are missing, a man gets confused
and the worst of himself arises.
You must define who you are, what you value, what are the limits that you do not allow
to cross, if you are compatible with that man, the more he perceives that you have solid
values, rules, and limits that cannot be violated, he will feel that he knows you and can trust
you.
A woman who takes care of herself and truly loves herself, does not allow or forgive to
be taken on a wrong path, you must base your rules on the values that you really consider
essential, if it is not so, the relationship conveys the feeling of being a game, which
lacks seriousness and there will be no true commitment.
4. You must be congruent.
If you have the philosophy of life that connection and rest are sacred, but every time he talks
to you drunk in the early morning, you answer him immediately because you sleep with the
cell phone waiting for him to report himself, that way he will never be afraid of losing
you because you are his safe choice.
You must be faithful to the principles that you really value, set limits so that if he
ever crosses that line he is afraid to lose you.
By following these simple steps you can get that man to become obsessed with you and take
care of you like nobody else.
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