Hey, it's Mark here, founder of Make Him Yours and creator of Love in Five Steps.
Today, we are talking signs a guy doesn't like you,
so you can know if you're just overthinking things or if he's really not that into you.
Stick around to the end as well because I've got something pretty special for you.
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Hello and welcome. Thank you for joining me today. And we are talking about the signs
that a guy doesn't like you.
So, women are always coming to me wanting to know more about
their situations and to be able to get a better read on men. So look, that's what I want to
help you with today. The signs a guy doesn't like you are important because they're actually
more reliable than the signs that he does.
You can fake signs of interest, but it's really
hard for a guy to avoid giving signs of disinterest when he's not that into you.
So what I want to do today is give you some of the most obvious
ones so you know exactly whether or not the guy is worth your time.
Number one, you've made a clear forward move that was not reciprocated.
Okay, this along with the next one are the two biggest signs a guy isn't interested.
If you've made a clear forward move on a guy and he hasn't responded positively, then he's
not into you. Imagine if a guy made a clear forward move on you.
Now, when I say clear, I mean clear as in he asked you out, he went
in to kiss you, he texted you asking if you wanted to go out with him somewhere.
Are you just going to ignore that? Not in a million years, right?
Never would you ignore that. The biggest sign of disinterest is when you
show a clear sign of interest and then you don't get one back. But it has to be clear
and that's the really important part here.
Texting him, "Hey, how are you?" Or making eyes with him across the room are not clear.
Guys are too stupid to get that!
Clear is you asking him to spend one on one time with you.
Clear could be giving him your number and telling him to call you.
Clear could be telling him even how you feel about him.
If you do one of these things and don't get anything back,
then that is a sure sign a guy isn't into you.
Number two, he leaves gaps as in days where he's out of contact
without explaining why. See, there's a concept I talk about a lot called emotional momentum.
Basically, when a man likes a woman, he wants to continually be on your mind. This is uniform
across all men. The reason is he doesn't want to risk you emotionally wandering away from
him and investing your feelings into another man. So even if he's busy, he'll find time
to text. If he can't, like if he does fly in, fly out work or something like that, he'll
let you know he'll be out of contact and when to expect that he'll be back into contact
again. That way you're not sitting there and getting the wrong impression.
When a man really likes a woman, especially when he's been on a few dates with, he's not
going to let things go three days without contacting. He'll find a way to be on your
mind. So if the guy you're seeing disappears for a week and then make some lame excuse
for it, you've got to remember actions speak much louder than words.
Number three, he doesn't seem to look forward to the next time he gets
to see you. So you're excited to see a guy, you look forward to it.
And hopefully if you're dating authentically, you're not afraid to show that.
And that's true with any guy that you like. And it's the same for men.
Even if he can't be around you, he's going to be excited to have you in his life and will contact
you between meetups, a chat and book another
time versus if he's charming when he's with you,
but then goes strangely distant and gone when he's not.
Bugger that guy, you can do better.
Number four, he's not keen to try exclusivity after a reasonable amount of time. In other
words, he still wants to keep things casual. Now the timeframe with this one can vary a
lot. Um, usually somewhere between one and four months, depending on how often the two
of you see each other. You're probably gonna want to bring up the topic of exclusiveness,
assuming you like the guy. If he wants to keep things casual, despite you delicately reminding
him that if that's what he wants, the same is going to go for you, then you have a man
that's just not into you.
If he doesn't care about you going with other people, he's really not that into you.
And the final thing is he doesn't reciprocate effort you put into him.
A good, healthy relationship is all about balance. It's about two partners investing
in putting effort into one another.
Then that becomes stronger with the relationship. It becomes stronger with your engagement and
marriage. But that pattern starts in dating. So if you're putting all the effort in dating,
you're going to end up with a one sided relationship,
and it's only going to get worse.
Even if you do manage to win that guy into a relationship
with all the effort you're putting in, it's going to be a relationship that doesn't
make you happy because you've trained him. He doesn't have to work for you.
And in doing so, you will have lost his respect. Always judge a
man's potential as a boyfriend relative to the effort he puts into you, not how attractive
he is or how much money he has or any of that rubbish.
Well, that's it. Thanks for watching.
I really hope you enjoyed and remember, really watch for emotional momentum and effort he
puts in and if you're not sure, be vulnerable, give him a clear signal of your interest and
if you don't get one back, you have your answer.
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Thank you so much for watching. I really hope this video helped you figure out your situation
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