Do you want to know how to talk to a girl that you like?
Are you not sure what to say?
Or how to get her attracted to you?
Do you freeze up in conversation or not even have a clue what to do once you see her?
Today, I'm going to go over 4 hacks that will help you build rapport between you and any
girl.
Stay tuned.
Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you steps on how to get the girl while still
being your genuine self.
Today, we're talking about how to talk to a girl you like.
I know it can be difficult for you to get a girl to like you, especially the one you've
been pining after, or maybe even just a random girl you just met.
Today, let me tell you some easy techniques to use when you talk to a girl that you like
that will make her feel more comfortable and connected to you.
These are what's called NLP techniques, short for neuro linguistic programming.
These can be very powerful, so use them with caution.
Number one is parotting.
Parotting is a technique used when you want to play someone's words.
It's literally repeating every word from what a person says.
Why does this work?
Because when you repeat what someone says, that shows that you're listening.
When someone feels that they're being listened to, they feel more connected to that person.
An example of parotting would be if a girl said she grew up in the suburbs of Chicago.
You might say back, oh, interesting, you grew up in the suburbs of Chicago?
See how I didn't leave out a word.
Let me warn you, you only want to use this sporadically in conversation.
You don't want to constantly parrot someone, or else they might think that you're talking
down to them.
Only use it in the beginning of a conversation and toward the middle so that they know you're
still with them.
Second is touch.
Touching is another technique that helps build trust.
Multiple studies and social experiments have been done on the science of touch.
It's been proven that a light touch, for example, on the arm can help the person that you're
talking to actually like you more.
The next time you talk to a girl, lightly touch her on her arm where you're making a
point in something that you're saying.
Another trick is to keep on doing it, if and only if she seems to accept it and not feel
creeped out.
Either way, after the first touch, she should feel more comfortable with you.
Number three is body mirroring.
Body mirroring is another way to gain rapport with someone.
If the girl is leaning against a wall when you're talking to her, you should mirror her
body language in that exact same way.
If she's holding her drink down, for example, you'll want to do the same.
Mirroring your body language to the person you're talking to subconsciously makes them
feel connected to you because you're moving in the same way that they do.
In fact, mirroring happens all the time, whether you force it or not.
People who are in intense conversation tend to do it without even knowing it.
Number four match the energy.
Similar to mirroring their body language, you should match their energy levels if you
want to really connect with someone.
They are excited with high energy?
Then you should have high energy.
If they are more reserved and quiet, you should be a little more quiet.
In fact, I talked about how to talk to shy girls in a video right here.
Matching their energy will help the person feel more connected to you.
It will be easier for them to talk to you.
Imagine trying to have a conversation with someone who is wild and out of control when
you're feeling the exact opposite.
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Thank you so much for watching.
I'll see you on the next video.