I cannot wait I cannot wait to see how many people in the comment section try
to call me a hypocrite while all of you are forgetting rule number one which is
don't be a dick what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired so what
we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my
channel my channel is all about mental health and what I like to do is pull
different topics from the YouTube community to try to teach you how to
improve your mental and emotional well-being so the end that stuff make
sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and for all of you who
I'm talking about in this video I just want to remind you that rewire your
anger is now available in audiobook form all right so make sure you check down in
the description below as well as down in the pin comment alright because people
need to start working on their anger and I really hope I really hope this message
gets through to a lot of you all right I'm gonna start off by saying this for
any of you watching my video who have assumed that I like hey Trisha
because of the videos I've made in the past you clearly you clearly are not
paying attention to what my videos are what they're about and who I am as a
person I cover Trisha Paytas and Jason Nash's you know
relationship to use it as an example of what should and should not be happening
in a relationship and one of those reasons being which I think Trisha
missed you know when watching my videos is that I can relate because I was in
relationships like this so I know what the sides are and I'm coming from a
place of experience alright so do I appreciate the things that she said
about me in her video absolutely not do I think that it should be promoted a
toxic relationship online to millions of people absolutely not but I can
understand you know that Trisha Paytas was upset and that's why she said a lot of
the things that she said about me I actually talked about this in my book
about rewire your anger like I am empathetic I understand why people get
angry and it helps me not retaliate in the same
but here's a story about why I'm making this video in the first place alright so
since the little drama between Trisha Paytas and I if you want to call it that
I backed off of making videos about her you know I made a video a week or two
ago maybe last week about her fans but not directly about her
alright but anyways I backed off a little bit clearly she was hurt she was
upset I was like let's just chill out there's plenty of stuff to talk about on
YouTube you know what I mean but at the same time and I don't know I don't know
this is speculation if you will maybe maybe Trish learn from the situation
between us as well because over the past couple weeks since this happened her and
Jason Nash haven't been posting like their fights and you know the toxic
stuff that goes on in the relationship now are these things improving in their
relationship maybe have they just decided to keep that stuff offline so
guys like me don't use it as an example maybe but kudos to hurt either way
because usually because I don't even watch Trish's videos a lot of the videos
that I've made commentary on to use as examples for relationship advice you
guys send them to me so anything right so that's another
thing that might be going on but here's the thing when I've kind of like checked
in to see what's going on and I follow her on social media like Instagram and
Twitter as well but like I've been proud of her like the girls been hitting the
gym and I'm like you go girl like I've been hitting the gym - over the past few
weeks I've got my butt back in the gym I actually went to the gym this morning
you know so I've been Pettifer before going to the gym like I give credit
where credit's due here's the thing here's the thing
everybody you know that black-and-white thinking I keep trying to teach you guys
about people are not all good and they're not all bad I try to give people
credit where credit's due a lot of you haven't seen it but a long time ago I
actually made a very positive video about Trisha Paytas when she started to
go to therapy and she opened up about self-sabotage
but I'm gonna give her credit for going to the gym like this is a good example
is a good example to set for her audience like hey listen I'm going to
the gym I'm trying to get better in shape and stuff like that so I checked
out the new video she posted where she was just finishing up in the gym she was
like out of breath she was like talking about it it was actually like talking
about like pushing herself and stuff like that I'm like that's cool that's
cool okay I got a trainer now so I'm working
out obviously but the harder I push myself the more of a work I get because
he can give me the moves but if I'm half asking the moves or if he would say jus
20 and a passive I don't care how you do 15 that's good but now I really push
myself to do the 20 even if it takes me longer like what is it's like a love 15
right now so even if it takes me longer I'm fine with that time that somebody
I'll stay an extra 15 minutes I'm like I just need to breathe catch myself and
finish this this sad that's like motivational you know because not only
you know like do we have to do this with a physical house but we have to do that
with our mental health too right like I'm trying to teach you guys that your
mental health is just as important as your physical health so like people you
know we we think a lot about like we go to the gym I push yourself run run an
extra mile you know stay on the treadmill like an extra 20 minutes you
know lift five or ten more pounds do one more rep you know we push ourselves but
think about that when it comes to our mental health right like go to this
social situation stay in that situation a little bit longer talk to a stranger
today reach out and ask for fun how they're doing today like you can do the
same thing with your mental health just push yourself just a little bit so I was
like oh this is cool like this is a good example and I hope people are learning
from that but oh my god then then I read the freaking comments all right I'm not
even actually I'm not even gonna read them I'm just gonna put them up here on
the screen right now like holy crap like holy crap you guys like man like I don't
know now I'm starting to understand a little bit about why she was offended by
me like if this is the kind of stuff she's getting I'm like Jesus Christ
people and here's what breaks my heart I know some of you were like you called me
like the dad of YouTube but now it's really about the show like I even saw
some of my rewired soldiers in this video in the comment section talking
crap and like god I'm such a
I'm disappointed in you I'm disappointed in you that is not that is not what my
channel is about right and like here's the here's the thing too like I actually
got a comment just this morning and maybe maybe before I read this comment
to you like maybe that's why I'm making this video because when it comes to
weight struggles and trying to get healthy like I can definitely relate to
Tricia in this just like I could relate to her relationship with Jason like you
guys that's what I'm doing here with my channel I'm trying to help you guys
learn and see what can you relate to what can you improve on but like I can
relate to this so here's the comment that I actually got this morning okay go
spend more time outside exercising like spending more time outside playing with
your son instead of making YouTube videos while you keep gaining weight and
are slowly killing yourself as you're judging strangers mental health and
giving advice without Craig and without credentials at all and everyone can call
me mean or a bully but I'm just stating facts and as a registered nurse so I do
actually can't say something about someone's health because I actually
studied for it I am seriously concerned for his long-term health I don't want
his kid to grow up without a father because his father died of a heart
attack while sitting in his chair filming
another YouTube video he probably switched his addiction to food after he
went sober which we see a lot with drug addicts that go clean that's why people
who stop smoking often gain weight they switch the addiction to something else
but since food isn't a harmful drug as doctors as helpful as drugs doctors
don't try more to prevent weight gain after detox but then 10 years later it's
a cardiologists problem because he's filled with plaque develop diabetes and
is going to die from an addiction just not drugs but food so this is actually
on my my conspiracy video where I talked about better help so just to give you
some context for my response I said that's the interesting conspiracy but
unfortunately it's inaccurate this is why you have to do your research before
coming up with such an in-depth conspiracy I'm down 50 pounds in the
last year I go to the gym on budget and just had a doctor's visit where she
said I'm doing great I'm only telling you this so you can work on your
conspiracies so they'll be more solid in the future I just want you to succeed
Sharon so yeah I got a little sassy in that but yeah like this is something I
get a lot so by the way I'm not gonna dive into the story but you guys check
out my my playlist losing weight mindfully but I actually explained how
my drug addiction made me put on a lot of weight like before I got into my
addiction I was only about 220 or 230 something around there and when I got
sober six and a half years ago at 27 years old I was about 450 pounds okay so
since I got sober I am down to 350 pounds all right so like I'm actually I
know I know exactly what she's talking about
it's just a shame that she like came at me sideways because of it but just
looking at me you if you're just meeting me for the first time you don't realize
that I'm actually lost a lot of weight and I am improving my life quite a bit
and part of what happened when I first got sober was I had congestive heart
failure okay my heart was about the size of my
lung out of 10% chance of living because of the drugs I was doing because the
alcohol I drank so my doctor's visit I just had it was a follow up because of
an echocardiogram I got and she said my heart is doing
amazing all things considered and my doctor's proud of me for my weight loss
all right so I'm not perfect yet but I am working on it anyways after I said
that she replied and said well then I'm sorry for jumping the gun I'm very happy
for you working on your health and that you're healthier at the moment I still
don't agree that you're acting like a psychiatrist when you're not but I guess
my opinion on that is it going to change things also a fact can't be a conspiracy
attics do tend to shift their addiction from drugs or alcohol do food or
cigarettes but keep up the good work and I truly hope you and your son have many
years together and then I replied with I appreciate you so yeah like maybe this
is I'm you know empathetic towards Tricia
in this situation cuz I get stuff like this you know and like I just talked
about this in my video about Eugenia Cooney okay
don't shame people like people will argue that they you know they care or
they're concerned well give credit where credit's due without enabling the
behavior so like I get it because like Trisha I'm going to the gym I've been
vegetarian for over a year and stuff like that but my eating habits are not
where they should be yet okay so although I'm not doing book bombs on you
know camera on YouTube my eating habits aren't the best and it's something that
I'm trying to work on and when I say trying I don't like that word
I need to do better alright but the last thing I will say Papa Chris of the
rewired so the last thing I'll say something that broke my heart is in the
video where I responded to Trisha you know getting upset with me and you know
like I kept it cool and you know that's just who I am like I just pointed out
you know like I'm not skeptical you admitted to this and you know whatever
like what broke my heart was looking in the comments and seeing my audience you
know just talking all this trash to her right like listen you can defend
somebody without telling the other person down okay let me repeat that for
the people in the back you can defend somebody without trying to tear the
other person down alright go back to the golden rule do not be a dick okay like
this stuff it just does not fix anything you want an example how many arguments
have you had with a significant other where they came at and attacked you and
then you return thereby attacking them like did they ever say oh good point
thanks for attacking me problem song no that never happens okay attack does not
cure the other attack you know we can't just keep going back and forth alright
that's what we're tacking on would say like this petty bull BS like that's one
of the reasons why I backed off from the videos because I didn't want to come off
as petty I just decided to you know do other you know videos and topics and
things like that but anyways you guys just be a little bit nicer to people and
you know 20 encouraged each other I don't know like I know I'm
not under any crazy belief that I'm gonna solve the internet main problem a
bullying problem but for any of you who are trying to follow my channel and
follow what I'm trying to do here like do me a favor and just quit I trying to
tear people down online but when you're commenting like it's man here's your
father Chris one last time like if you don't have something nice to say this is
toast say it at all like you can watch a video without
leaving a nasty comment alright anyways if you find yourself struggling with
leaving nasty comments and just generally being a jerk to people don't
forget pick up a copy of rewire your anger now
available as an audio book for the low price of $7.99 alright but anyways if
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