Salutations gentlemen and playboys alike - JT Tran here. In this week's dating advice video, I'm
going to bring you and address a very exciting topic that I know you guys are going to love
because we've all had our hearts broken, right? And we've all wondered why did she break up
with us and how do we get our ex-girlfriend back? That's today's topic. How do we get the ex-
girlfriend back?
First of all, I like to call this the Kate Middleton method. Now, you're wondering-what? What
kind of name is that, especially for a pickup channel? Bear with me. All right, girls have some of
the best pickup technology out there. They might not really define it in the scientific way that we
do, but I have seen girls, especially when gaming celebrities-I have seen this firsthand when
they're trying to game Quentin Tarantino, Wesley Snipes, Don Cheadle, Rampage Jackson -
what girls do to get the celebrities' attention. I'm not going to address how girls should pick up
guys - that's actually our upcoming video. But today I'm going to talk about how do you guys
get the ex-girlfriend back? The sure-fire way of getting that ex-girlfriend back. I've used this to
get an ex-girlfriend back, my friends have used this and some of my students.
Actually, last week, I got this text from Evan. He said, hey I fly back tomorrow, I was actually
going to see if I could come to your seminar I saw you posted about - it was a free seminar. But I
actually have a date with one of my exes who I actually picked up using your methods-a 24
year old white girl from Orange County. Go Asians, like, yes!
So, that's from Evan and this works.
Background to this is, I love observing girls and in this particular case, Kate Middleton was this
middle-class girl that somehow started dating one of the most eligible bachelors in the world,
basically-Prince William. They end up breaking up because he has tons of options, but she does
all of these things that end up making him fall back in love with her. So you can do the same
thing. This also presumes that she broke up with you. Okay, it's a little bit different; the power
dynamic is obviously different if you break up with her but assume that she breaks up with you,
it's going to be for a couple of reasons, like she was changing, there was something missing from
the relationship or you changed or, very likely, you didn't change while she was trying to evolve.
But for various reasons she felt better off not having you in her life. What you want to show is
that you are actually better off without her so now she's wondering what is she missing - was
she holding you back from fulfilling your potential?
Step One to getting your ex-girlfriend back is get in shape. This is especially true for many of
you guys and admit it, we all do this in a relationship, you kind of got lazy around her so get in
shape. Stop being a fat, lazy slob. Get out there whether it's working out, swimming, sports-get
in shape. You want her to look at you in a new light because obviously the sexual attraction went
away so you need to get that sexual attraction back.
Which comes to my second part - get sexy. Put on some new threads. Go shopping. Get your
clothes fitted. Get a suit. Put on a really nice necktie or various accoutrements. You want to get
sexy. Again, you need to re-spark that attraction because she's looking at you in a very more
platonic-I'm better off without him-light.
So get in shape, get sexy and now, get out there. Show that you have a positive and active
lifestyle. You can't be staying at home, all right, guys? You can't be moping around and
Facebook stalking her and pressing like, like, like - you don't want to be that Facebook creeper.
Get out there. Whatever hobbies are that you had before that you dropped, start doing them
again. Start hanging out with all the friends you might have dropped while you're dating her. Get
out there. Be proactive, take pictures, take selfies, put them up on Facebook or Instagram. Blow
up your social media because you want her to be able to say like, wow, there's something
different about him. That's one of the key - you have to show that you're different, that you're
better, that she made a mistake breaking up with you and that she's missing something by being
broken up with you.
Next is, get partying. You want to get out there and you want to be social-proof. For those of you
who don't know, social-proof is about having more women around you and by having more
women around you, you become more attractive. It's sort of like that old joke, how are men like
snowstorms? You don't know how many inches you're going to get and you don't know how
long it will last. What girls are looking for is a viable dating partner. So, when you have women
around you and they're having fun, it shows that you're different-it shows women have
preselected you for friendship or quite possibly sex. You want to show that you're out there and
other women find you attractive and nothing drives girls more crazy than other girls wanting
something that she had, especially if those girls are hotter than her.
Another part about that is you can throw a house party, and you can kind of casually invite your
ex-girlfriend out there and when she sees that you are the leader, you are the host, the guys and
girls are following you around, she's going to instinctually have a little bit of that jealousy. As I
say, attraction is not a choice. So get partying. There's a certain limit, though. You don't want to
get to the point that you're putting up pictures of you and some other girls snogging or making
out. You can go up to what we call the ABCs, up to C, right? Just don't go D. You don't want to
go to that point because then you're going to become a little bit hands off, there will be too much
sexual play there. Get up to the point of A, B, and C - show that girls like you but don't put up
any make-out pictures of you doing the walk of shame, something home, out of bed.
And then, get aloof. What that means is, you keep her on your Facebook or whatever social
media you have but you put the notifications so that you don't get any notifications when she
posts, when she comments, so that you aren't obsessing about her. You have to put like-out of
sight, out of mind-because otherwise you're going to be Facebook stalking her. Keep the
profile up and let her see that you're living the kind of lifestyle that she only wished that she
could be a part of but now isn't because she missed out on the best version of you-the 2.0
version of you. So don't ignore her but at the same time, absolutely do not try to seek her out.
Don't be like texting her you want to hang out. Don't be like Facebook creeping her.
Like I said, you can throw a party but you send a wide invitation to all your friends. You cannot
seem like you're chasing her. You need to make her chase you. You need her to make her invest
into you because probably one of the reasons she broke up with you was because you might have
gotten needy, you might have gotten desperate, or you just got lazy. So by doing all these steps,
you're going to show that your lifestyle is actually better off without her and there is nothing that
is going to frustrate a girl more than knowing that she lost-that she had a chance with the bigger
and better guy, which is you-the 2.0 version of you.
The side benefit of all of this, of you getting your ex-girlfriend back, is that you might realize
that you might not even want her because now you're living the high quality lifestyle that you're
having fun, you're enjoying yourself, you're enjoying your friends and you might already be
surrounded by beautiful girls. So there you go, guys. That's the way to get your ex-girlfriend
back. Stay tuned for the next videos. Enjoy.